Girl advice...help!!!?

well i went out with this girl for a yr it was very serious. got her a promise ring we were about to move in together last sept. we were like best friends for 9 months before we went out. but when we started going out it became a long dist relationship. we went out in aug 05 and talked on the phone just about every night for hours. met up again in dec, march...had sex three times, may.. went to the beach etc, and june...beach etc. so end of july we start arguing and stuff and she says bc of that and her family life...her dad was cheating on her mom, he said he was gonna take off, she was about to get her own apt, she said she needed a break from us.


of course im devastated. and two days later she tells melast may/june she started having thoughts in her head like ';omg im with the guy im gonna be with forever..this is it..and im about to move in with him...this is it...i wontever be single again'; and she said shes really never been on her own, always from one relationship to anotherGirl advice...help!!!?
Huh??? Come again, please make it long story short!!!Girl advice...help!!!?
DAMN LONG AZZ THING LOL!!!!!





BUT I THINK U SHOULD GIVE HER UP SHE SOUNDS ANNOYING TO ME!!!


FIND A DIFFRENT GURL!


I THINK SHE IS WRONG FOR U BUT THAT MY OPINNION.
Whoa, long question. Sounds messy, I think you should break up with her because she is not committed to you or your relationship.
Hey Let her be..I know it will be hard but actually i know kinda what she is going through If your parents are having trouble it actually makes you question your relationship more. My dad Just commited suicide in may beacause my mom cheated on him and it made me question my relationship with my Bf I love him but i get scared:( But If you love her give it time if it is ment to be she will come back to you be a friend too her thats what she needs.
Maybe you should write down your memoirs in a novel format. She is simply looking for the ';hook up'; and wants to be able to keep her individual identity. In other words she wants to have her cake and eat it too. It is ultimately your choice as to what will happen.
Now I maybe completely wrong but I think this young woman does care about you but she is confused. You may think it is simple that if she truly cares about you she would be it with you. Sometimes it is not that simple.


Her desire to be single is a healthy one. It will give her a chance to find her strenghts and her weaknesses, and enable her to grow as a person.


At the same time she believes you are that special person and dosen't want to give up completely. She doensn't want to loose you be she knows at this point she can't stay.





Let her know that you would like to remain friends but what she is doing right now is confusing you. Encourage her to take some time and truley sort herself out, who she is and what she wants. Let her know that once she is sure, she should let you know - better yet come find you.





Good Luck





ps.


If she really loves you she'll find you (once she has sorted her self out).


Till then enjoy being single. Relax. Take a break from relationships for a while. Go spend time with a few good friends and let yourself heal.





pps


I was in a similar situation once. i got back into the relationship without truely having taken a break from it. When it ended I was broken. So now I don't return to relationships where the other person is wavering I wait for them to get it together. If they don't I stay away.





:-)
I think you should continue in this friendship relationship with her right now.. You guys should stay together but not.. ';together';.. spend some time as friends, single friends, don't think about th sex, she was having problems with her parents, so she was probably thinking about their relationship and doubting yours, let her be free.. she says her future is with you, give her 6-8 more months and ask her to be your gf again.. let her be able to trust you.. and have no doubts
So i skimmed all that and by the time i got to the bottom, i forgot what was at the top. And what is your question anyway?





I think i would move on, idont know really, i dont understand all this.