Relationship Advice! Help >>?

Ok. I have a boyfriend and we have a child together ! And i love him from the bottom of my heart . We have been together for umm..3 years going on 4. And we have been on the realtionship rollcoaster for forever. I hate how he treats me i stay with my mom he stays with his we use to stay together until he couldn't keep up with and rent ,lights,and other things because of his mom. Speaking of her let me tell you about her she is the reason for it she keep asking him for light bill money every single month . And thats the reason for no apart. He comes over my house only at night and sleeps while he's here gets up and says well ill see you tomorrow. Like huh what .!? I sit in the house everyday in my room with my baby . He doesn't take us anywhere but rides his friends and mom in the car that he said he was getting for us to finally go places in . His mom and sisters are in the car more than we sit in it! I can't talk to him about any problem in the relation. cause he will get mad more...Relationship Advice! Help %26gt;%26gt;?
Can you list 5 reasons why you love him?


5 honest, non-superficial reasons?


After doing that, then ask yourself, If my best friend came to me with this story, what would I (that's you) tell her?


Then ask yourself, what would I say if MY CHILD came to me with this question? (you do understand that our children grow up to imitate their parents and their actions and/or reactions)


Once you've done all that, then you should know what to do and what is best for you and your child.


Sometimes the answer is right in front of us, we just choose not to see it sometimes.Relationship Advice! Help %26gt;%26gt;?
You cannot have a healthy relationship with that boy.


Your better off leaving him and becoming independant.


If you stay he will make you doubt yourself, grow frustrated and depressed and incapable of looking after yourself and your child.





Also, why teach your child that his behaviour is OK to accept or even copy?





Leave him. Run, get away and start over on your own.


Then your life can improve and you'll have room for somebody GOOD to come into it.