I neeeed friend advice. HELP!?

ok me and my friend are both girls and we are 13. there is this kid whos 16 and shes been friends with him forever. just recently he stopped liking her and no longer wants to talk to her at all anymore. but him and i have become friends and we still are and shes mad. shes been doing everything to get him back but its not working. he wants me to stop being friends with her too but i dont want to. how do i do this without losing one or the other?I neeeed friend advice. HELP!?
You might want to be careful. This guy that is 16 doesn't sound innocent to me. I'd say for you to stay with the friend that is your age and gender. I'm 17 and most guys that are my age wouldn't hang out with 13 year old girls without a purpose. Don't ditch your girl friend.I neeeed friend advice. HELP!?
your friend needs to understand that just becuz they aren't friends any more that u have to stop being friends with him. If she was a real friend she would understand.
thts hard. i understand wat ur going thru. the best thing u cood do is confront them. tell them both tht u r not goin 2 pick between nd tell the 16 year old tht its rong 4 him 2 come between u nd ur best friend nd then dnt tlk 2 him 4 about 2 days or so nd then see if he calls or emails or ims u apologizing. wish u the best! im me if u need anything-chelsisflyyxO


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unfortunately, its high school drama that youre dealing with, and nothing will work out the way youd like it to at your age. you can either just be acquaintances with both or pick one for now. id tell your friend that she is being selfish and unfair, but thats something that she wont understand until shes about 10 years older. good luck!
well you should tell them that its to bad because their your friend not theres and if they keep telling you to not be friends with the other person then there not really your friends you should look for new friends
okay this what you do tell them both how you feel, ask them to understand that you can't choose between them cause you like them both as your friend. then explain to the boy that its not fair for him to stop being her friend and become your friend and that youer not going to stand for it. so bring them together and see how that go. if not do what i do lie to them saying that they are saying nice things about each other, for examp:she said that she real miss being your friend please talk her. like that try them both and see how it work.
never ever date or like your friends ex or crush, unless you never want to be friends with your friend again, unless you aren't really that close then go for it.
You need to set them both down and discuss this with them...


Explain that you are not picking one or the other by being both of their friends, and that you will not choose between one or the other. There is nothing wrong with being both their friends, and they are just upset because they think you chose the other one over them.





Work out it with them
Lie. Tell him you are no longer friends with her and tell her you are no longer friends with him.
tell your friend your just friends


if she likes him. If she says that you guys should break


up than she isn't that great of a friend.


talk to both of them
If she's really your friend, then you shouldn't even need to ask this question. Are you going to let him dictate who you can be friends with? Get a grip. Move on.
well are you and him going to date? my experience from that is tell the friend straight up that yall are talking. tell her that you dont want to loose her as a friend .but just remember hoes before bros. that means that you need to have a sister before a boy. your bff will be there before the guy is
Talk to your friend......find out why she's so mad.....talkk to the guy.....see why he won't talk to her





and why would she want to talk to the guy who just refuses to talk to her?








then if all else fails....who've you known the longest...who would you want to spend time with....the guy who is like really mean to your bff......or your friend who you've most likely known longer....





personally I'd say forget about the guy and just hang out with your friend do a girls night out or something
Tell them that if they are going to make ou choose they're not worth your time