Sunday, July 25, 2010

Girl advice? help me out!?

i had a 1st date 2 weeks ago with a girl i 'met' online. known her two months... one month on match, one month on myspace.. in which she requested me on and sent me a msg first. i mentioned meeting up few weeks ago, just saying we should sometime, and that i enjoy talking to her. she said ' i like talking to you too' and agreed we should meet up. a week later she brought it up.. i asked her what shes doing that next week, she said, 'hanging out with you silly.' i was on vacation, which she knew about, so i replied 3/4 days later, to find a good time to meet up. she said she was getting over a cold... 3 days later she emails me saying shes all better and says ';maybe we could talk on the phone. what do you think? and arrange to meet up.';


i reply with yes and my cell#, and then she gives hers. we've been txting back n forth. so today around noon or 1pm she txted me (havent talked on phone yet) and said she had to cancel and shes really sorry, that she has to get a tooth pulledGirl advice? help me out!?
she likes you, try again to meet in person.Girl advice? help me out!?
Rewrite your question man with a 3 line summary only!


You sound uncertain, insecure and completely unready for any relationship. You need to find Jesus first. Ask him into your life, find a good church community and then maybe you will have the stability to make something work. Stop or she will hurt you and you will regret it.l
let her make the next move! you have put enough effort into it. if she really wants to meet let her set the time, date, and place..... that way she cant make up an excuse to get out of it!
as for making a move, do just like hitch(will smith) said ';go 90% and let her come the extra ten'; and for the phone keeping in contact is good but dont be too shy, talk to her , let her get used to ur voice, she'll start out shy, but she will eventually be more combtrable, then hint on meeting her, there are many levels to go through dont rush u have time, but u do have a long way to go
Try actually calling her. Like actually using your voice to communicate.
Holy hell....you're WAY overthinking this. Just let her get back to you.
go ahead and make a move on her.
Text text text---phone phone phone--excuses excuses excuses---sick sick sick---God man get a clue--meet girls face to face--have normal conversations and develop real life friendships and relationships like a normal human being. Chances are she is a fat pig that NEVER intends to meet you--would rather eat candy and ice cream and play on the computer--you have been had by some loser playing with you..... get a life. We didn't have computers till 10 years ago--we had to meet girls using our best courtesy and that always worked very well----get a clue--she is a pig--don't text or call again--you are wasting time---GROW UP.
1st off, long god story, thanks for taking you time to let out all the details.





I believe she is interested in you. but what do I know...LOL...no but really seriuously I believe she is shy, and maybe hasn't had much experience as to going out with another guy who she met online. So try calling her up tomrrow, Wednesday, and ask her hows she's doing, call her during lunch or after work, whn you have time. Tell her that you've been wanting to hang out with her, and since she got sick and never reschedualed, you were thinking of maybe friday or this weekend going to the movies, and having dinner, or going to a local event which both of you may have interst in. try that and if not well..wait. But make sure to be direct, that you are gonna do something this weekend, and you thought that she would like to hang out with you, also think of maybe hanging wiht a group of friends, to make things even comfortable for both of you.
i thought only girls worried this much...lol...i think she likes u or she wouldnt be going to all the trouble....u have just got dif schedules...ur way overthinking this but i think that is cute for a guy to worry...lol.....just keep trying....good luck and have fun!
Holy mother. %26gt;%26gt; im sorry i cnat cuzz on this..


godam... u DO talk alot





and i didnt understand a word of it


my advice








ONLY HOOK UP AND DATE GIRLS THTA U SEE ON A REGULAR BASIS%26gt;%26gt;


that girl seems liek a freak sorry if taht offends you..





but date girls taht you see daily or at least 5 days a weeks





dont do cyber stuf or myspace..


\its bs
too much info, keep it short and sweet. And no one here is qualified to answer these questions, even if they think they are.
hm...very interesting. well, i think she likes you and wants to have more serious relations with you. but maybe she is conservative and waits until you do all moves. if she cancels your dates then don't offer it for some time. maybe she likes you very much, she considers you to be very interesting, but maybe your are not her type(i mean appearance), so maybe she tries to get accustomed to you.maybe she is very shy and maybe not satisfied with her appearance.





or for ex., my friend(female) met a guy online too. first time when he offered to meet she really was busy and couldn't, at the second time when he offered to meet she was very nervous and afraid that he wouldn't like her so she refused again. but she wanted to meet with him, for two next offers she was afraid too. she is conservative and she told me:';if he likes me he will offer me again, won't he?'; she thought that he had to do it, but he was offended and did not.


if you like this girl then wait a little and continue your attempts.
make her *** come to u! u seem like a good guy though, u deserve someone better, i say u get over her. she is to wishy-washy
Call her and have a real conversation. Something longer than 5 minutes. Don't push for the face-to-face too hard. It is scary for women to meet men that way because you never know what kind of psycho he may end up. Not saying that you are one, but you don't know what may be going through her mind. If you really want to meet in real life, suggest a group date, it may make her feel more comfortable.
Just ask her when she wants to reshedule. Don't talk to her any less because she couldn't make it. It does seem like she's interested in you. She probably wouldn't mind a phone call from you either.


So if something were to ';come up'; the second time you try to meet her then you can stop making the move and let her make the next move and see what happens.


But for now it does seem like she could potentially have feelings for you.

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