Monday, August 23, 2010

I need advice/help on separation and child custody.?

we have been separated since october 07 and tried to reconcile 2 weeks ago but we can't seem to communicate. i'm scared to have him see our son, he might not bring him back. he's going to council for things that happened to him when he was younger, and what he did early in life b4 i met him. my ? is when is enough enough? i'm thinking of filing for full custody.i'm not angry or i don't have ';trying to get back @him'; issues i'm just afraid he might snap.we tried to be together but he yelled at the kids, and spanked our son, he's 17 months old. i thought we could work it out and he filed his taxes and used our son to claim now he won't give him any $ to help with expenses. he just says we(his mom and him) will keep the money for him. i'm stuck. i need help filing for custody and will try for support legally. when do you say okay that's it i'm done is their an easy way to go on with life? i feel used and completely ignorant.I need advice/help on separation and child custody.?
You need to filing with the courts asap. Don't worry about what he and other people will think you should only be concerned with WHATS BEST FOR MY CHILD. The courts can regulate visitation and child support and who will claim what on taxes to late for this . You need to be honest with the courts so they can deal with everything. Once you have an order from a Judge then that is binding. File with your courts I'm sure you can either go down to your court and ask questions they should have a help desk or you can probably get on line with their website to get info. But do something soon.

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