Boyfriend advice help!!!?

ok well me and my boyfreind have been togeather off and on for a year and half now and are realtionship has just lost that spark. There is a new guy that i like and he likes me so how do explain this to my boyfreind without crushing him?Boyfriend advice help!!!?
You will definitely crush him if you let on that you're leaving him to be with someone else. If you've decided to leave him, you don't necessarily have to tell him it's because you want to be with someone else. Just let him know that the relationship has come to an end and that perhaps instead of draggin it out further the two of you considering moving on. However you may be rushing to drop the man you have and that you know to be with a man that you don't really know and may end up with a lot worse problems other than sparks are gone. I understand that you say the sparks are gone however before you just end your relationship why not try things to bring that spark back. Nothing is going to change in your relationship if neither of you take the first step to make changes. Having a long and lasting relationship takes a lot of work from 2 people not just 1. I am concerned that you state you love him but you want to dump him just because the relationship lacks spark. Try doing little things out of the ordinary like give him flowers just because or write him a letter. You can't honestly love him if you're willing to just let go of him and the relationship without trying to save it.Boyfriend advice help!!!?
You don't. As long as it's just him with a cursh on you and you stay faithful to you boyfriend there is no reason to cause him to question you in your relationship.





However, If you have feelings for this guy and would rather be with him than you current bf then yes you need to have a talk with him.





No matter what you say it's going to crush him. How would you feel if he told you he had a crush on another girl. A True relationship is about the good times as well as the bad!
The reality of it honey is your are dumping him for another guy. Face it, don't try to sugar coat is, sorry, he didn't keep it on lock!
Break up with him. Look it doesn't matter how you fancy the words when you break up with him it will crush him anyways. So do it like a band aide fast.
Just camly explain to your bf how u feel and hope that he understands and is not too crushed. Just remember that we all have an obligation to our own happiness before others.
i advice you to talk to ur boyfriend seee what he will say.tell him ur not interesting to him or u will think about it
Doing the right thing isn't always easy but that's exactly what you have to do. It's difficult breaking up with someone when you know it will hurt that person. But you are only looking at the short term consequences. Yes, he'll be hurt right now but in the long run, he will see that it was the best thing to happen. If the 2 of you truly weren't meant to be together, then it's better that you both recognize that NOW. The longer you stay in a sham of a r'ship, the longer you keep him from possibly finding the true love of his life....and that is ultimately selfish. Being strong %26amp; doing the right thing requires courage so just do the right thing %26amp; break up with him. While it will hurt in the short term, you know deep down that it's the right decision.
Honesty mayte. Tell him, I would