Guy advice? help? Easy 10 points!!?

Well, i really like this guy, so i asked him for his number a few months ago..and every now and then he'll call, or txt me, and we'll talk for hours. But then i wont hear from him for weeks, and sometimes it's me, having to get in contact with him.


He doesn't have a girlfriend, but says he wants one, calls me cutie etc...


But if he actually liked me, wouldn't he make the effort to talk to me more often?


Or is he keeping his distance for another reason?





Do you think he's interested, or not?





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Sounds like he like shaving you like him but doesn't actually want a relationship... so he offers enough that you stay hooked but doesn't actually plan to commit to anything.





Plus, it's such a ego-boost knowing that if you ever are bored, there's someone who will drop everything to hang out with (or even just entertain you via texting/IM/phone) you, even if you barely talk to them except as a last resort - and you know that you'll make their week, so you don't even feel that bad.
Well there is the fact that guys do like 'the chase' but maybe you aren't putting out any signals that you like him. It seems from what you've described that he is teh one that is doign al the work, while you are waiting like a 'damsel in distress' you need to express interest in him as well. I.e. call him, talk to him text him etc... (Obviously you don't want to do it too much, but there is a fine line you need to come to).
Maybe he's too shy to call you. I dont know him, so cant say for sure, but thats what it sounds like. I really dont know how you get a guy to call or txt more, but unless he has something in mind or something to say he probly wont call. Remember, some guys dont just call to talk or anything.
Instead of talking via phone, email, or text messages, why don't you ask him to go out in person. He sounds like he's into you. But once you have him in person you should know...there should be a spark or something that tells you if its right. Definitely ask him out and see what happens from there.





Best of luck
He's probably interested but at the same time his interest level is probably about the same as yours. Make an effort to hang out with him and find out what he wants and give it to him if you really like him that much. If not..theres plenty of others.
f**k it, call him up, go for a walk and ask him what you asked us. if he's interested, he'll eventually let you know. even if he happens to ';get scared'; and act uninterested or look at you strange or whatever, eventually the truth will come out.
i think either he's not interested or he is kind of interested but is waiting for something better to come along..





he's not worth it regardless, you need a guy who wants you. stop chasing after someone whos not available for you.
Ooh tough one .


But i honestley think he likes you .


i say flirt with him and let him know you like him .


Text him be like ';Heeyy hottie';


and then he may be like Okay or Hey Cutiiie .


Then yeah , just flirt .





Good luck
hes interested. Your moving rapidly into friend zone though make a move let him know your interested. Get together face to face.
You asked him for his number ,he knows you like him.Mybe he's not ready for you And he must be busy hanging out with buddy's or so called gayfriends...ask him.
It really sounds to me like:





1. He's playing hard to get





or..





2. He's gay and hasnt come out yet.
First of all your age would help a lot . Have you considered the fact that maybe he's not allowed to date yet? If that's not the problem then maybe he's trying to get to know you more before getting into a relationship. Perhaps he wants a serious relationship that would last for quite some time so he could be testing it out so far. If he does like you he will keep talking to you or at least make an effort, but he could be just waiting to check if you like him, because if you start the conversation than that shows your interest. Keep trying to talk to him if you're interested in him, if he ignores you then he doesn't like you but if he keeps communicating to you then that could be a sign that he likes you. But once in a while try go for a couple of days without talking to him so that you can test his emotions, if he is interested and you're not talking to him then he will begin a conversation.