I'm almost 14 in about 2 months. I want to ask this girl out but I don't know what to say and I'm also wondering am I the right age for dating?
Please HELP!I'm 13 going to turn 14 i need advice plz help!?
Well, get to know her first. If you think she likes you back, ask her! Most girls I know wait for the guy to ask them out - they don't want to ask him themselves. So you never know; she could be waiting for you to ask.
Just say, ';Hey, do you wanna go out?';. Its pretty simple :P Or you could start a little slower like asking her to a dance, or inviting her to a group thing: ';My friends and I were gonna go bowling on ____, do you think you and your friends would wanna come too?';
Umm, I wouldn't call it really dating, but I think 7th/ 8th grade is an okay age to start ';going out';. lol Relationships at the age only last like, 2 weeks, though.I'm 13 going to turn 14 i need advice plz help!?
around were i live, some kids started dating at 9, you are fine
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Friend advice help PLZ!1!!!!!?
ok there is 4 ppl invovled in this theres me,sydeny,megan,and blake and we were kidding with blake about how megan likes him and he took it seriously and told megan and she actually did like him so then megan got mad at me and sydney bc she thought we knew so now she's mad at us and were mad at her and we may of lost out best friend what should i doFriend advice help PLZ!1!!!!!?
How old are you....15 at best?
You'll all get over it. Don't worry about it. There are way more serious things in life to worry about than how Blake and Megan feel right now.Friend advice help PLZ!1!!!!!?
u all need to sit down and talk it over..all of u are fighting over something so inmature is sad..
tell her that if she really cares about ur friendship she will try to talk it out %26amp; forgive u guys. tell her how much her friendship means to u %26amp; tell her ur sorry no matter what happen even if it was just fun u take it back %26amp; ur sorry
let her calm down first. from her view you both humiliated her in the worst way. the only thing you can do is tell her your sorry and leave her alone. every so often sit with her and start a conversation, small talk only, and try to build your friendship again slowly. sorry to say you might not get her as a best friend but its worth a shot. if you have been friends for a while she should forgive you.
you shouldnt have opened your mouth in the 1st place. it happens and then this happens then you have dug yourself in a hole! let this one work itself out then the next time you want to do something like this keep your mouth shut!
How old are you....15 at best?
You'll all get over it. Don't worry about it. There are way more serious things in life to worry about than how Blake and Megan feel right now.Friend advice help PLZ!1!!!!!?
u all need to sit down and talk it over..all of u are fighting over something so inmature is sad..
tell her that if she really cares about ur friendship she will try to talk it out %26amp; forgive u guys. tell her how much her friendship means to u %26amp; tell her ur sorry no matter what happen even if it was just fun u take it back %26amp; ur sorry
let her calm down first. from her view you both humiliated her in the worst way. the only thing you can do is tell her your sorry and leave her alone. every so often sit with her and start a conversation, small talk only, and try to build your friendship again slowly. sorry to say you might not get her as a best friend but its worth a shot. if you have been friends for a while she should forgive you.
you shouldnt have opened your mouth in the 1st place. it happens and then this happens then you have dug yourself in a hole! let this one work itself out then the next time you want to do something like this keep your mouth shut!
Relationship advice? Help...?
Ok, I have HepC, And I am just concerned to give it to my partner..
We aren't at the sex stage.
But I was curious is fingering was better than sex?..Like..
Fingering has a more risk of giving it to him.
But I don't want the risk of getting preg.
Help?Relationship advice? Help...?
If you don't say and you have sex and he gets it then you can get arrested. Its unlawful to knowingly pass an infectious disease to another person.
I'd say and see what you can arrange with your sexual health.
edit: if he knows then you both need to see a sexual health doctor and find out what options are available to you. Condoms are your first stop but are you on medication for your condition? Is there any other preventative measures you can take? Ask the right questions from the doctor and he'll give you everything you need.
Good luck and well done for being honest and up front!Relationship advice? Help...?
You NEED to tell your partner immediately. You have to tell them. It is a priority. Forget everything else there, about fingering and whatnot . . . INFORM YOUR PARTNER. That way you can both come up with a solution to the problem. Also, consult your doctor and discuss it with them. They'll know best.moisturizing cream
We aren't at the sex stage.
But I was curious is fingering was better than sex?..Like..
Fingering has a more risk of giving it to him.
But I don't want the risk of getting preg.
Help?Relationship advice? Help...?
If you don't say and you have sex and he gets it then you can get arrested. Its unlawful to knowingly pass an infectious disease to another person.
I'd say and see what you can arrange with your sexual health.
edit: if he knows then you both need to see a sexual health doctor and find out what options are available to you. Condoms are your first stop but are you on medication for your condition? Is there any other preventative measures you can take? Ask the right questions from the doctor and he'll give you everything you need.
Good luck and well done for being honest and up front!Relationship advice? Help...?
You NEED to tell your partner immediately. You have to tell them. It is a priority. Forget everything else there, about fingering and whatnot . . . INFORM YOUR PARTNER. That way you can both come up with a solution to the problem. Also, consult your doctor and discuss it with them. They'll know best.
Boy advice help!?
i like this boy,
tonight at church i think i'm gonna tell him i like
him...how do i tell him???Boy advice help!?
well if it were me i would write him a letter and be like im starting to really like you and if he doesnt feel the same way make it clear that you still really wanna be friends lol
tonight at church i think i'm gonna tell him i like
him...how do i tell him???Boy advice help!?
well if it were me i would write him a letter and be like im starting to really like you and if he doesnt feel the same way make it clear that you still really wanna be friends lol
Girl advice...help!!!?
well i went out with this girl for a yr it was very serious. got her a promise ring we were about to move in together last sept. we were like best friends for 9 months before we went out. but when we started going out it became a long dist relationship. we went out in aug 05 and talked on the phone just about every night for hours. met up again in dec, march...had sex three times, may.. went to the beach etc, and june...beach etc. so end of july we start arguing and stuff and she says bc of that and her family life...her dad was cheating on her mom, he said he was gonna take off, she was about to get her own apt, she said she needed a break from us.
of course im devastated. and two days later she tells melast may/june she started having thoughts in her head like ';omg im with the guy im gonna be with forever..this is it..and im about to move in with him...this is it...i wontever be single again'; and she said shes really never been on her own, always from one relationship to anotherGirl advice...help!!!?
Huh??? Come again, please make it long story short!!!Girl advice...help!!!?
DAMN LONG AZZ THING LOL!!!!!
BUT I THINK U SHOULD GIVE HER UP SHE SOUNDS ANNOYING TO ME!!!
FIND A DIFFRENT GURL!
I THINK SHE IS WRONG FOR U BUT THAT MY OPINNION.
Whoa, long question. Sounds messy, I think you should break up with her because she is not committed to you or your relationship.
Hey Let her be..I know it will be hard but actually i know kinda what she is going through If your parents are having trouble it actually makes you question your relationship more. My dad Just commited suicide in may beacause my mom cheated on him and it made me question my relationship with my Bf I love him but i get scared:( But If you love her give it time if it is ment to be she will come back to you be a friend too her thats what she needs.
Maybe you should write down your memoirs in a novel format. She is simply looking for the ';hook up'; and wants to be able to keep her individual identity. In other words she wants to have her cake and eat it too. It is ultimately your choice as to what will happen.
Now I maybe completely wrong but I think this young woman does care about you but she is confused. You may think it is simple that if she truly cares about you she would be it with you. Sometimes it is not that simple.
Her desire to be single is a healthy one. It will give her a chance to find her strenghts and her weaknesses, and enable her to grow as a person.
At the same time she believes you are that special person and dosen't want to give up completely. She doensn't want to loose you be she knows at this point she can't stay.
Let her know that you would like to remain friends but what she is doing right now is confusing you. Encourage her to take some time and truley sort herself out, who she is and what she wants. Let her know that once she is sure, she should let you know - better yet come find you.
Good Luck
ps.
If she really loves you she'll find you (once she has sorted her self out).
Till then enjoy being single. Relax. Take a break from relationships for a while. Go spend time with a few good friends and let yourself heal.
pps
I was in a similar situation once. i got back into the relationship without truely having taken a break from it. When it ended I was broken. So now I don't return to relationships where the other person is wavering I wait for them to get it together. If they don't I stay away.
:-)
I think you should continue in this friendship relationship with her right now.. You guys should stay together but not.. ';together';.. spend some time as friends, single friends, don't think about th sex, she was having problems with her parents, so she was probably thinking about their relationship and doubting yours, let her be free.. she says her future is with you, give her 6-8 more months and ask her to be your gf again.. let her be able to trust you.. and have no doubts
So i skimmed all that and by the time i got to the bottom, i forgot what was at the top. And what is your question anyway?
I think i would move on, idont know really, i dont understand all this.
of course im devastated. and two days later she tells melast may/june she started having thoughts in her head like ';omg im with the guy im gonna be with forever..this is it..and im about to move in with him...this is it...i wontever be single again'; and she said shes really never been on her own, always from one relationship to anotherGirl advice...help!!!?
Huh??? Come again, please make it long story short!!!Girl advice...help!!!?
DAMN LONG AZZ THING LOL!!!!!
BUT I THINK U SHOULD GIVE HER UP SHE SOUNDS ANNOYING TO ME!!!
FIND A DIFFRENT GURL!
I THINK SHE IS WRONG FOR U BUT THAT MY OPINNION.
Whoa, long question. Sounds messy, I think you should break up with her because she is not committed to you or your relationship.
Hey Let her be..I know it will be hard but actually i know kinda what she is going through If your parents are having trouble it actually makes you question your relationship more. My dad Just commited suicide in may beacause my mom cheated on him and it made me question my relationship with my Bf I love him but i get scared:( But If you love her give it time if it is ment to be she will come back to you be a friend too her thats what she needs.
Maybe you should write down your memoirs in a novel format. She is simply looking for the ';hook up'; and wants to be able to keep her individual identity. In other words she wants to have her cake and eat it too. It is ultimately your choice as to what will happen.
Now I maybe completely wrong but I think this young woman does care about you but she is confused. You may think it is simple that if she truly cares about you she would be it with you. Sometimes it is not that simple.
Her desire to be single is a healthy one. It will give her a chance to find her strenghts and her weaknesses, and enable her to grow as a person.
At the same time she believes you are that special person and dosen't want to give up completely. She doensn't want to loose you be she knows at this point she can't stay.
Let her know that you would like to remain friends but what she is doing right now is confusing you. Encourage her to take some time and truley sort herself out, who she is and what she wants. Let her know that once she is sure, she should let you know - better yet come find you.
Good Luck
ps.
If she really loves you she'll find you (once she has sorted her self out).
Till then enjoy being single. Relax. Take a break from relationships for a while. Go spend time with a few good friends and let yourself heal.
pps
I was in a similar situation once. i got back into the relationship without truely having taken a break from it. When it ended I was broken. So now I don't return to relationships where the other person is wavering I wait for them to get it together. If they don't I stay away.
:-)
I think you should continue in this friendship relationship with her right now.. You guys should stay together but not.. ';together';.. spend some time as friends, single friends, don't think about th sex, she was having problems with her parents, so she was probably thinking about their relationship and doubting yours, let her be free.. she says her future is with you, give her 6-8 more months and ask her to be your gf again.. let her be able to trust you.. and have no doubts
So i skimmed all that and by the time i got to the bottom, i forgot what was at the top. And what is your question anyway?
I think i would move on, idont know really, i dont understand all this.
Friends Advice! HELP! Should I go?
So, I have this friend Tracy. All her life she's been glued onto/best friends with Sammy. Tracy and Sammy spend ALL their time together. But Sammy had to move somewhere else, so now Tracey was alone. So, she went to my group of friends, Gabriella, Sarah, Ema, and Becky. We were friends with her, but then Tracey started being mean and annoying. She always lied to us, and just because i could not answer her online, she wrote DISGUSTING things about me and my friends! Sometimes Tracey can be nice, but MOST of the time she is mean and annoying. She always just followed me and my friends around. Now she left our group (even though she still tries to make conversation with me) and her new friend Rachel is making her a surprise party. (Tracey mostly treats Rachel badly like she says ';get away'; , and we think she is using her) Rachel asked me if I wanted to go. If i dont go everyone would think im mean for not going. Should I go to the surprise party? and what am I going to do about Tracey?Friends Advice! HELP! Should I go?
Well you could do a sort of intervention with Tracey. Get all your friends together, including this Rachel, prior to the party, and tell Tracey that you all want to stay friends with her but if she doesn't change her bad attitude that you all will turn your backs on her and won't be her friend. She will not like the fact of being alone again, and perhaps will see that she can't treat people the way she's doing. If she doesn't change her ways, does she really deserve a party? She doesn't really deserve one now. If Tracey doesn't chill out and Rachel still gives the party, I personally wouldn't go. That is not being mean, you are sending the message to Tracey and everyone else that you will not tolerate her bad behavior and to go to this party is condoning it (saying it's alright). Real friends do not treat you the way Tracey is treating everyone. Real friends are there for each other and stick by one another no matter what.
Good luck in whatever you choose to do.Friends Advice! HELP! Should I go?
Go to the surprise party but prepare. She might embarrass you in front of people. Tell her to go away and stop being so mean. Or maybe you can act like her. Pretend that you're bossy and mean like her. When Tracey told you that you're mean and bossy, tell her that it was the same thing she did to you. Then, she should understand. If she doesn't, then tell her that you don't wanna be her friend anymore. Good Luck
Well you could do a sort of intervention with Tracey. Get all your friends together, including this Rachel, prior to the party, and tell Tracey that you all want to stay friends with her but if she doesn't change her bad attitude that you all will turn your backs on her and won't be her friend. She will not like the fact of being alone again, and perhaps will see that she can't treat people the way she's doing. If she doesn't change her ways, does she really deserve a party? She doesn't really deserve one now. If Tracey doesn't chill out and Rachel still gives the party, I personally wouldn't go. That is not being mean, you are sending the message to Tracey and everyone else that you will not tolerate her bad behavior and to go to this party is condoning it (saying it's alright). Real friends do not treat you the way Tracey is treating everyone. Real friends are there for each other and stick by one another no matter what.
Good luck in whatever you choose to do.Friends Advice! HELP! Should I go?
Go to the surprise party but prepare. She might embarrass you in front of people. Tell her to go away and stop being so mean. Or maybe you can act like her. Pretend that you're bossy and mean like her. When Tracey told you that you're mean and bossy, tell her that it was the same thing she did to you. Then, she should understand. If she doesn't, then tell her that you don't wanna be her friend anymore. Good Luck
X-advice HELP PLEASE!!!!!?
so i have a good friend who also was my x i called to talk to him and he said i might never see u again so i love you and i was like what do you mean ill never se u again he was like im leaving texas and im by the airport me ad my mom got in a fight then i was like no you cant leave ad he was like dont tell me what to do then hung up i called him back and i was like were are u and he was like dont worry abt it and i was like im ganna worry and he was like y and i was like b/c i care and then he was like ill call u when i know what im doing i promise but i dnt hear from him so i called him back and some chic answerd and was like he asleep i was like ok i just wanted to make sure hes safe and she was like ya hes kool i was like ok when he wakes up can u tell him to call me and she was like ya ok now here is my?i have a bf and hes so amazing but yet i think i might still have feelings for x but i wont go down that road again for sure so shld i get involved or let this other chic handle itX-advice HELP PLEASE!!!!!?
First of all: you should learn how to speak correctly and use the word ';like'; in the correct manner. It was hard to read when almost every sentence said ';i was like'; and ';he was like'; and ';she was like.';
Second: you have a boyfriend, so let your ex go. Yes, he is your good friend, but treat him as only a friend. Just leave him alone and stick with who you have now.X-advice HELP PLEASE!!!!!?
it's normal to be worried with your ex-bf/friend but you don't have to be exagerated.....let him be. i mean, he's you're x not your bf
First of all: you should learn how to speak correctly and use the word ';like'; in the correct manner. It was hard to read when almost every sentence said ';i was like'; and ';he was like'; and ';she was like.';
Second: you have a boyfriend, so let your ex go. Yes, he is your good friend, but treat him as only a friend. Just leave him alone and stick with who you have now.X-advice HELP PLEASE!!!!!?
it's normal to be worried with your ex-bf/friend but you don't have to be exagerated.....let him be. i mean, he's you're x not your bf
Relatioship advice?? help women!!?
well, a few months ago i had a suspicion that my husband was cheating on me, and well he was, i am 4 months pregnant with his child, and i have a 1 1/2 yr old little girl, i thought we were the happiest couple ever..(really) he was the one that kept buggin about having a second child..well we've been seperated for about 2 months, i begged him to come home all last month, and he was very cruel, saying he hated me and how much better his new gf was, well i have finally got over the tears, and have started moving on, but the thing is he wants to come home, (let me tell you how they met) he was working out of town, and met her at a bar, im 20 he is 22 and shes 32. i dont know what to do , i love him, and he is the father of my children, but he hurt me so much..i dont know what to do?? helpRelatioship advice?? help women!!?
after all you and your family has done for him and he does this sounds like there is no respect for himself or for his family. He is a adult and he knew the consquences before he took his actions and now he must deal with them. There is no such thing as accidently sleeping or being with someone else while you are married. With him abusing you and then cheating on you and you already having one child and one on the way all you can do is make a grown decision and ask yourself do you want to raise your children to see this? I was in a relationship many years ago just like that and really loved my ex husband however 5 years of the physical abuse and the drinking and cheating was enough I finally got out. It does hurt but you have to be strong if he did it once and you take him back ask yourself will you ever be able to let it go and forget it? Will the relationship be the same? will he do it again? will you have to live your life constantly asking yourself is he out there cheating again? Do you want to deal with that? I know it hurts but why put yourself through it again? You may never get over him I know i have been married to my husband now for 13 years and still once in a while think of my ex husband but am very happy with who i got and where i am in life. So only you can make your decisions and have to live with them and only we online can give opinions so from experience my opinion would be you have been seperated for a while and i would suggest stay away and get a divorce I would not want to raise children thinking it was ok to cheat on someone you love or raise your daughter to be tolerant of someone treating her like that so plain and simple ask yourself this if it was your daughter and she was going through this kind of suituation what would you want her to do?? Good Luck and God BlessRelatioship advice?? help women!!?
I think that first you should find out if he is still seeing that other girl before you move back in with him.I think that if he is Not, then you should give himm this last chance to proove his love to you. Dont get too stressed out for the sake of the child you are carrying.
However if he lies about this other girl after you have moved back witrh him, I think that you should leave him for good
i think you should always give ppl a second chance, and especially when you are in a marriage. you said for better or worse in your vows, and this is definetly ';for worse'; right now...if he is serious about coming home, then tell him he can on a few conditions. you arent going to trust him for a while, so let him know you will be more suspicious than usual when he goes places, etc and that he will need to put forth extra effort to prove that he is being faithful at all times. also, you need to go to marriage counseling together to help you heal! Good luck, i feel for you and what you are going through...just follow your heart as to if he is really willing to come back to you for real.
Run as fast as you can from this man and don't look back!
He cheats on you, gets you pregnant, belittles you by telling you how good his girlfriend is in comparison to you and you still want him back?? Don't you think that you deserve better???
Go get an attorney and get a child support order as soon as you can.
do not take him back. he is a lying cheating bastard who has no life. the chances are very likely that he will cheat again and if you take him back, that is just telling him that you forgive him.he probably only wants you back because the other girl left him and now he has noone. there are still some great guys left out there who are willing to be with you even if you have children. you need to be strong for yourself and the children. i'm not saying to take away his rights as a father, but he needs to know that the relationship is over and that cheating on you and saying all those hateful things is not forgivable. especially trying to rub it in your face about the new girlfriend being better than you. that is just wrong. my first child does not belong to my husband, but his dad put me through the same ****, and as much as i loved him i couldn't take him back after all the heartache and risk putting myself through it again. i moved about two hours away and got my life back together on my own. to this day he still trys to flirt with me when the other girl is not around and it makes me sick. he has cheated on her a few times that i know of, but she does not believe me when i tell her, she thinks i secretly want him back. well, i am stronger than that. they say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. please for your own sake and self-esteem do not take him back. good luck on whatever decision that you make. i hope you make the right one.
I'm a firm believer in ';once a F....around, always a F....around. I feel really bad for you, and I understand you have his children, but you have to ask yourself this.';Could I go through this again,'; and most likely you would, It sounds like the lady dumped him and now he has nowhere to go until the next time he trys this again, Love hurts I know. But girlfriend, there are so many nice guys out there just waiting and looking for someone like you! Really, besides you don't want your kids to have to go though that. And you don't need the stress while your pregnat. You have to think of the baby as well. It will get better for you Just take it one day at a time. Make him suffer for a while, like he did to you, and didn't even care about it! Remember what he said and done to you! Good Luck in what ever you decide! sunnydays
Don't take him back, but you must try to remain friends for the children's sake. He is the father, let him no that and also that you moved on and that you think of him as your best friend.
you can dress up a piece of **** but it is still ****it still smells that way too. i say you are better off without him. good luck
You're over the tears, and he's out of the house. Keep it that way and don't let him back in. He'll only do it again. Didn't he say that he hated you? Do you really want him back after what he did? I don't think you could trust him even if he did come back. And although he's your childrens father, what kind of an example can he really be? Take as much time you need to get over him, and put your life into perspective, and just find yourself. You don't need him, he needs you. But he doesn't want you, otherwise he wouldn't have left you in the first place. There is someone out there that will treat you like a queen, and all you have to do is focus on that and do the right thing for you and your children. You deserve better, and it's only up to you to get better. Once a loser and an abuser, always a loser and an abuser. Good luck and be strong.
Sounds like this 32 year old woman is finished with him. She had her fun and has tossed him to the side, and now that he has no one to sleep with, he's going back to his wife.
You need to sit down and have a very long chat with him, to find out if he is truly sorry for cheating on you and if he feels guilty at all about doing that do you. He will need to apologise for every horrible thing he said to you and he will need to promise not to cheat on you again. Ask him why he cheated on you in the first place, and find out if there were any issues between you.
If he was just being a stupid naive man, and succumbed to this 32 y.o's flirting and suggestion, then there may be hope. She may just have gotten a thrill out of tempting a married man for her own sick enjoyment. But he will need to understand that what he did was wrong, and that it did hurt you a lot.
_If_ you decide to take him back, then you will need to lay down some ground rules. Number one - if he cheats on you again, then you will divorce him. No third chance. Just divorce. And be serious when you say it so he knows you mean business.
Number two - he will have to tell you where he goes and who he goes with. If you try to tell him to not see anyone, he will just do it behind your back. You will need to tell him that you don't mind what he does, and you won't stop him from seeing people, but you want to be able to trust him to do the right thing by you. And that he has to build back the trust.
If you decide not to take him back, it is not the end of the world. Some men don't care if a woman already has kids, and they will love your kids as much as they will love you. There will be another nice guy out there who will treat you with respect and look after you.
The fact that he did this would be incredibly hard for me to swallow and let go. Personally, the type of lady that I am I wouldn't let it go. I am not the kind to take things lightly and some women are able to. I'm not. I would tell him to Fuk off if I were you. That was mean. I would move on and tell him to pay child support. No woman deserves that no matter what Satan has under his sleeve. Keep your head up. I don' t know you or your hubby but if he is capable of cheating on you and your children then I wouldn't ever feel secure AGAIN! you know? Pray to God sis he's always watching.
man your hubby could by my ex's brother. same thing here, only i didnt have any kids with him. all i can say is you have pulled yourself away and up from that kind of relationship. you were the planner, the one who nutured the relationship and worked on him, now its your turn. i know you are hurting, but i could not sleep with my hubby after he cheated, abused lied and used me, thats the bottom line, yeah he hurt you and you will get over it, you still love him cause you worked so hard putting your all in it, i truly dont believe he will change, he wants to come back to the nest, it will be the same, dont do it.
First of all the reason he is begging to come back is you begged for so long. The other woman probably got sick of him. So no he needs a place to go and needs a woman to lean on (use). He would probably leave again if he found another one who would pay his way. I know you have his children and it is hard to let go, but when a man does something like this to a mother of his children there is something seriously wrong with him. Especially if he cheats on his wife with an older woman. It sounds to me like he's not wanting a mother for his children, he's wanting a mother for himself! If it were me I would tell him to eat dirt and find someone else that will put up with him.
U stated he went from a piece of s**t into a nice family man.....................................… he didnt, he's still a piece of s**t.
You are young, and you deserve much much better than that.
God Bless and Good Luck
move on
I am in the same boat, except my husband doesnt want to come back. Do you feel like you want to give hime another chance? Is he a good father? Its true that you are chancing him doing the same thing over again, and having to go through all the emotions over again, but if you feel that you really want him to come home, let him come home. Just sit with him and make your feelings known. But, if you feel that he might do it again, and you dont want to go through it again, then maybe he shouldnt come back. Its a hard decision, I know ! If you do let him come back, you should grill it into him that if it happens again, he will be ruining any chance of ever coming back, and also ruin his relationship with his children!
well your both still very young.. and if you really do love him, and you do want him back, you have to forgive and forget all about this affair, no bringing it up and fighting over it, get over it and move on, you guys can't work things out of this affair keeps popping up and causing problems,he has to earn his trust with you again... you have to feel you can completly trust him again or it just won't work.. forgive and forget, but if he ever did it to you again leave him for good.
He has too many issues for you to keep putting up with him. Don't let him back . He won't stay any way; his probably dumped or got dumped by the gf and has no where else to go. He knows he can use you till something else comes along. Let yourself heal from all the abuse and hurt his put on you then you can see that you never wanted him back anyway. You'll find someone new and they'll treat you right.
Face to face honest communication is a must here,between u two.
You need to get out of this before you have six kids and are wondering who he's frugging now................
Don't take him back! Look at all the things you and your family did for this man. And how does he repay you? By having an affair. He should we grateful to have someone like you. You made him what he is today. Without you he would be dead. I know it's hard because you have 2 wonderful children with him, but do you really want to go through all of this again? If you did take him back it would only be time until he started again. Once a cheater always a cheater. But if you really love him and believe that things can work out maybe you should try. But just remember that you deserve so much better. You sound like a great person, don't take him back and let him walk all over you. If you do take him back, make sure he knows it's on your terms. Good Luck with what ever you decide to do.
Find someone else like he did.
Don't let him come home till you've had a chance to get some counseling for yourself AND marriage counseling with him.
try to get councelling...it will re-surface again...
He's not going to change anytime soon, he's young and immature. You guys did start off young believe me I speak from experience. Yes I know you're worried about your children, but do you want your children to also see all the problems between you to. Think about your children, they need you without you then can't survive. Whatever you do don't believe again when he says he wants to have another child or work it out, don't give in so easy.
I WOULD GET SOME COUNSELING, THAT THE FIRST THING
BUT YOUR ONLY CONCERN IS YOUR CHILDREN. SO THEY
SHOULD COME FIRST. BECAUSE IF YOU GET BACK WITH'HIM THERE NO TIME TABLE THAT HE WONT DO
IT AGAIN. THAT WHAT YOU REALLY NEED TO THINK
ABOUT. I KNOW THAT IT MAY BE HARD FOR YOU. SO
TALK TO SOMEONE BEFORE MAKING ANY DECISION.
He is YOUNG. I doubt there is a single solitary man on the planet that was/is 22 years old who has not done the exact same thing. It doesn't make it right, but it is just how we men are at that age, and beyond that age. So your chances of finding one that isn't like that, that you could stand to be around (because that is how MEN are,) is quite slim.
Here's the good part though. As you get older, he'll calm down, but your sex drive and your level of frustration from being treated like crap for so many years will catch up to you, and before you know it, you're the one cheating. That too, is a fact of life more times than not.
You see, it all evens out. So if you're smart, you'll just stick it out with him if you love him, because you'll be getting even before it's over. That is practically a written in stone guarantee.
after all you and your family has done for him and he does this sounds like there is no respect for himself or for his family. He is a adult and he knew the consquences before he took his actions and now he must deal with them. There is no such thing as accidently sleeping or being with someone else while you are married. With him abusing you and then cheating on you and you already having one child and one on the way all you can do is make a grown decision and ask yourself do you want to raise your children to see this? I was in a relationship many years ago just like that and really loved my ex husband however 5 years of the physical abuse and the drinking and cheating was enough I finally got out. It does hurt but you have to be strong if he did it once and you take him back ask yourself will you ever be able to let it go and forget it? Will the relationship be the same? will he do it again? will you have to live your life constantly asking yourself is he out there cheating again? Do you want to deal with that? I know it hurts but why put yourself through it again? You may never get over him I know i have been married to my husband now for 13 years and still once in a while think of my ex husband but am very happy with who i got and where i am in life. So only you can make your decisions and have to live with them and only we online can give opinions so from experience my opinion would be you have been seperated for a while and i would suggest stay away and get a divorce I would not want to raise children thinking it was ok to cheat on someone you love or raise your daughter to be tolerant of someone treating her like that so plain and simple ask yourself this if it was your daughter and she was going through this kind of suituation what would you want her to do?? Good Luck and God BlessRelatioship advice?? help women!!?
I think that first you should find out if he is still seeing that other girl before you move back in with him.I think that if he is Not, then you should give himm this last chance to proove his love to you. Dont get too stressed out for the sake of the child you are carrying.
However if he lies about this other girl after you have moved back witrh him, I think that you should leave him for good
i think you should always give ppl a second chance, and especially when you are in a marriage. you said for better or worse in your vows, and this is definetly ';for worse'; right now...if he is serious about coming home, then tell him he can on a few conditions. you arent going to trust him for a while, so let him know you will be more suspicious than usual when he goes places, etc and that he will need to put forth extra effort to prove that he is being faithful at all times. also, you need to go to marriage counseling together to help you heal! Good luck, i feel for you and what you are going through...just follow your heart as to if he is really willing to come back to you for real.
Run as fast as you can from this man and don't look back!
He cheats on you, gets you pregnant, belittles you by telling you how good his girlfriend is in comparison to you and you still want him back?? Don't you think that you deserve better???
Go get an attorney and get a child support order as soon as you can.
do not take him back. he is a lying cheating bastard who has no life. the chances are very likely that he will cheat again and if you take him back, that is just telling him that you forgive him.he probably only wants you back because the other girl left him and now he has noone. there are still some great guys left out there who are willing to be with you even if you have children. you need to be strong for yourself and the children. i'm not saying to take away his rights as a father, but he needs to know that the relationship is over and that cheating on you and saying all those hateful things is not forgivable. especially trying to rub it in your face about the new girlfriend being better than you. that is just wrong. my first child does not belong to my husband, but his dad put me through the same ****, and as much as i loved him i couldn't take him back after all the heartache and risk putting myself through it again. i moved about two hours away and got my life back together on my own. to this day he still trys to flirt with me when the other girl is not around and it makes me sick. he has cheated on her a few times that i know of, but she does not believe me when i tell her, she thinks i secretly want him back. well, i am stronger than that. they say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. please for your own sake and self-esteem do not take him back. good luck on whatever decision that you make. i hope you make the right one.
I'm a firm believer in ';once a F....around, always a F....around. I feel really bad for you, and I understand you have his children, but you have to ask yourself this.';Could I go through this again,'; and most likely you would, It sounds like the lady dumped him and now he has nowhere to go until the next time he trys this again, Love hurts I know. But girlfriend, there are so many nice guys out there just waiting and looking for someone like you! Really, besides you don't want your kids to have to go though that. And you don't need the stress while your pregnat. You have to think of the baby as well. It will get better for you Just take it one day at a time. Make him suffer for a while, like he did to you, and didn't even care about it! Remember what he said and done to you! Good Luck in what ever you decide! sunnydays
Don't take him back, but you must try to remain friends for the children's sake. He is the father, let him no that and also that you moved on and that you think of him as your best friend.
you can dress up a piece of **** but it is still ****it still smells that way too. i say you are better off without him. good luck
You're over the tears, and he's out of the house. Keep it that way and don't let him back in. He'll only do it again. Didn't he say that he hated you? Do you really want him back after what he did? I don't think you could trust him even if he did come back. And although he's your childrens father, what kind of an example can he really be? Take as much time you need to get over him, and put your life into perspective, and just find yourself. You don't need him, he needs you. But he doesn't want you, otherwise he wouldn't have left you in the first place. There is someone out there that will treat you like a queen, and all you have to do is focus on that and do the right thing for you and your children. You deserve better, and it's only up to you to get better. Once a loser and an abuser, always a loser and an abuser. Good luck and be strong.
Sounds like this 32 year old woman is finished with him. She had her fun and has tossed him to the side, and now that he has no one to sleep with, he's going back to his wife.
You need to sit down and have a very long chat with him, to find out if he is truly sorry for cheating on you and if he feels guilty at all about doing that do you. He will need to apologise for every horrible thing he said to you and he will need to promise not to cheat on you again. Ask him why he cheated on you in the first place, and find out if there were any issues between you.
If he was just being a stupid naive man, and succumbed to this 32 y.o's flirting and suggestion, then there may be hope. She may just have gotten a thrill out of tempting a married man for her own sick enjoyment. But he will need to understand that what he did was wrong, and that it did hurt you a lot.
_If_ you decide to take him back, then you will need to lay down some ground rules. Number one - if he cheats on you again, then you will divorce him. No third chance. Just divorce. And be serious when you say it so he knows you mean business.
Number two - he will have to tell you where he goes and who he goes with. If you try to tell him to not see anyone, he will just do it behind your back. You will need to tell him that you don't mind what he does, and you won't stop him from seeing people, but you want to be able to trust him to do the right thing by you. And that he has to build back the trust.
If you decide not to take him back, it is not the end of the world. Some men don't care if a woman already has kids, and they will love your kids as much as they will love you. There will be another nice guy out there who will treat you with respect and look after you.
The fact that he did this would be incredibly hard for me to swallow and let go. Personally, the type of lady that I am I wouldn't let it go. I am not the kind to take things lightly and some women are able to. I'm not. I would tell him to Fuk off if I were you. That was mean. I would move on and tell him to pay child support. No woman deserves that no matter what Satan has under his sleeve. Keep your head up. I don' t know you or your hubby but if he is capable of cheating on you and your children then I wouldn't ever feel secure AGAIN! you know? Pray to God sis he's always watching.
man your hubby could by my ex's brother. same thing here, only i didnt have any kids with him. all i can say is you have pulled yourself away and up from that kind of relationship. you were the planner, the one who nutured the relationship and worked on him, now its your turn. i know you are hurting, but i could not sleep with my hubby after he cheated, abused lied and used me, thats the bottom line, yeah he hurt you and you will get over it, you still love him cause you worked so hard putting your all in it, i truly dont believe he will change, he wants to come back to the nest, it will be the same, dont do it.
First of all the reason he is begging to come back is you begged for so long. The other woman probably got sick of him. So no he needs a place to go and needs a woman to lean on (use). He would probably leave again if he found another one who would pay his way. I know you have his children and it is hard to let go, but when a man does something like this to a mother of his children there is something seriously wrong with him. Especially if he cheats on his wife with an older woman. It sounds to me like he's not wanting a mother for his children, he's wanting a mother for himself! If it were me I would tell him to eat dirt and find someone else that will put up with him.
U stated he went from a piece of s**t into a nice family man.....................................… he didnt, he's still a piece of s**t.
You are young, and you deserve much much better than that.
God Bless and Good Luck
move on
I am in the same boat, except my husband doesnt want to come back. Do you feel like you want to give hime another chance? Is he a good father? Its true that you are chancing him doing the same thing over again, and having to go through all the emotions over again, but if you feel that you really want him to come home, let him come home. Just sit with him and make your feelings known. But, if you feel that he might do it again, and you dont want to go through it again, then maybe he shouldnt come back. Its a hard decision, I know ! If you do let him come back, you should grill it into him that if it happens again, he will be ruining any chance of ever coming back, and also ruin his relationship with his children!
well your both still very young.. and if you really do love him, and you do want him back, you have to forgive and forget all about this affair, no bringing it up and fighting over it, get over it and move on, you guys can't work things out of this affair keeps popping up and causing problems,he has to earn his trust with you again... you have to feel you can completly trust him again or it just won't work.. forgive and forget, but if he ever did it to you again leave him for good.
He has too many issues for you to keep putting up with him. Don't let him back . He won't stay any way; his probably dumped or got dumped by the gf and has no where else to go. He knows he can use you till something else comes along. Let yourself heal from all the abuse and hurt his put on you then you can see that you never wanted him back anyway. You'll find someone new and they'll treat you right.
Face to face honest communication is a must here,between u two.
You need to get out of this before you have six kids and are wondering who he's frugging now................
Don't take him back! Look at all the things you and your family did for this man. And how does he repay you? By having an affair. He should we grateful to have someone like you. You made him what he is today. Without you he would be dead. I know it's hard because you have 2 wonderful children with him, but do you really want to go through all of this again? If you did take him back it would only be time until he started again. Once a cheater always a cheater. But if you really love him and believe that things can work out maybe you should try. But just remember that you deserve so much better. You sound like a great person, don't take him back and let him walk all over you. If you do take him back, make sure he knows it's on your terms. Good Luck with what ever you decide to do.
Find someone else like he did.
Don't let him come home till you've had a chance to get some counseling for yourself AND marriage counseling with him.
try to get councelling...it will re-surface again...
He's not going to change anytime soon, he's young and immature. You guys did start off young believe me I speak from experience. Yes I know you're worried about your children, but do you want your children to also see all the problems between you to. Think about your children, they need you without you then can't survive. Whatever you do don't believe again when he says he wants to have another child or work it out, don't give in so easy.
I WOULD GET SOME COUNSELING, THAT THE FIRST THING
BUT YOUR ONLY CONCERN IS YOUR CHILDREN. SO THEY
SHOULD COME FIRST. BECAUSE IF YOU GET BACK WITH'HIM THERE NO TIME TABLE THAT HE WONT DO
IT AGAIN. THAT WHAT YOU REALLY NEED TO THINK
ABOUT. I KNOW THAT IT MAY BE HARD FOR YOU. SO
TALK TO SOMEONE BEFORE MAKING ANY DECISION.
He is YOUNG. I doubt there is a single solitary man on the planet that was/is 22 years old who has not done the exact same thing. It doesn't make it right, but it is just how we men are at that age, and beyond that age. So your chances of finding one that isn't like that, that you could stand to be around (because that is how MEN are,) is quite slim.
Here's the good part though. As you get older, he'll calm down, but your sex drive and your level of frustration from being treated like crap for so many years will catch up to you, and before you know it, you're the one cheating. That too, is a fact of life more times than not.
You see, it all evens out. So if you're smart, you'll just stick it out with him if you love him, because you'll be getting even before it's over. That is practically a written in stone guarantee.
Boy advice !!! help?
ok i need serious help
i was in love with this boy
sooo in love he was my best friend nand he liked me too but he moved
and its been 5 months and hes back! i still have feelings for him
but now my friend likes him too no one knows i like him wat do u do
i cant get over this dudeBoy advice !!! help?
Tell him how you feel, if you are bestfriends he will hear you out and make you not feel dumb about coming out with your feelings.
A friend isn't a true friend if they know about you liking him and how close you two were before he left... plus a friend isn't a good friend if they go after your crush :)Boy advice !!! help?
Tell him how you feel...moisturizing cream
i was in love with this boy
sooo in love he was my best friend nand he liked me too but he moved
and its been 5 months and hes back! i still have feelings for him
but now my friend likes him too no one knows i like him wat do u do
i cant get over this dudeBoy advice !!! help?
Tell him how you feel, if you are bestfriends he will hear you out and make you not feel dumb about coming out with your feelings.
A friend isn't a true friend if they know about you liking him and how close you two were before he left... plus a friend isn't a good friend if they go after your crush :)Boy advice !!! help?
Tell him how you feel...
Need advice,help please!!! 鈾モ櫏鈾?
Theres this boy I like... but the thing is he has a gf that I extremly dislike... I KNOW that he hates me 4 sure...but lately we have been bonding more...
My question is how do I get him to notice my personality more,the REAL me...
Thnks
鈾?Em鈾モ櫏鈾? Need advice,help please!!! 鈾モ櫏鈾?
im sorry, but i think that if u dont really have much chemistry and already has a gf then its not worth it, dont down ur hopes tho, im sure u can find one, i just asked a boyout who was mi friend and he said yes :) now i have a bf, and its mi first real one, yeah for me, lol im so happy, but good luck!!鈾モ櫏鈾? Need advice,help please!!! 鈾モ櫏鈾?
Why would you want to go after a guy that has a gf and isn't all that into you? That's just dumb.
My question is how do I get him to notice my personality more,the REAL me...
Thnks
鈾?Em鈾モ櫏鈾? Need advice,help please!!! 鈾モ櫏鈾?
im sorry, but i think that if u dont really have much chemistry and already has a gf then its not worth it, dont down ur hopes tho, im sure u can find one, i just asked a boyout who was mi friend and he said yes :) now i have a bf, and its mi first real one, yeah for me, lol im so happy, but good luck!!鈾モ櫏鈾? Need advice,help please!!! 鈾モ櫏鈾?
Why would you want to go after a guy that has a gf and isn't all that into you? That's just dumb.
Cheating advice help!!?
someone close t me is cheating and i think they r using a go phone to talk to there lover is there anyway i can find out if they have a go phoneCheating advice help!!?
I dont thinktere is a way to find out umless you actuaaly see them with it.Lots of phones are untraceable...Cheating advice help!!?
unless you see it. when you say close to you, are you the one in the relationship or not? if you are not tread carefully. in lover's quarrels a third wheel always gets burned
Know your proper place or it will be made clear to you.
I dont thinktere is a way to find out umless you actuaaly see them with it.Lots of phones are untraceable...Cheating advice help!!?
unless you see it. when you say close to you, are you the one in the relationship or not? if you are not tread carefully. in lover's quarrels a third wheel always gets burned
Know your proper place or it will be made clear to you.
Help with my hair! advice on perms or other straightening and smoothing methods?
I have dry, curly hair, and i hate it! i straighten it with a straightner alot, even though i know this is very bad for my hair. I want to find a way to make my hair permanently straight and smooth, without risking it to fall out. Can anyone help? And it would be nice if someone tells me the risks of perming your hair. Thanks a lot!Help with my hair! advice on perms or other straightening and smoothing methods?
FIRST YOU HAVE GET YOUR HAIR IN THE BEST CONDITION TO BE PERMED. GREAT HAIR DOES NOT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT. GO BUY A HYDRATING SHAMPOO AND CONDITIONER FRO REGULAR USE. NOT A MOISTURIZING CONDITIONER THEY ARE DIFFERENT. PAUL MITCHELL IS A GOOD LINE ';THE SHAMPOO %26amp; THE CONDITIONER'; OR IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO SPEND TOO MUCH MONEY ON IT BUY HERBAL ESSENCE HYDRATING SHAMPOO %26amp; CONDITIONER.
TO HELP PREPARE YOUR HAIR FOR PERMING USE ';CPR'; BY MOTIONS THIS WILL HELP STOP ANY BREAKAGE YOU HAVE NOW AND PREVENT ANY BREAKAGE AFTER YOU PERM YOUR HAIR. USE IT AFTER YOU PERM YOUR HAIR FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS ON THE JAR. YOU WILL FEEL THE DIFFERENCE IMMEDIATELY AFTER USING ';CPR';. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A SIT DOWN DRYER INVEST IN ONE IT IS ONLY ABOUT 40.00 BUCKS AT YOUR LOCAL BEAUTY SUPPLY LIKE SALLY'S IF YOU HAVE ONE AROUND. IF YOU ARE PERMING YOUR OWN HAIR AFTER USING ';CPR'; USE A STABILZER FOR YOUR PERM. I USE ';FRENCH SILK STABILIZER PLUS'; LEAVE IN HAIR. IT DOES IMPROVE THE SILKINESS OF YOUR PERM. tAPE YOUR HAIR DOWN WITH WRAPPING TAPE AND SIT UNDER THE DRYER AND LET DRY. YOUR HAIR WILL BE SMOOTH AND SOFT AFTER THAT BLOW DRY A LITTLE IF NECESSARY TO HELP GET SOME OF THE WAVES OUT THEN ADD A LITTLE SERUM I USE ';SMOOTH %26amp; SHINE'; AND FLAT IRON.
PLEASE STOP USING THE STRAIGHT IRON SO MUCH THAT IS WHAT IS DRYING OUT YOUR HAIR AND CAUSING IT TO BREAK. GET A NICE SCARF FROM THE BEAUTY SUPPLY AND WRAP YOUR HAIR AT NIGHT. BEFORE YOU WRAP IT AT NIGHT SPRAY A LITTLE OIL SHEEN ON IT.
IT SEEMS LIKE A LOT OF WORK BUT ONCE YOU GET USED TO TAKING CARE OF YOUR HAIR IT WILL NOT BE AS DIFFICULT OF SEEM OVER WHELMING. GET AT ME IF YOU WANT RJCTTH@YAHOO.COM. I LOVE MY HAIR I WORK HARD TO KEEP SOFT AND HEALTHY.Help with my hair! advice on perms or other straightening and smoothing methods?
Too much CAPS. Ouch.
good luck
get it chemically straightened - and by a hair conditioning mask to resolve the dryness issue
The biggest risk of relaxing your hair (I used to call them perms too, but perms make it curly) is that it may be too strong and make your hair come out. Before you start you should always do a test on some hair that won't be seen, just a small piece, and wash it out after a few minute. Start with something like for kids (they're milder) too.
The reason your hair is so dry is because it's curly, because of the intense curl pattern it's hard for it to stay moisturized. Just keep moisturizing. I kept my hair unrelaxed for awhile, just whatever you do make sure it's what you want k?
well if your hair is really dry i would not suggest to be getting a perm any time soon or other wise you will regret it b/c your hair will be fried and really nasty looking. i would suggest that you sleep in conditioner once a week wear a shower cap. this will start helping you regain moisture into your hair. if you are wanting straight hair i would tell you to go and get a relaxer onto it but that is alot like perms you need to get the moisture back into your hair first. then get it cut and ask a beautician if your hair is ready enough to get a perm or relaxer.
Try the matrix line of styling products at Great Clips hair salons. You can buy some of the matrix products at Target too. There is a smoothing masque in a jar that's about $15 but my GOSH, it works wonders and worth every penny. They may have a curly hair line. Also, don't perm your hair if you've colored yourself, it will FRY your hair garunteed.
FIRST YOU HAVE GET YOUR HAIR IN THE BEST CONDITION TO BE PERMED. GREAT HAIR DOES NOT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT. GO BUY A HYDRATING SHAMPOO AND CONDITIONER FRO REGULAR USE. NOT A MOISTURIZING CONDITIONER THEY ARE DIFFERENT. PAUL MITCHELL IS A GOOD LINE ';THE SHAMPOO %26amp; THE CONDITIONER'; OR IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO SPEND TOO MUCH MONEY ON IT BUY HERBAL ESSENCE HYDRATING SHAMPOO %26amp; CONDITIONER.
TO HELP PREPARE YOUR HAIR FOR PERMING USE ';CPR'; BY MOTIONS THIS WILL HELP STOP ANY BREAKAGE YOU HAVE NOW AND PREVENT ANY BREAKAGE AFTER YOU PERM YOUR HAIR. USE IT AFTER YOU PERM YOUR HAIR FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS ON THE JAR. YOU WILL FEEL THE DIFFERENCE IMMEDIATELY AFTER USING ';CPR';. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A SIT DOWN DRYER INVEST IN ONE IT IS ONLY ABOUT 40.00 BUCKS AT YOUR LOCAL BEAUTY SUPPLY LIKE SALLY'S IF YOU HAVE ONE AROUND. IF YOU ARE PERMING YOUR OWN HAIR AFTER USING ';CPR'; USE A STABILZER FOR YOUR PERM. I USE ';FRENCH SILK STABILIZER PLUS'; LEAVE IN HAIR. IT DOES IMPROVE THE SILKINESS OF YOUR PERM. tAPE YOUR HAIR DOWN WITH WRAPPING TAPE AND SIT UNDER THE DRYER AND LET DRY. YOUR HAIR WILL BE SMOOTH AND SOFT AFTER THAT BLOW DRY A LITTLE IF NECESSARY TO HELP GET SOME OF THE WAVES OUT THEN ADD A LITTLE SERUM I USE ';SMOOTH %26amp; SHINE'; AND FLAT IRON.
PLEASE STOP USING THE STRAIGHT IRON SO MUCH THAT IS WHAT IS DRYING OUT YOUR HAIR AND CAUSING IT TO BREAK. GET A NICE SCARF FROM THE BEAUTY SUPPLY AND WRAP YOUR HAIR AT NIGHT. BEFORE YOU WRAP IT AT NIGHT SPRAY A LITTLE OIL SHEEN ON IT.
IT SEEMS LIKE A LOT OF WORK BUT ONCE YOU GET USED TO TAKING CARE OF YOUR HAIR IT WILL NOT BE AS DIFFICULT OF SEEM OVER WHELMING. GET AT ME IF YOU WANT RJCTTH@YAHOO.COM. I LOVE MY HAIR I WORK HARD TO KEEP SOFT AND HEALTHY.Help with my hair! advice on perms or other straightening and smoothing methods?
Too much CAPS. Ouch.
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get it chemically straightened - and by a hair conditioning mask to resolve the dryness issue
The biggest risk of relaxing your hair (I used to call them perms too, but perms make it curly) is that it may be too strong and make your hair come out. Before you start you should always do a test on some hair that won't be seen, just a small piece, and wash it out after a few minute. Start with something like for kids (they're milder) too.
The reason your hair is so dry is because it's curly, because of the intense curl pattern it's hard for it to stay moisturized. Just keep moisturizing. I kept my hair unrelaxed for awhile, just whatever you do make sure it's what you want k?
well if your hair is really dry i would not suggest to be getting a perm any time soon or other wise you will regret it b/c your hair will be fried and really nasty looking. i would suggest that you sleep in conditioner once a week wear a shower cap. this will start helping you regain moisture into your hair. if you are wanting straight hair i would tell you to go and get a relaxer onto it but that is alot like perms you need to get the moisture back into your hair first. then get it cut and ask a beautician if your hair is ready enough to get a perm or relaxer.
Try the matrix line of styling products at Great Clips hair salons. You can buy some of the matrix products at Target too. There is a smoothing masque in a jar that's about $15 but my GOSH, it works wonders and worth every penny. They may have a curly hair line. Also, don't perm your hair if you've colored yourself, it will FRY your hair garunteed.
Mentally ill, in need of 4 extractions and I'm in desperate need of help/advice?
If there are any dentists here that would be able to talk to me for a few minutes by phone it would be GREATLY appreciated. I am 21, live in northern NJ, suffer from several severe mental illnesses, and just this week went to see a dentist for the first time in over 5 years. I need to have teeth #'s 17, 18, 30, and 31 extracted. The dentist I saw said I would need to go to an oral surgeon for it. Which I completely agree with, because I need to be put under general (not just local) anestia for this. (Due to extreme fear) I can not find ANYWHERE that will take Medicaid and be able to see me in a decent time frame. The 2 clinics that there are in this area both have an approximent wait of 4 weeks. I am in pain and I don't know what to do... I am probably going to end up paying out of pocket on my credit card but was given an estimate of $2000 (including the general anestia) If anyone can suggest anything or give me any advice on what I can do I would be very greatful. Thanks
~Julie~Mentally ill, in need of 4 extractions and I'm in desperate need of help/advice?
Damn our Medicaid System!! I too am on Medicaid. I live on Social Security disability only and have had to fight for everything I've gotten when it's come to getting things done for me medically. I also suffer from both physical and mental issues which need to be addressed appropriatly and in a timely manner. But, Woe is me and You we are stuck dealing with the deck we've been dealt. As far as getting in to see any kind of a specialist expect to wait several months and then drive several hours. If you are in pain then an emergency room is obligated to do whatever they can to at the very least alleviate your pain and at the most may have a connection to an oral surgeon on call who can be called in as an emergency. Do whatever you have to do to hang in there and get your pain relief needs taken care of until you can see the specialists. Don't feel timid about calling every day to see if there happens to be a cancellation. I once got in to my rheumatologist a whole month early because they had a cancellation and I just happened to call at the right time. As far as the procedure goes, don't worry yourself silly about it. Ask the doctor all the questions you need to ask so that you are well informed as to what exactly they are going to do and why. Then trust in God (if your believe in God), and if not then trust in the skill of the Dr,'s you're working with and follow their instructions to the letter and you should do just fine. I worked in Oral Surgery for 20 years as an assistant to the Dr. Oral Surgeons do these kinds of extractions all the time, it's their bread and butter. Have faith. Good LuckMentally ill, in need of 4 extractions and I'm in desperate need of help/advice?
Medicaid really sucks so few doctors take it but what i would suggest is to call the welfare office they can put you in touch with a social worker who can help you find a doctor, or if you have a therapist ask them to help you, either of those people have the resources to help you find a doctor quickly. As a last resort if you are in extreme pain go to the hospital, they have to help you and if you are lucky enough to find an oral surgeon on call at the hospital they will see how much you need help and you can be fixed quicker. I know things don't always work the way they should but be persistent with the welfare office (or what ever office your medicaid is issued out of) and you will get the help you need. I hope this helps you.
Unfortunately, there are so many people living at the poverty level, the backlog for Medicaid care is horrendous. Understand that Medicaid will reimburse the dentist about $35 for removing a tooth. It costs more to pay the staff than that. New Jersey has not had a major fee revision in over 20 years and the fees were horrible 20 years ago. Many would GIVE away the care, but to work for Medicaid fees usually means that the doctor is paying for part of your care out of his own pocket, as he still has to meet expenses. In my little office in a rural area, it costs about $185-200 per hour to open the office. That MUST be paid before I have a penny to put in my own pocket. I can't see a Medicaid patient and do four extractions, which would take about an hour, and lose $60 of my own money. I do not mean I'd make $60 less than usual. I mean it would cost me $60 out of my pocket to make up the difference so I could pay my staff and the electric company, etc., and I'd have nothing at all for my efforts and liability.
I know this is not good advice for you, but it's information to help you understand why almost nobody accepts Medicaid except clinics that are frequently government subsidized (directly or indirectly) to operate. Maybe you can join the ranks of people who are pushing legislators to overhaul NJ Medicaid.
Go to the emergency room at your nearest hospital, they will have it done there if you are in the pain you say you are in or they will find someone for you that will do it on medical card.
MEDICAID IS SUPPOSED TO TELL YOU WHERE TO GO FOR EMERGENCY SERVICES.......CALL YOUR MEDICAID OFFICE AND TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR PROBLEM.......SO SORRY........
isn't there a medical assistance program there at the welfare office, that could pay part of it??
~Julie~Mentally ill, in need of 4 extractions and I'm in desperate need of help/advice?
Damn our Medicaid System!! I too am on Medicaid. I live on Social Security disability only and have had to fight for everything I've gotten when it's come to getting things done for me medically. I also suffer from both physical and mental issues which need to be addressed appropriatly and in a timely manner. But, Woe is me and You we are stuck dealing with the deck we've been dealt. As far as getting in to see any kind of a specialist expect to wait several months and then drive several hours. If you are in pain then an emergency room is obligated to do whatever they can to at the very least alleviate your pain and at the most may have a connection to an oral surgeon on call who can be called in as an emergency. Do whatever you have to do to hang in there and get your pain relief needs taken care of until you can see the specialists. Don't feel timid about calling every day to see if there happens to be a cancellation. I once got in to my rheumatologist a whole month early because they had a cancellation and I just happened to call at the right time. As far as the procedure goes, don't worry yourself silly about it. Ask the doctor all the questions you need to ask so that you are well informed as to what exactly they are going to do and why. Then trust in God (if your believe in God), and if not then trust in the skill of the Dr,'s you're working with and follow their instructions to the letter and you should do just fine. I worked in Oral Surgery for 20 years as an assistant to the Dr. Oral Surgeons do these kinds of extractions all the time, it's their bread and butter. Have faith. Good LuckMentally ill, in need of 4 extractions and I'm in desperate need of help/advice?
Medicaid really sucks so few doctors take it but what i would suggest is to call the welfare office they can put you in touch with a social worker who can help you find a doctor, or if you have a therapist ask them to help you, either of those people have the resources to help you find a doctor quickly. As a last resort if you are in extreme pain go to the hospital, they have to help you and if you are lucky enough to find an oral surgeon on call at the hospital they will see how much you need help and you can be fixed quicker. I know things don't always work the way they should but be persistent with the welfare office (or what ever office your medicaid is issued out of) and you will get the help you need. I hope this helps you.
Unfortunately, there are so many people living at the poverty level, the backlog for Medicaid care is horrendous. Understand that Medicaid will reimburse the dentist about $35 for removing a tooth. It costs more to pay the staff than that. New Jersey has not had a major fee revision in over 20 years and the fees were horrible 20 years ago. Many would GIVE away the care, but to work for Medicaid fees usually means that the doctor is paying for part of your care out of his own pocket, as he still has to meet expenses. In my little office in a rural area, it costs about $185-200 per hour to open the office. That MUST be paid before I have a penny to put in my own pocket. I can't see a Medicaid patient and do four extractions, which would take about an hour, and lose $60 of my own money. I do not mean I'd make $60 less than usual. I mean it would cost me $60 out of my pocket to make up the difference so I could pay my staff and the electric company, etc., and I'd have nothing at all for my efforts and liability.
I know this is not good advice for you, but it's information to help you understand why almost nobody accepts Medicaid except clinics that are frequently government subsidized (directly or indirectly) to operate. Maybe you can join the ranks of people who are pushing legislators to overhaul NJ Medicaid.
Go to the emergency room at your nearest hospital, they will have it done there if you are in the pain you say you are in or they will find someone for you that will do it on medical card.
MEDICAID IS SUPPOSED TO TELL YOU WHERE TO GO FOR EMERGENCY SERVICES.......CALL YOUR MEDICAID OFFICE AND TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR PROBLEM.......SO SORRY........
isn't there a medical assistance program there at the welfare office, that could pay part of it??
I need your advice//help !! ASAP =/?
What signs do men show when they are attracted ???I need your advice//help !! ASAP =/?
they flirt with you and look at youI need your advice//help !! ASAP =/?
My best advice is that you'll know if a man is attracted to you. Generally, guys are nicer than they usually are when trying to get a woman's attention. They'll look at you straight in the eye, they'll usually smile (exceptionally big smile) and you'll have their undivided attention. Don't worry--you'll know if a guy likes you.
signs to be attracted to females or you?
well its kinda different for different people but the usually is they might stare, go out of their way to talk to you, joke around with you, being extremly nice
however if their shy they might stare and if you look at them they will stare at something else, can't talk straight, red in the face, stuff like that
I make eyes at girls I'm attracted to, and joke around with them a lot too. But it's different for every guy, some guys will do the same thing to girls they simply value as friends, and other guys just do it for the attention. There's no rhyme or reason to the game, you just gotta play. Trust your instincts, and go with your gut. You may not always be right, but it's a learning process. Most important of all, have fun, and love yourself first!
well theres this guy and i think he likes me and hes always staring at me even when i kind of look at him i can still see him staring and when i talk to him he has this really cute smile that i never see him smiile at anyone else with and he always listens when i talk yea i like this guy and sometimes i think he likes mefor those reasons :]]]]]]
You might catch him staring at you with a goofy smile. He may often find reasons to talk to you. Generally, you'll know just by body laguage. He might lay his hand on your arm while talking, give you a surprise hug....etc. Good luck!
Everyone is way to different to give a simple response.
Generally, they'll be more interested in you and want to spend time with you.
Follow your gut feeling.
it depends on the guy, but some will tease you (not in too mean of a way, but like they do with their guy friends) or they'll flirt and compliment you. sometimes they're shy and it's hard to tell
well they flirt, they stare at you, they smile at you. If you are between 13 and 15 they poke you and tease you a lot.
I think it matters on the guy some may
1) call you a lot
2) talk about u a lot
3) tell u you pretty etc
4) be really nice to u
5) tell u things he don't tell others
6) kiss you
when i know someone is attracted to me i just get this feeling... idk it weird. but i have predicted everyguy i go out with.
depends on the type of guy. but most likly they'll do little things to touch u. like poking u or grabing your sholder. they also tend to complaiment girls they like alot! before dating them.
Some Do Show Any Signs Which Is Very Nerv Wrecking But Many will Joke With You Or Say Certain Corny Things That They Really Mean. Or Shy Away. Ah So Much Things.
I become very shy, and I try to avoid the object of my affection. I try to look at her when she's not looking at me, though.
some are bashful, and nervous, keeping their hand in their pockets.
others are brazen, but stay away from those
depends on the guy....they could shy away and blush. They may flirt and be touchy... Look at what kind of guy he is and you'll know.
Take Care!
I am sure you can figure it out if you jus watch him!!!
They look at you alot. Smile and compliment you. Seem to always appear. You ll know, if you dont already?
glance over at you frequently.
clumbyness, boners ect
they will be attracted to you when they just look at you. there isn't really a way that u can tell if they like you.
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for ';friend of mine'; that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, ';Well, you like orange fizz...';
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say ';Hey.'; to everyone with you, but the ';Hey.'; to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
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MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
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OR
STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
staring, playful teasing or hitting, shyness
smiling, warm body language, lots of eye contact, excuses to text/ be in touch, gifts......the list goes on - whats the story cherry?
They stare.
mostly they stare at you email you or show off alot
first tell me what signs is he showin???? there are alot of signs
flirting, flip their hair, starin at u , smile etc . =] BEST ANSWER PLZZ
they look at u al the time
and all that jazz
Smiles...
Physical contact...
Shyness..
Stiffy!! ;)
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for ';friend of mine'; that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, ';Well, you like orange fizz...';
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say ';Hey.'; to everyone with you, but the ';Hey.'; to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
______________________________...
MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
------------------------------...
OR
STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
they flirt with you and look at youI need your advice//help !! ASAP =/?
My best advice is that you'll know if a man is attracted to you. Generally, guys are nicer than they usually are when trying to get a woman's attention. They'll look at you straight in the eye, they'll usually smile (exceptionally big smile) and you'll have their undivided attention. Don't worry--you'll know if a guy likes you.
signs to be attracted to females or you?
well its kinda different for different people but the usually is they might stare, go out of their way to talk to you, joke around with you, being extremly nice
however if their shy they might stare and if you look at them they will stare at something else, can't talk straight, red in the face, stuff like that
I make eyes at girls I'm attracted to, and joke around with them a lot too. But it's different for every guy, some guys will do the same thing to girls they simply value as friends, and other guys just do it for the attention. There's no rhyme or reason to the game, you just gotta play. Trust your instincts, and go with your gut. You may not always be right, but it's a learning process. Most important of all, have fun, and love yourself first!
well theres this guy and i think he likes me and hes always staring at me even when i kind of look at him i can still see him staring and when i talk to him he has this really cute smile that i never see him smiile at anyone else with and he always listens when i talk yea i like this guy and sometimes i think he likes mefor those reasons :]]]]]]
You might catch him staring at you with a goofy smile. He may often find reasons to talk to you. Generally, you'll know just by body laguage. He might lay his hand on your arm while talking, give you a surprise hug....etc. Good luck!
Everyone is way to different to give a simple response.
Generally, they'll be more interested in you and want to spend time with you.
Follow your gut feeling.
it depends on the guy, but some will tease you (not in too mean of a way, but like they do with their guy friends) or they'll flirt and compliment you. sometimes they're shy and it's hard to tell
well they flirt, they stare at you, they smile at you. If you are between 13 and 15 they poke you and tease you a lot.
I think it matters on the guy some may
1) call you a lot
2) talk about u a lot
3) tell u you pretty etc
4) be really nice to u
5) tell u things he don't tell others
6) kiss you
when i know someone is attracted to me i just get this feeling... idk it weird. but i have predicted everyguy i go out with.
depends on the type of guy. but most likly they'll do little things to touch u. like poking u or grabing your sholder. they also tend to complaiment girls they like alot! before dating them.
Some Do Show Any Signs Which Is Very Nerv Wrecking But Many will Joke With You Or Say Certain Corny Things That They Really Mean. Or Shy Away. Ah So Much Things.
I become very shy, and I try to avoid the object of my affection. I try to look at her when she's not looking at me, though.
some are bashful, and nervous, keeping their hand in their pockets.
others are brazen, but stay away from those
depends on the guy....they could shy away and blush. They may flirt and be touchy... Look at what kind of guy he is and you'll know.
Take Care!
I am sure you can figure it out if you jus watch him!!!
They look at you alot. Smile and compliment you. Seem to always appear. You ll know, if you dont already?
glance over at you frequently.
clumbyness, boners ect
they will be attracted to you when they just look at you. there isn't really a way that u can tell if they like you.
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for ';friend of mine'; that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, ';Well, you like orange fizz...';
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say ';Hey.'; to everyone with you, but the ';Hey.'; to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
______________________________...
MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
------------------------------...
OR
STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
staring, playful teasing or hitting, shyness
smiling, warm body language, lots of eye contact, excuses to text/ be in touch, gifts......the list goes on - whats the story cherry?
They stare.
mostly they stare at you email you or show off alot
first tell me what signs is he showin???? there are alot of signs
flirting, flip their hair, starin at u , smile etc . =] BEST ANSWER PLZZ
they look at u al the time
and all that jazz
Smiles...
Physical contact...
Shyness..
Stiffy!! ;)
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for ';friend of mine'; that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, ';Well, you like orange fizz...';
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say ';Hey.'; to everyone with you, but the ';Hey.'; to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
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Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
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STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Men and women please, i need your advice! help?
i am sick of being single , i want a b/f and the last guy i liked was nice at first then he turned out to be an asshole , you see we met while at work, he knew i was leaving and he didn't bother to give me his number, now there is a guy at my new job, he is a cute guy,he flirts with me constantly , but the problem is that he has a fiancee, although he told his friend they are fighting and he thinks he is going to break up the engagement, then there is another guy at the same place, he is a very funny guy and goes out of his way to just do funny stuff, for example, we were walking next to each other and he jumped and fell on the floor and pretended i had tripped him, but he later told me it was a joke, he is a nice guy, the problem is i NEVER get approach by any guy and the ones i have approached turned me down, so i'm waiting for one of the guys at my new job to approach me, i mean what should i do ,should i approach them?Men and women please, i need your advice! help?
You should just wait. When God has a guy for you he will let you and the guy know that this is Mr. Right.Men and women please, i need your advice! help?
How old are you and what year is this? Girls ask guys out all of the time now. Treat it like shopping, see something you like, pick it up! Get with it! And stop trying to date guys from your work! It usually leads to disaster.
Rule #1: Don't Look for Love!
Rule #2: Be happy, confidant and yourself no matter what!
If you're that hard up, try harmony.com
Never get involved with a person from work. My rule is to not get involved with people in my city. Honey child, go volunteer to manage a guys basketball team, or feed soup to homeless men at the Salvation Army, join the army and go to Iraq, but never, never, get involved with guys at work.
Follow your heart, seek God and await his answer he will not lead you astray. Be patient my child and when you can grab the coin from my hand you will be ready ha ha!!
NO, wait for them to approach you!
tell him
Don't get frantic, and don't grab the first guy who shows signs of interest. Just be open, friendly, and get to know them a little better.
Have you ever heard of the expression
Never Sh*t where you eat?
Sometimes, you can't just stand there and wait for life to pass you by. Invite one of them or both, or a group out for a drink on night, or organise a works drink for Christmas, then make the running. That doesn;t mean you have to come on strong, just start the conversations for a change.
Carpe diem!! (That means ';Seize the day';, btw, not anything rude)
One piece of advice. Make it a rule - repeat after me:
';DON'T DATE PEOPLE AT WORK.';moisturizing cream
You should just wait. When God has a guy for you he will let you and the guy know that this is Mr. Right.Men and women please, i need your advice! help?
How old are you and what year is this? Girls ask guys out all of the time now. Treat it like shopping, see something you like, pick it up! Get with it! And stop trying to date guys from your work! It usually leads to disaster.
Rule #1: Don't Look for Love!
Rule #2: Be happy, confidant and yourself no matter what!
If you're that hard up, try harmony.com
Never get involved with a person from work. My rule is to not get involved with people in my city. Honey child, go volunteer to manage a guys basketball team, or feed soup to homeless men at the Salvation Army, join the army and go to Iraq, but never, never, get involved with guys at work.
Follow your heart, seek God and await his answer he will not lead you astray. Be patient my child and when you can grab the coin from my hand you will be ready ha ha!!
NO, wait for them to approach you!
tell him
Don't get frantic, and don't grab the first guy who shows signs of interest. Just be open, friendly, and get to know them a little better.
Have you ever heard of the expression
Never Sh*t where you eat?
Sometimes, you can't just stand there and wait for life to pass you by. Invite one of them or both, or a group out for a drink on night, or organise a works drink for Christmas, then make the running. That doesn;t mean you have to come on strong, just start the conversations for a change.
Carpe diem!! (That means ';Seize the day';, btw, not anything rude)
One piece of advice. Make it a rule - repeat after me:
';DON'T DATE PEOPLE AT WORK.';
In need for advice, Help me please?
Ive known this girl for the past year and recently since I've been away on vacation and shes been emailing me, telling me how she misses me, and that she would consider dating me
Well I finally came home yesterday to talk to her for 40mins on the phone about everything. I told her that I like her, %26amp; I wanna be that guy who doesn't care if shes in sweats and a tee or whipe her tears whenevr shes sad, %26amp; whenever I said somethin nice she kept sayin brb on the phone %26amp; came bak after 10seconds or so...weird. So basically she said that she wouldnt go back go back 2 her ex ';plus her ex b/f is a player lemme add';. Anyhow, she reiterated that she doesnt wanna be ina relationship %26amp; guys aren't worth it, but I can tell shes hiding her true feelings becuz she always has lovey-dovey pix on her msn display. So is this girl serious, she told me not to call her and she'll email me back in a few days to think bout things. I will give her space, but i feel that i should have fun and not think bout herIn need for advice, Help me please?
girls prefer to talk about relationships via msn/ email it's easier... but i can bet you anything that the day you were talking to her she was asking her girl friends for advice when she sed brb every second! give her space atleast she knows your intentions!
gd luckIn need for advice, Help me please?
dont think about it dude. when you get back, youll know
It sounds like she may not know what she wants. Sometimes a girl will call a guy to herself and then push him back and then call him back again and then push him back and on and on because she doesn't know what she really wants, but she likes the attention the guy gives her. If she's saying that she doesn't want to be in a relationship and you do, then move on. She can get in touch with you and let you know if she changes her mind. If she does get in contact with you, be sure to let her know that you are interested in something that leads to a relationship (if that's what you want) and don't let her jerk you around emotionally. In the meantime, go out, have fun and don't think about her too much.
if you love her stick to it. she will see soon that you care...
for some reason she's not ready. talk to her or do something sweet to win over her heart. the best thing is to give her time or let her come to u when she's ready
Wow i wish a guy would say things like that to me! awwww. I think she is afraid of commitment, thats why she kept leaving wenever u said something nice. She probably didnt know wat to say back. But in the meantime u should just try not to think about her and give her some time. But if she says no dnt keep going back to her. Respect her decision and leave her alone. U never know she might change her mind and come back 2 u :) That is if she says no in the first place lol
86 the games and have fun
you have 2 choices... shes either playing you.... or shes scared to get hurt
Well I finally came home yesterday to talk to her for 40mins on the phone about everything. I told her that I like her, %26amp; I wanna be that guy who doesn't care if shes in sweats and a tee or whipe her tears whenevr shes sad, %26amp; whenever I said somethin nice she kept sayin brb on the phone %26amp; came bak after 10seconds or so...weird. So basically she said that she wouldnt go back go back 2 her ex ';plus her ex b/f is a player lemme add';. Anyhow, she reiterated that she doesnt wanna be ina relationship %26amp; guys aren't worth it, but I can tell shes hiding her true feelings becuz she always has lovey-dovey pix on her msn display. So is this girl serious, she told me not to call her and she'll email me back in a few days to think bout things. I will give her space, but i feel that i should have fun and not think bout herIn need for advice, Help me please?
girls prefer to talk about relationships via msn/ email it's easier... but i can bet you anything that the day you were talking to her she was asking her girl friends for advice when she sed brb every second! give her space atleast she knows your intentions!
gd luckIn need for advice, Help me please?
dont think about it dude. when you get back, youll know
It sounds like she may not know what she wants. Sometimes a girl will call a guy to herself and then push him back and then call him back again and then push him back and on and on because she doesn't know what she really wants, but she likes the attention the guy gives her. If she's saying that she doesn't want to be in a relationship and you do, then move on. She can get in touch with you and let you know if she changes her mind. If she does get in contact with you, be sure to let her know that you are interested in something that leads to a relationship (if that's what you want) and don't let her jerk you around emotionally. In the meantime, go out, have fun and don't think about her too much.
if you love her stick to it. she will see soon that you care...
for some reason she's not ready. talk to her or do something sweet to win over her heart. the best thing is to give her time or let her come to u when she's ready
Wow i wish a guy would say things like that to me! awwww. I think she is afraid of commitment, thats why she kept leaving wenever u said something nice. She probably didnt know wat to say back. But in the meantime u should just try not to think about her and give her some time. But if she says no dnt keep going back to her. Respect her decision and leave her alone. U never know she might change her mind and come back 2 u :) That is if she says no in the first place lol
86 the games and have fun
you have 2 choices... shes either playing you.... or shes scared to get hurt
I need major advice/help!? pt 2?
Well I did tell him that I was sorry and he accepted but not until after i called his cell and started bawling on the phone. I cant call him bc im deaf and i can leave him a voice mail. I didnt really know what to say. He dont live alone and he always has to give his grandma 400 bucks for rent which is bull bc thats almost all of his money. Ive never had a relationship where i was so sad bc i couldnt see my bf but i love this guy to death. He means a lot to me. I need a way to not get so angry with him bc im gonna screw up. He always says im the ONLY one for him n i believe him til i get pissed off at him. For those of u who are wonderin what this is about check out I need major advice/help!?
I need someone to tell me how to keep my cool when im talkin to him on here bc its not easy i get angry so easy and sometimes want to harm myself.I need major advice/help!? pt 2?
you need to CALM DOWN. sure, its hard for an adolescent to control their feelings that are mostly controlled by their raging hormones - no matter your gender! i hope that you can realize that seeing someone everyday can really jeapordize a relationship and make it much harder to keep it fresh and enjoyable. dont feel that its his fault he cant see u...unless u have reasoning leading to thinking that way. i would also give it some thought that if hes living with his grandma, he has to help support the household. plus...it sucks, but guys lie. it hurts and its horrible...but guys are very vindictive and secretive at times to get what they want. they say what you want to hear and so on...trust me i had a boyfriend for five years...(my high school boyfriend who i am currently pregnant to who left me!!) that i thought was mr. right. we spent every waking moment together but there was constantly excuses on why he had no money...he gave it all to his parents to help with this and that and he said he had his own car, but it was his parents thus controlling his life until he was 20 and i fell for it when we were younger but BAM...you just realize all the bad stuff after the fact...i mean, i could be wrong, but i would protect myself before letting all this get to you so badly. being so emotional is n ot going to help a guy to answer his phone - trust me, i also have first hand knowledge with this. guys run away from relationships that are like this...they feel controlled, trapped...and while they might come around in a few days, hours or minutes, they hold it against what they feel for you because its something they are not okay with dealing with.have you ever thought he wasnt the right one for you? there are so many guys out there...and so much time in this world to find the right one. it sounds cliche, but being young and thinking every boyfriend you have is ';the one'; til something bad happens is natural...please keep this in mind and be rational.I need major advice/help!? pt 2?
damn, just chillll stop getting mad, find something that makes you calm or releases your anger first
be calm. develop positive thinking. happy and enjoy.
easy going best way.
we should not have to read the first part in order to understand your question.
You need anger management.
I need someone to tell me how to keep my cool when im talkin to him on here bc its not easy i get angry so easy and sometimes want to harm myself.I need major advice/help!? pt 2?
you need to CALM DOWN. sure, its hard for an adolescent to control their feelings that are mostly controlled by their raging hormones - no matter your gender! i hope that you can realize that seeing someone everyday can really jeapordize a relationship and make it much harder to keep it fresh and enjoyable. dont feel that its his fault he cant see u...unless u have reasoning leading to thinking that way. i would also give it some thought that if hes living with his grandma, he has to help support the household. plus...it sucks, but guys lie. it hurts and its horrible...but guys are very vindictive and secretive at times to get what they want. they say what you want to hear and so on...trust me i had a boyfriend for five years...(my high school boyfriend who i am currently pregnant to who left me!!) that i thought was mr. right. we spent every waking moment together but there was constantly excuses on why he had no money...he gave it all to his parents to help with this and that and he said he had his own car, but it was his parents thus controlling his life until he was 20 and i fell for it when we were younger but BAM...you just realize all the bad stuff after the fact...i mean, i could be wrong, but i would protect myself before letting all this get to you so badly. being so emotional is n ot going to help a guy to answer his phone - trust me, i also have first hand knowledge with this. guys run away from relationships that are like this...they feel controlled, trapped...and while they might come around in a few days, hours or minutes, they hold it against what they feel for you because its something they are not okay with dealing with.have you ever thought he wasnt the right one for you? there are so many guys out there...and so much time in this world to find the right one. it sounds cliche, but being young and thinking every boyfriend you have is ';the one'; til something bad happens is natural...please keep this in mind and be rational.I need major advice/help!? pt 2?
damn, just chillll stop getting mad, find something that makes you calm or releases your anger first
be calm. develop positive thinking. happy and enjoy.
easy going best way.
we should not have to read the first part in order to understand your question.
You need anger management.
What should i do in this situation?...i need help/advice please ppl?
i have a bf...but i like someone else
this someone else told me that he likes me...but i went on his myspace and he was flirting with another girl...A LOT
i dont know what to do any advice please....What should i do in this situation?...i need help/advice please ppl?
Figure out what issues you are having in your relationship and address them. There are reasons why you are having feelings for someone else. As for this other guy that is flirting with someone else. BEWARE!!! I don't trust the sound of this. The grass isn't always greener on the other side thats for sure! Does he know you have a boyfriend? He might just be trying to win you over your current bf. This doesn't mean he likes you! He is just testing the water to see how far you would do. Either way if you have lost feelings or you can't fix what is going wrong with you and your bf now then you need to be honest with him.
Good Luck!!What should i do in this situation?...i need help/advice please ppl?
first, i will ask a question of my own. are you happy with the guy that you with right now? if so, don't ruin it by going after a guy that is flirting with other girls just because u heard a rumor that he likes you. It might not be true and you would have ruined a perfectly good relationship
if ur not happy in that relationship go for it! what do you got to loose?
this someone else told me that he likes me...but i went on his myspace and he was flirting with another girl...A LOT
i dont know what to do any advice please....What should i do in this situation?...i need help/advice please ppl?
Figure out what issues you are having in your relationship and address them. There are reasons why you are having feelings for someone else. As for this other guy that is flirting with someone else. BEWARE!!! I don't trust the sound of this. The grass isn't always greener on the other side thats for sure! Does he know you have a boyfriend? He might just be trying to win you over your current bf. This doesn't mean he likes you! He is just testing the water to see how far you would do. Either way if you have lost feelings or you can't fix what is going wrong with you and your bf now then you need to be honest with him.
Good Luck!!What should i do in this situation?...i need help/advice please ppl?
first, i will ask a question of my own. are you happy with the guy that you with right now? if so, don't ruin it by going after a guy that is flirting with other girls just because u heard a rumor that he likes you. It might not be true and you would have ruined a perfectly good relationship
if ur not happy in that relationship go for it! what do you got to loose?
Kissing Advice Help. Please Help!!!?
ok i never get 2 see my gf bcuz of her parents. we been on 1 date. We've never kissed as a couple. I was going 2 kiss her 2day in school but I either never get a chance or I chicken out. The reason I chicken out is bcuz at my school there is a demerit system. if u get 15 demerits ur expelled. I'm 14 demerits. Now 1 rule in my school is no pda. i really don't want 2 get caught bcuz I really truly love my gf and i would die if i got expelled bcuz then i would never see her 4 sure. but i love her so much i have 2 kiss her. can u help me in any ways u can?give advice? where? when? how? i need 2 know soon like by monday.Please Help???Kissing Advice Help. Please Help!!!?
try to get each other somewhere off the school. But only kiss her if you BOTH are ready. By the way 14 demerits wow! (no offense) Good luck!
try to get each other somewhere off the school. But only kiss her if you BOTH are ready. By the way 14 demerits wow! (no offense) Good luck!
Boy Advice!! HELP! (boys please help but i def. need input from girls!!!)?
Ok so heres the problem:
I REALLY like this guy, and hes in my gym class. Hes a year older, brown hair, athletic, tall, smart, but also shy. My friend texted his friend and was like hey, is Tommy into girls? And he said yea defenitly if hes asked out. So now I guess I'm motivated to take a chance here and tell him I like him or ask him out. Heres where you guys come in: I dont know if I should?!?!?! I havent even talked to him and I havent tried flirting. I think Im gonna try flirting then when I see him I cant, I get WAYY too nervous. HELP!!!Boy Advice!! HELP! (boys please help but i def. need input from girls!!!)?
find out something he is into and talk about it. don't be nervous. give him a message. he ma catch on.Boy Advice!! HELP! (boys please help but i def. need input from girls!!!)?
okay, definately dont just go up to him and be like ';hey wanna go out w/ me?'; get to know him first! :D hang out with his group of friends during gym. after about a week or two, start flirting. and then if he flirts back ask him out after about 3 weeks :D thats what i would do, and besides if he doesnt know you then he'll just think that you like him only for his looks and he'll think that youre weird.
Then how do you think you are going to ask him out? You are still the same person. It seems that you both have the same problem, shyness. So how would you want to be approached? So, do what you would want him to do.
I would try to get to know him before I asked him out. You may not really like him, just how he looks. Initiate a conversation with him by introducing yourself and commenting on something that you have observed about him. Find out what he likes, what he is into. If it seems favorable suggest doing something together sometime.
Just start talking to him! Like start fake texting when you're sitting next to him and laugh, most likely he'll ask what's so funny, then start talking ';be like my bestie sent me this hilarious pick up line, 'baby, I aint no fred flinstone but i can make your bed rock''; If that doesn't work then have one of your guy friends become with him, and that's your in. The second method is what worked for me, and I'm still with my bf =]
You should just go up to him and tell him how you feel about him..you'll never know, maybe he feels the same way about you but guys are pretty shy sometimes so you might have to make the first move...believe me I know!!!! I was the one to ask my boyfriend out for the first time and now we have been together for 5 years!!!!
Try to hang out with him more. Go to parties together or sit by each other during school events. If he is shy he wont rush anything or start anything on his own, so youll have to do a lot yourself. When i started going out with my boyfriend he was really shy too. I started hanging out with his friends and talking to him more and more at school. He eventually warmed up to me and FINALLY asked me out. ha. So just be patient and dont rush anything!!! good luck!
just try talking to him and flirting, i know its hard because you say you get too nervous but just go ahead and start talking to him. if you aren't able to talk to him without stopping yourself how will you ever get the courage to ask him out? i'd try to get to know him better and then after a week or so try asking him out :]
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dont throw your self at him, but deff flirt, just hang out with him in class and see if he smiles at you any indacation lol and then in a week or so ask to hang out side of school, just as friends, then after anouther couple of days after that, if you truly like his personality ask him out :)
first just talk to him a little in gym class, you don't need to rush things, then if that goes well ask him about other classes and maybe set up a study date, if you don't wanna do that then try to talk to him outside of gym class and ask him out there
just be friends with him, and you'll get to see what kind of person he really is and if you both end up liking eachother then great. don't rush into anything... from the way it sounds, you're still young.... live your life and leave boys out till you know for sure your mature enough (hint: 18yrs old)
Just calm down, talk to him, hang out, be yourself, and you might find something you don't like about him. After all of this, if you still really like him, ASK HIM OUT!! and hurry before somebody else beats you to it.
Hang out with him more. That alone will be a clue that you're interested in him, and also gives you a chance to get over your nerves.
Or just ask him out.
just go over to him and start a conversation. when you feel that he will say yes, then ask him out. just follow your heart. just let go of your nervousness and give it a try. the worst he can do is say no.
HEY S.J. WAY TO CUT ONES CONFIDENCE!!!!!
just try flirting a little.
and if you get a really good response tell him that you like him and if that gets a great response ask him out!^_^
I f a boy from the year below you came up to you and asked you out how would you react. How come every teen girl on this site has practically the same problem.
You should be come
friends witrh him first it
always good to date someone
that you are closer with so you
dont have to break threw the friend stage
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. What do you have to loose?
Everyone gets nervous with the opposite gender. Go for it!
this boy doesnt sound like hes worth it watch if u ask him out hell be like a boring rock ive never heard of a boy that waits for girls to ask them out?
Become an aqquaitance(sp) someone he knows..since he's shy..and then ask him out at the right moment when you guys are just chatting..
So it looks like your friend is friends with his friend. You two should plan a group thing.
You are in a mighty hurry . Take a chill pill.
you need to get to know him before you ask him out. what if he is boring?? don't get too ahead of yourself.
Maybe a dance would help!
just be yourself flirt a lttle and talk to him but DONT ask him out first off
he thinks you are ugly
first, make some small talk by finding out what he likes and having some conversation
second, get to know more by hanging out with him for at least a month.
lastly, if you sense chemistry and think he does too, ask him out.
if he is truly shy, he may not want to ask you out, and that is why you have to.
I REALLY like this guy, and hes in my gym class. Hes a year older, brown hair, athletic, tall, smart, but also shy. My friend texted his friend and was like hey, is Tommy into girls? And he said yea defenitly if hes asked out. So now I guess I'm motivated to take a chance here and tell him I like him or ask him out. Heres where you guys come in: I dont know if I should?!?!?! I havent even talked to him and I havent tried flirting. I think Im gonna try flirting then when I see him I cant, I get WAYY too nervous. HELP!!!Boy Advice!! HELP! (boys please help but i def. need input from girls!!!)?
find out something he is into and talk about it. don't be nervous. give him a message. he ma catch on.Boy Advice!! HELP! (boys please help but i def. need input from girls!!!)?
okay, definately dont just go up to him and be like ';hey wanna go out w/ me?'; get to know him first! :D hang out with his group of friends during gym. after about a week or two, start flirting. and then if he flirts back ask him out after about 3 weeks :D thats what i would do, and besides if he doesnt know you then he'll just think that you like him only for his looks and he'll think that youre weird.
Then how do you think you are going to ask him out? You are still the same person. It seems that you both have the same problem, shyness. So how would you want to be approached? So, do what you would want him to do.
I would try to get to know him before I asked him out. You may not really like him, just how he looks. Initiate a conversation with him by introducing yourself and commenting on something that you have observed about him. Find out what he likes, what he is into. If it seems favorable suggest doing something together sometime.
Just start talking to him! Like start fake texting when you're sitting next to him and laugh, most likely he'll ask what's so funny, then start talking ';be like my bestie sent me this hilarious pick up line, 'baby, I aint no fred flinstone but i can make your bed rock''; If that doesn't work then have one of your guy friends become with him, and that's your in. The second method is what worked for me, and I'm still with my bf =]
You should just go up to him and tell him how you feel about him..you'll never know, maybe he feels the same way about you but guys are pretty shy sometimes so you might have to make the first move...believe me I know!!!! I was the one to ask my boyfriend out for the first time and now we have been together for 5 years!!!!
Try to hang out with him more. Go to parties together or sit by each other during school events. If he is shy he wont rush anything or start anything on his own, so youll have to do a lot yourself. When i started going out with my boyfriend he was really shy too. I started hanging out with his friends and talking to him more and more at school. He eventually warmed up to me and FINALLY asked me out. ha. So just be patient and dont rush anything!!! good luck!
just try talking to him and flirting, i know its hard because you say you get too nervous but just go ahead and start talking to him. if you aren't able to talk to him without stopping yourself how will you ever get the courage to ask him out? i'd try to get to know him better and then after a week or so try asking him out :]
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dont throw your self at him, but deff flirt, just hang out with him in class and see if he smiles at you any indacation lol and then in a week or so ask to hang out side of school, just as friends, then after anouther couple of days after that, if you truly like his personality ask him out :)
first just talk to him a little in gym class, you don't need to rush things, then if that goes well ask him about other classes and maybe set up a study date, if you don't wanna do that then try to talk to him outside of gym class and ask him out there
just be friends with him, and you'll get to see what kind of person he really is and if you both end up liking eachother then great. don't rush into anything... from the way it sounds, you're still young.... live your life and leave boys out till you know for sure your mature enough (hint: 18yrs old)
Just calm down, talk to him, hang out, be yourself, and you might find something you don't like about him. After all of this, if you still really like him, ASK HIM OUT!! and hurry before somebody else beats you to it.
Hang out with him more. That alone will be a clue that you're interested in him, and also gives you a chance to get over your nerves.
Or just ask him out.
just go over to him and start a conversation. when you feel that he will say yes, then ask him out. just follow your heart. just let go of your nervousness and give it a try. the worst he can do is say no.
HEY S.J. WAY TO CUT ONES CONFIDENCE!!!!!
just try flirting a little.
and if you get a really good response tell him that you like him and if that gets a great response ask him out!^_^
I f a boy from the year below you came up to you and asked you out how would you react. How come every teen girl on this site has practically the same problem.
You should be come
friends witrh him first it
always good to date someone
that you are closer with so you
dont have to break threw the friend stage
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. What do you have to loose?
Everyone gets nervous with the opposite gender. Go for it!
this boy doesnt sound like hes worth it watch if u ask him out hell be like a boring rock ive never heard of a boy that waits for girls to ask them out?
Become an aqquaitance(sp) someone he knows..since he's shy..and then ask him out at the right moment when you guys are just chatting..
So it looks like your friend is friends with his friend. You two should plan a group thing.
You are in a mighty hurry . Take a chill pill.
you need to get to know him before you ask him out. what if he is boring?? don't get too ahead of yourself.
Maybe a dance would help!
just be yourself flirt a lttle and talk to him but DONT ask him out first off
he thinks you are ugly
first, make some small talk by finding out what he likes and having some conversation
second, get to know more by hanging out with him for at least a month.
lastly, if you sense chemistry and think he does too, ask him out.
if he is truly shy, he may not want to ask you out, and that is why you have to.
Need advice/ help with an essay? *Please help*?
I'm writing an essay on the Crucible and was told, upon handing in the outline for the essay, that my topic sentences are ';awkward.'; Will you please read them over and tell me, a bit more specifically, what's wrong with them? Thanks a ton...
#1
Even when threatened with hanging, John Proctor persistently refuses all claims of witchcraft, thus proving his unfailing and consistent upholding of one doctrine even as things took a turn for the worse.
#2
It is evident that Proctor is “only human” and thus fully relatable to the audience because of the lapse of judgment that resulted in an affair with Abigail, a young woman who was hard for him to resist.
#3
John Proctor’s only fault, and the true reason for his death, is that he cares too deeply for his name and the legacy that he will leave for his children.
I can sort of see how the first sentence can be changed, but I honestly can't think of anything that's wrong with the other two. what's so awkward about them??Need advice/ help with an essay? *Please help*?
I think sentence 1 and 2 are too long, with too many clauses. I would break them up into two sentences each.
Like you, I see nothing wrong with the third sentence. Perhaps the comment was not specifically hat *all* your topic sentences were awkward, but just it was noted that some were?moisturizing cream
#1
Even when threatened with hanging, John Proctor persistently refuses all claims of witchcraft, thus proving his unfailing and consistent upholding of one doctrine even as things took a turn for the worse.
#2
It is evident that Proctor is “only human” and thus fully relatable to the audience because of the lapse of judgment that resulted in an affair with Abigail, a young woman who was hard for him to resist.
#3
John Proctor’s only fault, and the true reason for his death, is that he cares too deeply for his name and the legacy that he will leave for his children.
I can sort of see how the first sentence can be changed, but I honestly can't think of anything that's wrong with the other two. what's so awkward about them??Need advice/ help with an essay? *Please help*?
I think sentence 1 and 2 are too long, with too many clauses. I would break them up into two sentences each.
Like you, I see nothing wrong with the third sentence. Perhaps the comment was not specifically hat *all* your topic sentences were awkward, but just it was noted that some were?
Advice, help. please?
i had a baby a lil over 2 mths ago. after i had the baby i bleed for 2 weeks, and i havent had a reg. period yet. me %26amp; my fiancee' had sex (protected). a week after that i went and had my check up, pap smear, blood work etc. well last night i thought i started my period because i started having period cramps, and i bleed mainly brown, with a lil red show. and it was very light, its gone today, but im still cramping. is this my period tryin to get back to normal, %26amp; if i am pregnant other than a 50-50 chance what is my chances? ..Advice, help. please?
You are probably fine.
It is VERY common to not have resumed having your period yet, it took me almost 3 months, and it is not uncommon for it to take 6 months or more in some women, especially if you are breastfeeding. (you can still get pregnant though!!!! since you would ovulate before your first period)
I would say the spotting and cramping you experienced was a reaction to either the sex or the pap test etc. Your cervix would still be getting back to normal after baby and is most likely just a little more sensitive then pre-pregnancy.
There is a TINY chance you are pregnant, but I would say since you had pretected sex, that is is not something I would worry about if I were you.Advice, help. please?
It sounds more just like your cycle trying to get back on track again...
It could take 6 months or so (if I'm not mistaken) for your cycle to be normal again.
If you're breastfeeding it may take even longer.
Just make sure nothing too crazy is going on and discuss it with your doctor if you're still concerned.
they say your period could last 6 weeks after you have your baby i had kinda the same symptoms just things trying to get back to normal... but i didn't have too much pain but thats prolly because i was on pain meds for like the first 3 months
If you had unprotected sex, you could very well be pregnant again. Go get some condomns and use them. Wait a few weeks and do a pregnancy test. That is how you will find out all you need to know.
well, it depends. you actually have a better chance of getting pregnant after having a baby than you normally would. it has something to do with being more fertile after having a baby. you might actually want to go ahead and take a test just to make sure that your arent or are.
You are probably fine.
It is VERY common to not have resumed having your period yet, it took me almost 3 months, and it is not uncommon for it to take 6 months or more in some women, especially if you are breastfeeding. (you can still get pregnant though!!!! since you would ovulate before your first period)
I would say the spotting and cramping you experienced was a reaction to either the sex or the pap test etc. Your cervix would still be getting back to normal after baby and is most likely just a little more sensitive then pre-pregnancy.
There is a TINY chance you are pregnant, but I would say since you had pretected sex, that is is not something I would worry about if I were you.Advice, help. please?
It sounds more just like your cycle trying to get back on track again...
It could take 6 months or so (if I'm not mistaken) for your cycle to be normal again.
If you're breastfeeding it may take even longer.
Just make sure nothing too crazy is going on and discuss it with your doctor if you're still concerned.
they say your period could last 6 weeks after you have your baby i had kinda the same symptoms just things trying to get back to normal... but i didn't have too much pain but thats prolly because i was on pain meds for like the first 3 months
If you had unprotected sex, you could very well be pregnant again. Go get some condomns and use them. Wait a few weeks and do a pregnancy test. That is how you will find out all you need to know.
well, it depends. you actually have a better chance of getting pregnant after having a baby than you normally would. it has something to do with being more fertile after having a baby. you might actually want to go ahead and take a test just to make sure that your arent or are.
Advice? help please? thanks in advance?
ok so....i have anorexia, well actually im on a really slow process to recovery, i have a councilor and am setting up a nutritionist. They put me on a anti depressant, however, im getting off cause it was making me crave food, so i would binge, and i also have ibs, and cant have wheat without getting in tons of pain! because of the cravings, i ate a ton wheat! i ate wheat thursday-today, and i am in so much pain! I never ate more than 3000 calories, but that is still a lot more than my usual 750 (use to be 400). the anti depressant should almost be out of my system, each day i took laxatives, and miralax, i overdosed. Im really worried about weight gain, will i gain a lot? im planning on ONLY eating fruits and veggies, and exercising at least for four hours tomorrow and tuesday, and then my regular two hours the rest of the week. Will i gain weight? so far the scales say i haven't but i hear the weight sometimes out of nowhere will sneak up on you...let me know:) thanks in advance!Advice? help please? thanks in advance?
You may need to see your counselor more than you are. You may not WANT to gain weight, but from what I just read, it could kill you if you don't. You may not believe it, but people who are HEALTHY and take care of themselves are the most beautiful people in the world.Advice? help please? thanks in advance?
Just take it one little step at a time. You already have the help you need. Just remember you want to kick the anorexia and binging. You're on the road to recovery. It'll be a bumpy road but the road will lead to something good. (The good place the road will lead to: Complete recovery.)
i really doubt you will gain any weight from that, but i do not feel qualified to advise you on anything, because you are still seriously in anorexic thinking.
Hi sweetie,
I used to have an eating disorder due to emotional stress when I left my husband. I got to where I wouldn't eat much to forgetting to eat because I was running around keeping myself busy and mind off my situation. It took me a loooong time before I could even eat a salad and my body would get sick by eating every time. Your body begins to substitute when you don't eat and absorbs from your body that's why you hurt. You will not gain tremendous amount of weight. It took me 2 yrs to gain 30 pds. Your body needs nutrition don't deny your body that. It will take a moment for your body to heal and take in what you are giving it. If worried about weight then eat low carb foods and meals your body burns carbs before fat dear.....
I am worth so much more than how much I weigh. I am a beautiful woman and I am created in Gods image. Life is good and there is so much to enjoy. we eat to live and be healthy. we must give our body energy and fuel to function.
Its not what you do from day to day that will effect your weight...its the pattern you set month after month...you can eat what you want but as long as you dont eat like a pig every day for day after day, you will not be fat. you dont gain on a daily basis. eat normally and you will be normal.
there are many woman who are a little over wieght and they are beautiful and wonderful and smart. People love you for who you are and not becaue you lost that one more pound. let go!!!!!!!!! live life and dont let the food anorexia take happiness and life from you. its a lie and a trick to keep you miserable. be happy and relax. enjoy food and accept it as part of life. I love to eat fresh fruit and salads and raisins and nuts on my salads....I can eat a truck load and not gain one ounce! relax and be happy and have a beautiful healthy glow!!!
fresh strawberries and wipped topping...chocolate milk, orange juice, and a fresh banana...yum.
As long as you have a balanced diet, you will be fine. If you're underweight, you will probably put on weight - but this will return you to ';normal'; and is not a bad thing.
I know that it's not as easy as just saying the words, but try to focus on being healthy, rather than particular numbers for your weight. As long as you are healthy, you will feel good and look good. So it's good that you have a nutritionist, try to learn as much as you can from them about how to meet your body's needs.
Hope this is helpful, and good luck to you.
You may need to see your counselor more than you are. You may not WANT to gain weight, but from what I just read, it could kill you if you don't. You may not believe it, but people who are HEALTHY and take care of themselves are the most beautiful people in the world.Advice? help please? thanks in advance?
Just take it one little step at a time. You already have the help you need. Just remember you want to kick the anorexia and binging. You're on the road to recovery. It'll be a bumpy road but the road will lead to something good. (The good place the road will lead to: Complete recovery.)
i really doubt you will gain any weight from that, but i do not feel qualified to advise you on anything, because you are still seriously in anorexic thinking.
Hi sweetie,
I used to have an eating disorder due to emotional stress when I left my husband. I got to where I wouldn't eat much to forgetting to eat because I was running around keeping myself busy and mind off my situation. It took me a loooong time before I could even eat a salad and my body would get sick by eating every time. Your body begins to substitute when you don't eat and absorbs from your body that's why you hurt. You will not gain tremendous amount of weight. It took me 2 yrs to gain 30 pds. Your body needs nutrition don't deny your body that. It will take a moment for your body to heal and take in what you are giving it. If worried about weight then eat low carb foods and meals your body burns carbs before fat dear.....
I am worth so much more than how much I weigh. I am a beautiful woman and I am created in Gods image. Life is good and there is so much to enjoy. we eat to live and be healthy. we must give our body energy and fuel to function.
Its not what you do from day to day that will effect your weight...its the pattern you set month after month...you can eat what you want but as long as you dont eat like a pig every day for day after day, you will not be fat. you dont gain on a daily basis. eat normally and you will be normal.
there are many woman who are a little over wieght and they are beautiful and wonderful and smart. People love you for who you are and not becaue you lost that one more pound. let go!!!!!!!!! live life and dont let the food anorexia take happiness and life from you. its a lie and a trick to keep you miserable. be happy and relax. enjoy food and accept it as part of life. I love to eat fresh fruit and salads and raisins and nuts on my salads....I can eat a truck load and not gain one ounce! relax and be happy and have a beautiful healthy glow!!!
fresh strawberries and wipped topping...chocolate milk, orange juice, and a fresh banana...yum.
As long as you have a balanced diet, you will be fine. If you're underweight, you will probably put on weight - but this will return you to ';normal'; and is not a bad thing.
I know that it's not as easy as just saying the words, but try to focus on being healthy, rather than particular numbers for your weight. As long as you are healthy, you will feel good and look good. So it's good that you have a nutritionist, try to learn as much as you can from them about how to meet your body's needs.
Hope this is helpful, and good luck to you.
Advice/Help or ANYTHING!!! (girl answers only...)?
I dated this girl for about 2 years, we were great and everything was perfect, but the last 2 monthes I got jealous about the stupidest crap and was acting like a dick... so she broke up with me, were still friends, I mean I text her and stuff and she answers, but I really want her back, I was stupid the last time. I don't know what to do, I wanna be sincere about it but I'm afraid if I tell her all this she won't be my friend at all and just ruin everything. What can I say, or do, or ANYTHING :(Advice/Help or ANYTHING!!! (girl answers only...)?
just tell her that you know you treated her badly, and you know you were a dick and controlling and whatever..
and tell her you are so sorry and would she give you a second chance and forgive you
if she knows you know that you treated her bad she might change her mind and get back with you, but if she doesnt then you just have to leave her, and just be nice to her.
just tell her that you know you treated her badly, and you know you were a dick and controlling and whatever..
and tell her you are so sorry and would she give you a second chance and forgive you
if she knows you know that you treated her bad she might change her mind and get back with you, but if she doesnt then you just have to leave her, and just be nice to her.
Advice/help PLEASE fiancee/ relationship?
my boyfriend and i of four years have gotten into a small argument. He is slightly immature and decides to break up with me frequently because something in his life isnt going well instead of trying to work with me. We broke up last november and got back together in february and ever since it's been amazing. Now we've gotten into a few bickers lately and he wants to move out to get some space. Its not like i'd mind space, but we've been living together for a while and everything was going great. If he moves out, i lose my favorite part of coming home and seeing him,and cuddling with him at night and watching funny movies and just plain having fun. I want to know what MEN need to be convinced that this relationship is right for you, and not to give up. He is a good man and he just gets scared of commitment sometimes when he feels smothered or confined. Any advice on how i can prove to him that this is silly and that we can work anything out if he only communicated with me would be wonderful. Any advice at all on how men think and what works to show them you mean business. I've given up so many times before when he said he didnt want to be with me, and he always came back. this time I'm not going without a fight. I need to take charge and show him that he loves me. if he doesnt, then he can leave, but if he does, then he needs to work with me. Someone please give me some decent advice? I'd greatly appreciate itAdvice/help PLEASE fiancee/ relationship?
u urself have given the answer in last few sentences of ur question.Fight for ur love as much as u can,If even then he doesnt realise ur importance, its not worth it girl.Leave him and dont allow him to play with u again.He's just taken u for grantedAdvice/help PLEASE fiancee/ relationship?
Look, this guy doesn't want to communicate with you, watch movies or cuddle with you. He has tried living with you and found out that he really doesn't want to be with you. Love you? Love is when someone treats you in a loving manner. Not one thing he had done has anything remotely like love. Sorry, but its time for you to move on. Good luck!
Ive been in the same situation before..we used to spend so much time together planned everything watch movie cuddle live with him.. and his the same thing he needs his space and doesnt want to be confined otherwise he breaks up and never listen..
you have to break up with him.. cos you know he will just take you for granted.. even if your the one insisting to communicate and show him that you're worth it.. IT WONT MATTER.. cos his NOT READY TO BE TIED DOWN..
and his already taking you for granted at this point.. at times he needs to do things and his not feeling that he needs to be with you.. then he tells you he needs space.. YOUR ALL ALONE CRYING AT NIGHT WONDERIN WHAT YOU DID WRONG.. then this guy will come back whenever he wants and pull out that I LOVE YOU BABY i will take care of you and blah blah..
Dont fall for it.. sit down with him and ask him whether he loves you or not.. if he does he will stay and make the relationship work if he doesnt want to listen email it to him write it in the letter of what bugs you and not. and the solution.. if he still needs his space tell him not to come back to your life.
u urself have given the answer in last few sentences of ur question.Fight for ur love as much as u can,If even then he doesnt realise ur importance, its not worth it girl.Leave him and dont allow him to play with u again.He's just taken u for grantedAdvice/help PLEASE fiancee/ relationship?
Look, this guy doesn't want to communicate with you, watch movies or cuddle with you. He has tried living with you and found out that he really doesn't want to be with you. Love you? Love is when someone treats you in a loving manner. Not one thing he had done has anything remotely like love. Sorry, but its time for you to move on. Good luck!
Ive been in the same situation before..we used to spend so much time together planned everything watch movie cuddle live with him.. and his the same thing he needs his space and doesnt want to be confined otherwise he breaks up and never listen..
you have to break up with him.. cos you know he will just take you for granted.. even if your the one insisting to communicate and show him that you're worth it.. IT WONT MATTER.. cos his NOT READY TO BE TIED DOWN..
and his already taking you for granted at this point.. at times he needs to do things and his not feeling that he needs to be with you.. then he tells you he needs space.. YOUR ALL ALONE CRYING AT NIGHT WONDERIN WHAT YOU DID WRONG.. then this guy will come back whenever he wants and pull out that I LOVE YOU BABY i will take care of you and blah blah..
Dont fall for it.. sit down with him and ask him whether he loves you or not.. if he does he will stay and make the relationship work if he doesnt want to listen email it to him write it in the letter of what bugs you and not. and the solution.. if he still needs his space tell him not to come back to your life.
I neeeed advice / help / : ) boys and relationship ! question is in the discription ! girls / women help !?
well , im 15 years old, and ive been going out with this amzing for for 2 weeks now. he is a year younger, but oh well , he acts right mature , and right now i am 100% comfortable around him! we kiss/mack alot , and its fine , and like i tease him but like touching his pants or something. ahha. he isn't a virgin anymore, but not from me ! ahhaha , at all . see , i've only macked a boy. i havnt done anything else. and im scared , like when i think of it, i just think well i know what to do , no expirience but i still know . common sence and i think since im comfortable around him now , will it be the same if i do try? advicee ! and i unno if he thinks ive done more then mack? : ) but oh well , and i dont wanna be like '; yeah well i've never done this b4'; i just want it to be comfortable and nature seeming. heeeellppp : ) advicee would be nicee :DI neeeed advice / help / : ) boys and relationship ! question is in the discription ! girls / women help !?
you shouldnt be sexually active until you grow hair under your arms. obviously you're still a kid even if you're 15.wowI neeeed advice / help / : ) boys and relationship ! question is in the discription ! girls / women help !?
DON'T!!! you're 15? and this guy is 14? I think you two need to take a step back and think about what you're doing before you do something you regret. If he doesn't appreciate it, then dump him and move on.
If your comfortable with him and its what you want then do it. Things will only be different if you let them get that way. Good Luck
Do it it will be fine
girl no cause what if u get pernant and or a diease and probaly thats all he want
just do it
hmmmmm hrd one
i suggest that u ride his pee pee, if not he will get bored and cheat on u
I know im not a girl, but i think i can help as it's the same with guys.
At Fifteen, i don't see any reason why you would be considering anything more than kissing, i don't know if times have changed, but that's very young to start having a sexual relationship.
And that's why your nervous about doing it, you aren't ready for it. You may be comfortable around him just kissing and chatting, but from what you wrote, your not too comfortable when it comes to sex, because you don't really know what your doing.
I can't suggest having sex, but all i can say is, as of your age, their is no way anybody can expect you to be good at sex.
When you are ready, you will know, you will want to do it. When it comes to having sex, don't bother thinking about your self being bad, because it isnt about that. It's about love.
At fifteen, i think you should enjoy your day's without going into a sexual relationship.
you shouldnt be sexually active until you grow hair under your arms. obviously you're still a kid even if you're 15.wowI neeeed advice / help / : ) boys and relationship ! question is in the discription ! girls / women help !?
DON'T!!! you're 15? and this guy is 14? I think you two need to take a step back and think about what you're doing before you do something you regret. If he doesn't appreciate it, then dump him and move on.
If your comfortable with him and its what you want then do it. Things will only be different if you let them get that way. Good Luck
Do it it will be fine
girl no cause what if u get pernant and or a diease and probaly thats all he want
just do it
hmmmmm hrd one
i suggest that u ride his pee pee, if not he will get bored and cheat on u
I know im not a girl, but i think i can help as it's the same with guys.
At Fifteen, i don't see any reason why you would be considering anything more than kissing, i don't know if times have changed, but that's very young to start having a sexual relationship.
And that's why your nervous about doing it, you aren't ready for it. You may be comfortable around him just kissing and chatting, but from what you wrote, your not too comfortable when it comes to sex, because you don't really know what your doing.
I can't suggest having sex, but all i can say is, as of your age, their is no way anybody can expect you to be good at sex.
When you are ready, you will know, you will want to do it. When it comes to having sex, don't bother thinking about your self being bad, because it isnt about that. It's about love.
At fifteen, i think you should enjoy your day's without going into a sexual relationship.
Advice? Help? Please & thanks!?
Ok so there's this cute dude that likes me %26amp; I like him too. I'm bi %26amp; he is gay. Im bi and like chicks more though. I don't know how to tell him this because I don't want to hurt him in any way at all. I also don't want to keep it from him because it feels like I'm being dishonest not telling him. If he wanted to date me yeah I'd date him but I don't want to keep this from him but I don't want to hurt his feelings or anything like that.Advice? Help? Please %26amp; thanks!?
well i think you should wait until you guys are going out to tell him because he doesnt need to know if your not going out. and if you are going out i would tell him look i like girls too and once your going out he will obviously know that you like him so he wont feel insecure about it. and i think its cool that you practice abstinence so do i.Advice? Help? Please %26amp; thanks!?
If you like him, why does it matter that you are bi? You could leave him for another dude just as easily as you could leave him for a chick. I don't think he'll care, but I do think you should tell him, that way he can't get mad at you later and say you kept things from him. I don't think this will hurt him though, if you two like each other, you being bi should not be a problem unless you are a tramp(lol). Don't tell him the part where you like chicks better though, bi is bi dude.
';'m bi %26amp; he is gay. Im bi and like chicks more though. I don't know how to tell him this because I don't want to hurt him in any way at all.';
Why the hell would you tell him that? You're bi, right? You like guys? Why would he need to know you prefer girls..?
If you say that because you think you couldn't stay monogamous, then don't get in a relationship with him at all... Otherwise, I don't see what the problem is.
Telling him you prefer girls is like telling him you prefer someone with blue eyes, assuming he has brown eyes.
If you like this guy, and he likes you too... then I don't think he'll mind that you prefer girls for the most part. (I think he might actually take it as a compliment that he's one of the only guys that you've chosen over girls)
So, I would tell him. And if he takes it too much to heart, then he's not right for you anyway.
Hope I helped :D
well, I don't think that you will hurt his feelings by telling him. I mean you think he is cute, you like him.. I don't see why he should have a probablem with you being bi and more into girls.. you will probably hurt his feelings more if you don't tell him.. =) !!
If you prefer girls, why do you want to date this guy?
Unless you just want a springtime romantic fling -- then tell him that and see if he's interested.
Well if you're a really honest person, then I say tell him how you feel, then go from there. I think he will appreciate you more for being upfront and honest.
I'd pretty much tell him the truth if I were you. Start off everything honestly, and if you two do get together then it will be honest from the start
You almost had me with your tragic and sad story, Poor thing.
That was until I read the ';I don't want to hurt him and cheating is wrong.';
Rubbish. You claim your in fact more into chicks. If that is so then anything between you and him is just a sexual things. So providing you say this up front. That is. ';Dude, your hot and I cant wait to hold you but understand that its just sex. Never more';
Although that said as you also speak about cheating is out.
I suggest: If anyone is going to be cheating it can only be you. That's because if you invite him into your bed while the girlfriend is away, its you doing the wrong thing, again.
As for him saying ';forget it your into chicks.';
Come on boy. If you cant have a relationship with a guy because your into girls, where do you get off then saying its bad if he makes this same decision. I say good on him for identifying the truth.
You really do need to grow up.
Based on my own experience you are like most bisexuals. You are into what ever is good for you on the day. Whats good for the other person only matters if its convenient for you.
People like you are why I pass any offer from a bisexual You can twist reality all you like but in the end its all about you.moisturizing cream
well i think you should wait until you guys are going out to tell him because he doesnt need to know if your not going out. and if you are going out i would tell him look i like girls too and once your going out he will obviously know that you like him so he wont feel insecure about it. and i think its cool that you practice abstinence so do i.Advice? Help? Please %26amp; thanks!?
If you like him, why does it matter that you are bi? You could leave him for another dude just as easily as you could leave him for a chick. I don't think he'll care, but I do think you should tell him, that way he can't get mad at you later and say you kept things from him. I don't think this will hurt him though, if you two like each other, you being bi should not be a problem unless you are a tramp(lol). Don't tell him the part where you like chicks better though, bi is bi dude.
';'m bi %26amp; he is gay. Im bi and like chicks more though. I don't know how to tell him this because I don't want to hurt him in any way at all.';
Why the hell would you tell him that? You're bi, right? You like guys? Why would he need to know you prefer girls..?
If you say that because you think you couldn't stay monogamous, then don't get in a relationship with him at all... Otherwise, I don't see what the problem is.
Telling him you prefer girls is like telling him you prefer someone with blue eyes, assuming he has brown eyes.
If you like this guy, and he likes you too... then I don't think he'll mind that you prefer girls for the most part. (I think he might actually take it as a compliment that he's one of the only guys that you've chosen over girls)
So, I would tell him. And if he takes it too much to heart, then he's not right for you anyway.
Hope I helped :D
well, I don't think that you will hurt his feelings by telling him. I mean you think he is cute, you like him.. I don't see why he should have a probablem with you being bi and more into girls.. you will probably hurt his feelings more if you don't tell him.. =) !!
If you prefer girls, why do you want to date this guy?
Unless you just want a springtime romantic fling -- then tell him that and see if he's interested.
Well if you're a really honest person, then I say tell him how you feel, then go from there. I think he will appreciate you more for being upfront and honest.
I'd pretty much tell him the truth if I were you. Start off everything honestly, and if you two do get together then it will be honest from the start
You almost had me with your tragic and sad story, Poor thing.
That was until I read the ';I don't want to hurt him and cheating is wrong.';
Rubbish. You claim your in fact more into chicks. If that is so then anything between you and him is just a sexual things. So providing you say this up front. That is. ';Dude, your hot and I cant wait to hold you but understand that its just sex. Never more';
Although that said as you also speak about cheating is out.
I suggest: If anyone is going to be cheating it can only be you. That's because if you invite him into your bed while the girlfriend is away, its you doing the wrong thing, again.
As for him saying ';forget it your into chicks.';
Come on boy. If you cant have a relationship with a guy because your into girls, where do you get off then saying its bad if he makes this same decision. I say good on him for identifying the truth.
You really do need to grow up.
Based on my own experience you are like most bisexuals. You are into what ever is good for you on the day. Whats good for the other person only matters if its convenient for you.
People like you are why I pass any offer from a bisexual You can twist reality all you like but in the end its all about you.
Advice / help with perms . :)?
I am considering getting a perm for my hair.
Right now I have a lip-level fringe that I generally part to the right or left, or pull up into a pouf over my forehead.
My hair is touching my shoulders, and goes a little bit past when straightened. It has a very slight natural curl, the very bottom flips out all the way around.
I want a loose perm, not exactly curls, but a little curlier than basic waves.
I have a lot of product for straight hair as well as curly hair, including Freida straightening shampoo, conditioner, Herbal Escenses Dangerously Straight shampoo/conditioner, various Vavoom and Garnier hairspray products and gel manipulator.
I also have Herbal Essences curl-enhancing shampoo/conditioner as well as a series of Catwalk (Tigi) Curls Rock shampoo/conditioner/amplifier/booster items, so I am well equipped.
Is there anything I need to consider, or any other items that are very helpful with perms?Advice / help with perms . :)?
When you go to the salon bring in pictures of the type of curl/style you want. You definitely have enough products :) I hope your perm works great for you. Advice / help with perms . :)?
Before you get a perm try the mousse technique. Lots - and use a blow dryer on low to scrunch the curls in. Use a freeze spray lightly while doing this. I have the same type of hair, and this works really well for me.
youll need lots and lots of mouse and volumizing shampoo and conditioner
it's better than straightening or curling your hair every day, i'll tell you that.
if you get a perm, after it wears off, your hair is going to be kinda different.
so if you get a straight perm, your hair isnt going to be as curly.
or if you get a curl perm, its not going to be as straight.
japanese straight perms are good.
the best systems they use are liscio and yuko for straight.
and for curls, there's a new system called System Qurl, both of them work really well.
i have friends who tried them, and they loved it.
dont get any perm for less than $300, and also look at the salon you're getting it at.
if they take before and after photos, need an appointment, and have pros doing the hair, most likely they're good.
also, when you get a perm, you should frequently condition it and use UV protective hair products to keep it safe from the sun. wait at least 1-2 months after a perm if u want to color it.
finally, be completely honest with your hair stylist.
good luck!
Right now I have a lip-level fringe that I generally part to the right or left, or pull up into a pouf over my forehead.
My hair is touching my shoulders, and goes a little bit past when straightened. It has a very slight natural curl, the very bottom flips out all the way around.
I want a loose perm, not exactly curls, but a little curlier than basic waves.
I have a lot of product for straight hair as well as curly hair, including Freida straightening shampoo, conditioner, Herbal Escenses Dangerously Straight shampoo/conditioner, various Vavoom and Garnier hairspray products and gel manipulator.
I also have Herbal Essences curl-enhancing shampoo/conditioner as well as a series of Catwalk (Tigi) Curls Rock shampoo/conditioner/amplifier/booster items, so I am well equipped.
Is there anything I need to consider, or any other items that are very helpful with perms?Advice / help with perms . :)?
When you go to the salon bring in pictures of the type of curl/style you want. You definitely have enough products :) I hope your perm works great for you. Advice / help with perms . :)?
Before you get a perm try the mousse technique. Lots - and use a blow dryer on low to scrunch the curls in. Use a freeze spray lightly while doing this. I have the same type of hair, and this works really well for me.
youll need lots and lots of mouse and volumizing shampoo and conditioner
it's better than straightening or curling your hair every day, i'll tell you that.
if you get a perm, after it wears off, your hair is going to be kinda different.
so if you get a straight perm, your hair isnt going to be as curly.
or if you get a curl perm, its not going to be as straight.
japanese straight perms are good.
the best systems they use are liscio and yuko for straight.
and for curls, there's a new system called System Qurl, both of them work really well.
i have friends who tried them, and they loved it.
dont get any perm for less than $300, and also look at the salon you're getting it at.
if they take before and after photos, need an appointment, and have pros doing the hair, most likely they're good.
also, when you get a perm, you should frequently condition it and use UV protective hair products to keep it safe from the sun. wait at least 1-2 months after a perm if u want to color it.
finally, be completely honest with your hair stylist.
good luck!
Advice/help for Fantasy team week 13?? ?
Here is my team, I need to start either 3 RB and 2 WR, or 3 WR and 2 RB. Give me your opinion. Remember though, Willie Parker is questionable and probably will not play against the Pats, and Booker could see alot of playing time with both westbrook and buckhalter ailing.
QB- Jason Campbell, Joe Flacco
RB- Adrian Peterson, Michael Turner, MeWelde Moore, Lorenzo Booker
WR- Calvin Johnson, Dwayne Bowe, DeSean Jackson, Ted Ginn Jr
TE- Chris Cooley, Dustin Keller
D/ST- Washington, Carolina
K- Rob BironasAdvice/help for Fantasy team week 13?? ?
First of all start Joe Flacco the picks are a problem but he should help against a terrible Cincy team.
RB- Adrian Peterson,Michael Turner,MeWelde Moore.
WR- Calvin Johnson and Ted Ginn Jr.
Ginn should do fine v.s. a bad St. Louis DefenseAdvice/help for Fantasy team week 13?? ?
Campbell, Peterson (what else can i say. He's AD), Turner (comin off 4 tds :-( ), Moore, Ginn (no Camarillo should give him more), C. Johnson, Keller, Washington (I'm a Panthers fan but u can't take a chance after last week), and obviously Bironas.
QB- Jason Campbell, Joe Flacco
RB- Adrian Peterson, Michael Turner, MeWelde Moore, Lorenzo Booker
WR- Calvin Johnson, Dwayne Bowe, DeSean Jackson, Ted Ginn Jr
TE- Chris Cooley, Dustin Keller
D/ST- Washington, Carolina
K- Rob BironasAdvice/help for Fantasy team week 13?? ?
First of all start Joe Flacco the picks are a problem but he should help against a terrible Cincy team.
RB- Adrian Peterson,Michael Turner,MeWelde Moore.
WR- Calvin Johnson and Ted Ginn Jr.
Ginn should do fine v.s. a bad St. Louis DefenseAdvice/help for Fantasy team week 13?? ?
Campbell, Peterson (what else can i say. He's AD), Turner (comin off 4 tds :-( ), Moore, Ginn (no Camarillo should give him more), C. Johnson, Keller, Washington (I'm a Panthers fan but u can't take a chance after last week), and obviously Bironas.
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