Saturday, August 21, 2010

Ex advice, help pleaaaaaaaasee?

okay so this boy, we'll call him andrew* and this girl, we'll call her susie* and me.





so andrew and susie when he was a freshman and she was in seventh grade. he so called fell in love with her and has been in love with her ever since. well things got to tough (hiding relationship for parents) and they called it quits and started seeing other people. yet hes ';still in love'; with her.





so i meet andrew when hes a sophmore and im a freshman.


we talked for like a month and a half, then started dating, we dated for like four months, then he kept talking and confessing his love for susie. so i broke up with him, but he guilted me and i took him back. then later, i went out of town, and he cheated on me with her. so we broke it off.





after ignoring him for a month, they got in a fight and he ran to me. ofcourse, i took him back.


then now after two weeks hes back with her.





i really just want to hate him, but i havent fallen out of love yet.





what should i do?


thaaaaaaanks!Ex advice, help pleaaaaaaaasee?
Hate the fact that he's not the guy you needed him to be and wasted so much time on him, have a few days to fell rotten and cry, then get good and mad and get rid of (or pack up at least and PUT AWAY) mementos (have a BBQ/ritual fire for the stuff-very cleansing LOL), go out with your friends and celebrate your availability for a new mature guy who has his baggage checked at the station already! And don't look back -Ex's are Ex's for a REASON!!! That means no taking calls,emails, texting,--NADDA - cut him off, he is DONE! Oh yeah, VOW to never date a guy that isn't emotionally totally available and learn the signs so you don't fall for Mr Wrong again ;) He wasn't the one for you sweetie, and now your free to meet the guy who is!!!!Ex advice, help pleaaaaaaaasee?
It's kind of hard to do but when he goes back to you, you have to say no! He's always going to keep doing that as long as he knows your always goin to be there for him and always going to take him back.He might even realize that he really cares about you!
err andrew is a di ck head leave him bc he his gonna cheat ova n ova agen n i cant bare that...u have to leave him with susie or u both leave him for good his sounds like a low life to me even though my name is andrew 2 %26gt;.%26lt;

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