Thursday, July 29, 2010

I need some advice help?

my friend is in love with her boyfriend. but he leaving for college and is moving across the contry basically. she keeps saying how sad and she wants to kill herself cause he she cant live without him and that her life always sucks and now that it isn't he is leaving and its not fair.








well i dont know what to say to her to make her feel okay and comfortable. so if u have some advice i can give to her thanks so muchI need some advice help?
I don't know how old your friend is, but anyone that is saying they are going to kill themselves is a bad sign.





She's too caught up in thinking that she will never see him again, also that the world is so big and he's going to be so far away. The reality is that if she wants to see this guy again it is possible. She could move there, if he's ok with it, or she could work hard so she could travel there frequently.





There's probably not a lot you can say to make her feel better, just listen to her and be with her as much as you can. Keeping her company is your best bet.





You should tell someone that she is feeling this way, she needs love and support, but if she is unstable, she may do something to hurt herself.





Counselling helps a lot, talk with her about that and let her know that there are ways to get through this.I need some advice help?
Saying that she wants to kill herself seems to be her way of getting attention. Think about it...why would you kill yourself if you knew that you could talk to him and eventually see him again? plus you may possibly find someone else? Not logical. It seems that she's too wrapped up on this guy. If you're her friend, why does her life suck? It's not like she has no one. I'm sure that you would be there for her. She just needs to realize that there are more important things in life than relationships. She needs to focus on the beauty of every moment of her life and be grateful that she is alive to see another day.
tell her to go to the same college as him or deal with the ******** shi t. people are so gay '; oh i cant live without him so im gonna kill mayself '; theres a million other poeple. do you know how hard it is to find true love. just let go or work hard at a long distance relationship but tell her to suck it up. she probly wants the pity too so dont take the bit ch seriously
awww...





if she is really in love with him, tell her that she should understand him as well... he wants to be someone in this world, so she should do her best to support him.





its not like she wont see him ever again...


if they are in love...summer is comming up and they can spend time that way...holidays, birthdays, anniversary...





[[1 thing though...she cant kill herself...have him talk to her]]





good luck to all of you.





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You have to be there for her, is very hard to have a long distance relationship so it is very possible it won't work out in the long run , you have to help her, go out the two of you as friends, try to maintain her mind off of things.
Tell her to just think about the good time they had together, and he is doing something postive with his life. Tell her to continue writing letters and talking on the phone, and they will be together on breaks, when he comes home.
1- she needs to see a shrink-2-she needs to grow up,she is selfish 3-if i were her boyfriend i would move across the country also.
if she's serious she actually sounds depressed
well she can have her boyfriend go with her or they can keep in touch
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