I need Female Advice...?help?

Ive been chasing this girl for along time..we dated for 2 months but i pushed her away..i made a mistake...she plays alot of games because of this..i chased her for 2 months now shes talking to me again...we had lunch 2 saturdays ago...and we talked last wed...fri...and sunday...we went 6 weeks before that where she wouldnt even answer my call......monday i emailed her asking her if she was up for lunch this week..she said her weeks really busy at least until thursday..but possibly friday..i sent her back friday could work, will have to set somthing up....and thats the last time we talked..is it to soon for me to call her and ask her if shes up for lunch friday....or should i wait for tommorow....ive been putting almost all the effort into making plans for lunch...i dont want to seem desperate...so should i call her today and ask her if shes up for lunch friday? or should i wait till tommorow? how should i go about this...I need Female Advice...?help?
I think if you want to make plans you better have them planed out before the day before the date. Call her on the phone and see what's up. If she dis's you again, then maybe she's not all that interested. Good luck.I need Female Advice...?help?
Sounds like you brushed her off and now she is brushing you off. You could always try to meet someone through the personal ads of your local paper....Have you offered to buy lunch or do you go dutch?
wait till thursday AFTER LUNCH to email, text, or call. then if she declines...lay off for at least a week...and dont mention another invite until after the full week has gone by. if she declines...then she's definitely playing games with you. you probably deserve better than the treatment you're getting...but i dont know the situation fully, so i couldnt say for sure.


i just hate dating, dont you? lol
i think since u put all the effort into it u should call her enwayz it shows that u care still u kno? if u don't ur kinda like pushing her off again u get wut i mean? i think u shud take a chance. i mean what harm will it do to u? if u guys break up then that probably means u guys weren't right for each other
Your problem isn't the girl, it's that you're apparently incapable of making decisions without asking a bunch of total strangers on the internet. How the *%26amp;%$#! would we know how you 'should' behave with her any better than YOU would?? Do we know you? Do we know her? Jeez dude, grow a pair.
You shouldn't call if her if you already e-mailed her asking if friday was okay. Wait until mayb tomarrow afternoon IF she doesnt email u back. if she says yes on ur email and u still wanna call just reply to her email saying ';great! i'll give u a call!';
why not call and just ''have a normal conversation'' with her? let lunch on friday be the last thing you say before you hang up...start on the phone by saying, ''I was thinking of a friend i know so I thought i should call''. then just have a normal talk with her....man you need ''dating 101'' get out more and meet other girls...there are millions in every city larger than 800 people.....
I would wait until tomorrow so you don't sound to ';excited'; about it. Just say, hey just wondering if you have thought about Friday at all, if she says no just say OK and end the call, don't try to keep her talking try to be non chalonte (no idea how to spell that)
SHE HAS A MAN NOW
you should wait at least until tomorrow
Dude...did you hurt her feelings in any way shape or form? Girls tend to act like that when you have said something that wasn't nice or completely up-to-your-age.


Send her an email asking her if she's mad at you. If she says yes say that YOU'RE SORRY. If she says no you need to apologize for ANYTHING you have said that she didn't like OKAY? Learn!


After that wait for her to call you whenever she feels like calling you. If she doesn't call then don't call her back ...she doesn't want you!
well here's the thing....right now you need to seem desperate. you totally rejected her and she feels rejected hence why she didn't answer your calls for a month and a half. she's willing to give you another try but only if you show her u r ready....and graveling is the first step.





so yes, call her to be sure she will meet you for lunch on Friday. *shake heads* l love with guys try to be players and it back fires in their faces and then they have to come back crawling....it just makes me feel sooooo very empowered. this is why, men, if u r going to play then make sure your are a contender...you obviously were not. now you just have to swallow your pride if you want the girl back lol
Wait till tomorrow. Don't focus on whether she is or is not ';playing games.'; Let a friendship between you two become stable and let nature take it's course. Have patience man. Call tomorrow though. Good luck.
Perhaps she's not ';playing games'; - maybe she's just decided she's not interested after all.


If you want to feel like you're ';better than nothing';, keep calling, but don't get upset when she doesn't answer promptly.


I say move on and learn from this experience not to mess around with a good thing.


Good luck.
you are taking this too fast if you keep on asking her stuff like that she will think you are too desperate and think you just need any old girl and don't really care. Don't think about her too much for a little while don't ask her to go out just hold conversations that interest her and before you know it she will be asking you if you want to go out with her to lunch and typing on yahoo answers on what she should do.
if you blew her off once already you are screwed. straight out ask her before you waste all your time and even pissed off at the end.
wait till tomorrow... but don't put to much effort into it... there is nothing more fun than a guy who is desperate....
Let her come to you... because she will. I was dating a guy for almost 2 years. He broke up with me this past mothers day. I was devestated since he had asked my father permission to marry me and my father passed in January. After I got over him, he came back and wanted to be friends... while he was seeing his ex that he left me for. We had coffee a few times and I did not want him to hurt the girl he was seeing by seeing me too. Wasn't fair to her... so I ended our coffee sessions... it was just coffee. He broke up with her the next day and told me he wanted me and I was the one. See when you let it go. They come back... I'm not with him BTW... that's a whole other story. The point is play it cool and you will get what you want. If that is really what you want. Good luck!
Look, call her today, and ask her to lunch, make sure you don't go somewhere gross like McDonald's or Perkins, go to a moxie's or a subway, and for a good price range Apple bees' is my favorite.


Hope this helps
Let her call you.
Well it sounds like she's playing hard to get, because she's not completely rejecting you, but she's also not completely falling for you. Just so you don't seem clingy, I'd wait till tomorrow. If she thinks that you have other things to do than just think about her, it will make you seem more desirable.
She's got you right where she wants you! So yeah..I'd leave calling her until tomorrow...just so that you don't seem deserate. And sound all casual about it too :-)
don't be too pushy.U discussed having lunch friday, if she wants to take u up on that offer, she will call u.Don't necessarily play hard to get, but don't be all over her either.