This might sound stupid but i still need advice Help plz!!!?

ok so i wanted to know if u think that it's really wrong or ok for a girl of 16( almost 17) to be dating a guy who's around 30 - 32. because to me age doesnt really matter it's just a number but i wanted to know what others think. trust me i'm not just some ditzy teenager who's just wanting to be with an older guy . so take that into consideration plz and also tell me y u think it's ok or y u don't think it's right. thanx i really appreciate it!!This might sound stupid but i still need advice Help plz!!!?
No, it's not okay.





I'll take your word that you are mature for your age - but in saying that, you really have to stop and ask yourself what a 30+ year old guy wants with a 16 or 17 year old?





Seriously think about that...and take a good look at the guy - what does a 30+ year old guy have in common with a 16 or 17 year old? I would bet that if you watched him, he probably doesn't even notice women his own age - he probably only notices young girls...





Now if you had a daughter who was 16 and some 30+ year old guy wanted to date (and probably have sex with) your little girl, how would you feel about that?





If you had a 12 year old sister who was ';mature for her age';, would you be okay with a 27 year old guy wanting to date her?





Something is WRONG (mentally and emotionally) with a man of his age wanting to be dating someone your age.This might sound stupid but i still need advice Help plz!!!?
its illegal.
When I was 19, I had no interest in ANYONE more than 1 year younger than I. What kind of sick twisted freak, aged 30 would want to have a relationship with a child?
It is wrong, for it comes off less for love and more for sex
it depends on the guy.
it doesn't matter. age is only a number.. if you love him then thats what matters!!!
Its not what we all think, its what you think and your parents. If they are against it then its not for us to say. I dont think age matters but you are only young and it could be puppy love for you. He is probably into a more mature relationship and he probably will figure that out in time. Maybe the sex is good for him right now but your age difference could cause problems in the fact that your mind is not even developed yet.
i don't think it's a good thing. there are too many differences, where you are in your life and where he is in his. there are things that you need to go through and by dating someone so much older won't allow you to do that, and you may end up resenting him in the end. that wouldn't be fair to you or him.
it is ok to date older guys, but no more than 10 years apart
umm yea !!! it matters big time!!! ok the older the guy the more they want ... and i dont know if your a chirstian or not but he will probably want to push you into doing stuff you dont want to do ... i mean its not the same as a 18 year old and a 16 year old.... 17 and 30 are way far apart.... 10 years apart maybe but 14 years... i dont know girl you got your self in a mess...
uuh... do you realise when your 32 he will be nearly 60?





You will be in the prime of your life and he will be retiring and going all wrinkly....
I personaly think its perfectly normal to be atraccted to and older guy...If thats what you like.





just the same as a skinny guy who lieks fat women,or fat guys who like skinny women





its all about prefrence if your into him thats you





and im happy your happy!!





good luck hun!!!!!!!!!!!!
if the teen was 18 to me that's okay but they are both adults and old enough to see the decision they are making, but as for 15 and 16 years olds being a 32 year old....somehow its just not right because an adult is going out with a child.
I don't want to necessarily judge you on this - but don't you think it's a LITTLE weird that a guy would want to date someone who's barely half his age?





But - it's your life and your choice. I'm not saying it's wrong (although you might need to look into the statuatory laws in your state) - but consider how much y'all TRULY have in common and what the relationship will be like in the long run.
In this case, age does matter. It's not a number of years thing, it's life. He has way more experience than you do, and I don't mean sexually. Unless you were emancipated at age 12, you don't really understand his world. And it's kind of creepy that he would go for someone so much younger. He probably has some serious issues.
Yeahhhhhhhhhh, hellllllllllllllooooooooooooo in there anyone home...you should no better.





She's too young!
Yes it is wrong. She is still a child in the eyes of the law and she would aslo be known as jail bait. You could end up in jail for dating her.
You're fine, and completely normal. Go for it. Just don't get too physical before it is legal.
no i dont you are reaaly too young andyou dont wnt to have him in trouble with the law of you age different. if you are in


the 25 yrs of age . it will make a differnt, not your teenage year. you still got a year to grow up take advanger of it. you


are still much as a child as ever.