my boyfriend and i of four years have gotten into a small argument. He is slightly immature and decides to break up with me frequently because something in his life isnt going well instead of trying to work with me. We broke up last november and got back together in february and ever since it's been amazing. Now we've gotten into a few bickers lately and he wants to move out to get some space. Its not like i'd mind space, but we've been living together for a while and everything was going great. If he moves out, i lose my favorite part of coming home and seeing him,and cuddling with him at night and watching funny movies and just plain having fun. I want to know what MEN need to be convinced that this relationship is right for you, and not to give up. He is a good man and he just gets scared of commitment sometimes when he feels smothered or confined. Any advice on how i can prove to him that this is silly and that we can work anything out if he only communicated with me would be wonderful. Any advice at all on how men think and what works to show them you mean business. I've given up so many times before when he said he didnt want to be with me, and he always came back. this time I'm not going without a fight. I need to take charge and show him that he loves me. if he doesnt, then he can leave, but if he does, then he needs to work with me. Someone please give me some decent advice? I'd greatly appreciate itAdvice/help PLEASE fiancee/ relationship?
u urself have given the answer in last few sentences of ur question.Fight for ur love as much as u can,If even then he doesnt realise ur importance, its not worth it girl.Leave him and dont allow him to play with u again.He's just taken u for grantedAdvice/help PLEASE fiancee/ relationship?
Look, this guy doesn't want to communicate with you, watch movies or cuddle with you. He has tried living with you and found out that he really doesn't want to be with you. Love you? Love is when someone treats you in a loving manner. Not one thing he had done has anything remotely like love. Sorry, but its time for you to move on. Good luck!
Ive been in the same situation before..we used to spend so much time together planned everything watch movie cuddle live with him.. and his the same thing he needs his space and doesnt want to be confined otherwise he breaks up and never listen..
you have to break up with him.. cos you know he will just take you for granted.. even if your the one insisting to communicate and show him that you're worth it.. IT WONT MATTER.. cos his NOT READY TO BE TIED DOWN..
and his already taking you for granted at this point.. at times he needs to do things and his not feeling that he needs to be with you.. then he tells you he needs space.. YOUR ALL ALONE CRYING AT NIGHT WONDERIN WHAT YOU DID WRONG.. then this guy will come back whenever he wants and pull out that I LOVE YOU BABY i will take care of you and blah blah..
Dont fall for it.. sit down with him and ask him whether he loves you or not.. if he does he will stay and make the relationship work if he doesnt want to listen email it to him write it in the letter of what bugs you and not. and the solution.. if he still needs his space tell him not to come back to your life.
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