I'm 20, and i got a part time job, and i'm attending college. I just received $225,000 from a Lawsuit i just won. Would it be possible to be a Millionaire by the time i'm 30?
And one thing that's got me sad is that all my family is hating on me, i no longer have contact with them since i got all this money.Help i need advice right now on this?
Your urgent question is can you be a millionaire by 30? Who cares???
Work on your family life, that is what is important.Help i need advice right now on this?
When you do become a millionaire I hope that you will share the wealth with family and friends - but get stupid. It's easy for money to slip through a person's hand an be gone before you know it. Get your financial advice from a professional you can trust. Research, research, research before settling on a financial adviser.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Really in need of some advice/ help.?
I had sex with my boyfriend last night and the condom broke. I'm sixteen and live with my father and I don't want to tell him about this. What should I do??Really in need of some advice/ help.?
the morning after pill. but hurry, it needs to be taken three days after the fertilization.
the morning after pill. but hurry, it needs to be taken three days after the fertilization.
TALKING TO EX! NEED SERIOUS ADVICE/HELP!?
i'm trying to rekindle something, even if its just a close friendship, with my ex-boyfriend. i really did care for him and still do. we are on neutral terms and don't talk that often, but will from time to time to catch up even 10 months after our breakup. how often should i talk to him, and what about? i don't want to seem like a stalker please hahaTALKING TO EX! NEED SERIOUS ADVICE/HELP!?
I had the same problem :/ me and my ex of 1 year broke up for about 6 months... now we're back but I think that if you still care about him then talk to him about things you use to talk about and ask him how he feels about you. It could patch things up if you guys feel the same way about each other.TALKING TO EX! NEED SERIOUS ADVICE/HELP!?
Hi Girl With The Pearl Earring! Well all I can say about you talking to your ex is you should keep in mind that there is nothing wrong about talking to an ex when the intention is in Good faith. I mean, if you guys decide to be friends, why not, right? If you guys are simply just that, I don't see why you should be frightened about how often you guys should talk. If you guys speak to each other, you are, well, as friends. And think about this: If he is one of your girl best friends, should you count the number of times you talk to your friends of that sex? I wouldn't. It would just come out naturally.maybelline
I had the same problem :/ me and my ex of 1 year broke up for about 6 months... now we're back but I think that if you still care about him then talk to him about things you use to talk about and ask him how he feels about you. It could patch things up if you guys feel the same way about each other.TALKING TO EX! NEED SERIOUS ADVICE/HELP!?
Hi Girl With The Pearl Earring! Well all I can say about you talking to your ex is you should keep in mind that there is nothing wrong about talking to an ex when the intention is in Good faith. I mean, if you guys decide to be friends, why not, right? If you guys are simply just that, I don't see why you should be frightened about how often you guys should talk. If you guys speak to each other, you are, well, as friends. And think about this: If he is one of your girl best friends, should you count the number of times you talk to your friends of that sex? I wouldn't. It would just come out naturally.
Help i need advice on this it will be fast?
Next month i'll be starting school here in Nevada as a new student. I'm 19 years old, and i'll be going in as a senior. I'm a rapper and i'm known in CA but not here and i just bought a Lamborghini Gallardo which i will be taking to school.
Do you guys think i'm going to get alot of hate, and fake friends?, And the hot girls (I don't want relationships)?Help i need advice on this it will be fast?
its funny, this is like the new thing on Y answers. everyone says there going to be starting school as a senior and they just bought a Lamborghini Gallardo and its not real, your not real your a low life fake, you don't even have any friends do you, you sit home alone, miserable everyday. sorry, sucks to be you.
Do you guys think i'm going to get alot of hate, and fake friends?, And the hot girls (I don't want relationships)?Help i need advice on this it will be fast?
its funny, this is like the new thing on Y answers. everyone says there going to be starting school as a senior and they just bought a Lamborghini Gallardo and its not real, your not real your a low life fake, you don't even have any friends do you, you sit home alone, miserable everyday. sorry, sucks to be you.
Women only!! i need your advice help me??
im in a relationship with this female right,she has her own business.she says she loves me but not in love with me! what exactly does this mean? cause im a really cool guy and all im looking for is someone special!! what am i doing wrong?? oh we stay together as wellWomen only!! i need your advice help me??
well, you need to ask her what that means to her. sometimes in relationships you do fall in and out of love, but you love the person the whole time. plus, there are different stages of love. tell her you don't understand what she means, and you would like to hear more about these feelings.Women only!! i need your advice help me??
Sorry guy,but it sounds like the honeymoon is nearing its end.She probably likes you but is looking for someone special herself.You are not it.Have fun while it lasts but dont drive yourself crazy.If you ARE a nice,cool guy,there is someone out there for you.
She has you right where she wants you. Move on, Chief.
OK..if she says she loves you but isn't IN LOVE with you..she just wants to be friends and is not sure how to tell you. She might not want to tell you cause she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Cause I'm telling you, I can't stop staring at my hubby when he walks into a room. I sneak into the bedroom when he's sleeping just to watch him sleep. After our kids, he's the first thing on my mind in the morning, and the last before I go to bed at night.
If she can't say the same about you. You are probably better off moving on. Cause staying in a loveless relationship is the worst thing in the world, I've been there too.
This is her suger coated way of saying she thinks your great but nothing more. She dosent love you in a long term relationship sort of way. Maybe she actually does love you as a friend,as a person,maybe she dosent even know why she isnt in love with you,but she dosent love you as a mate. She may be trying to break away,why not take a seperation to see if those magical magnetic forces reonnect the two of you.
maybe it means that she decided to love you, but not really emotionally into you.
Well from what she said to you it means that she's not really serious about your relationship. She loves you as a friend and companion nothing more.
Loving someone and being in love with someone are two totally different things. She is telling you that she loves you. In other words you are a good person, she cares for you, etc. She is not in love with you means that she doesn't have the romantic feelings, wants, desires, that a couple share. Trust me...I'm there. Move on. Find someone that can be in love with you.
love: when u have strong feelings for someone
in love: when u r completely obsessed with someone and u want to be with them every single moment and miss every moment ur not with them even if they r only gone for 5 minutes
She's more focused on her career, thats what shes trying to tell you. Dont get your hopes up in this relationship as shes already told you where you stand. If your not happy, then it might be best for you to leave. This wont change.
It could me that she doesnt have those puppy dog feelings for you anymore. She loves you as she cares about you and what your feelings are and what happens to you but that deep feeling and those butterflys that you get arent there. Love is a choice not a feeling because those butterflys always go away. When you chose to stay with that person after that feeling goes away thats true love. Sounds like she is confused about that and she thinks that love is a feelings which it is not.
Well, sad to say but if she said she's not in love with you....then I think that's it. Women don't usually waver on the whole being ';in love'; thing. At lesat she's being honest with you, meaning she likes and respects you as a friend but not for anything else.
I think you should take this opportunity to date other girls who actually like you, for you! Don't get stuck on one girl who's not showing you the time of day because you may miss out on a perfect girl!
Basically, she is saying that you aren't the one for her....
She love you as a person someone she is dating but not in love with you like marriage.
it means..SHE DOESN';t love you.. She wants to be friends but doesnt want a commitment.
How clear do you need it to be....
If you get hit by a truck..it means..you got hit by a truck..not a pussy cat.
Move on!
Son , I ain't no girl but I have been around long enough to know what this means'; Some things ya do are right and some things ya do are ';not alright: Are ya romancing her or just satifying her? Your first problem is ';ya think you are cool'; Chances are ya are the only one who thinks that!!!Change your attitude dude cause ';cool'; is what ';cool does';
She loves as a ';friend';, but isn't wanting to spend the rest of her life with you!!!
It means exactly what she says.
I'm sure you love a lot of people, say your parents, friends, whatever, but you are not in love with them.
it means that she isnt in love with you but she cares about you. Just give her time to see what a nice guy you say you are. People fall in love, you know?
Looks like it is time to look for a new love beh beh.
IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. I THINK SHE IS TRYING TO BE CAREFUL, PERHAPS SHE HAS BEEN HURT IN THE PAST. DARLING I DON'T THINK THE PROBLEM IS YOU, I THINK IT IS HER.
she loves you a big brother a friend but not romanticly it happens.
She probably loves you as a person and loves your company and your friendship, but is not yet IN love with you. Like, you can love your friends, but not love them like that. So I'm sure she thinks of you as a great friend, and maybe more, she's just not at the point where she's IN love with you yet. I'd just give it some time. How long have you been in a relationship with her? Maybe she's just not ready to say that she's in love with you yet.
Then again, maybe she just thinks of you as a friend with benefits. It's hard to tell without knowing more about your relationship. I mean, are you together all the time? I think more details are needed to give you a straight answer.
It means that she isnt interested in you in that way, she likes having you around but your not what she wants or is looking for, and its possible she is seeing someone else. good luck
well, you need to ask her what that means to her. sometimes in relationships you do fall in and out of love, but you love the person the whole time. plus, there are different stages of love. tell her you don't understand what she means, and you would like to hear more about these feelings.Women only!! i need your advice help me??
Sorry guy,but it sounds like the honeymoon is nearing its end.She probably likes you but is looking for someone special herself.You are not it.Have fun while it lasts but dont drive yourself crazy.If you ARE a nice,cool guy,there is someone out there for you.
She has you right where she wants you. Move on, Chief.
OK..if she says she loves you but isn't IN LOVE with you..she just wants to be friends and is not sure how to tell you. She might not want to tell you cause she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Cause I'm telling you, I can't stop staring at my hubby when he walks into a room. I sneak into the bedroom when he's sleeping just to watch him sleep. After our kids, he's the first thing on my mind in the morning, and the last before I go to bed at night.
If she can't say the same about you. You are probably better off moving on. Cause staying in a loveless relationship is the worst thing in the world, I've been there too.
This is her suger coated way of saying she thinks your great but nothing more. She dosent love you in a long term relationship sort of way. Maybe she actually does love you as a friend,as a person,maybe she dosent even know why she isnt in love with you,but she dosent love you as a mate. She may be trying to break away,why not take a seperation to see if those magical magnetic forces reonnect the two of you.
maybe it means that she decided to love you, but not really emotionally into you.
Well from what she said to you it means that she's not really serious about your relationship. She loves you as a friend and companion nothing more.
Loving someone and being in love with someone are two totally different things. She is telling you that she loves you. In other words you are a good person, she cares for you, etc. She is not in love with you means that she doesn't have the romantic feelings, wants, desires, that a couple share. Trust me...I'm there. Move on. Find someone that can be in love with you.
love: when u have strong feelings for someone
in love: when u r completely obsessed with someone and u want to be with them every single moment and miss every moment ur not with them even if they r only gone for 5 minutes
She's more focused on her career, thats what shes trying to tell you. Dont get your hopes up in this relationship as shes already told you where you stand. If your not happy, then it might be best for you to leave. This wont change.
It could me that she doesnt have those puppy dog feelings for you anymore. She loves you as she cares about you and what your feelings are and what happens to you but that deep feeling and those butterflys that you get arent there. Love is a choice not a feeling because those butterflys always go away. When you chose to stay with that person after that feeling goes away thats true love. Sounds like she is confused about that and she thinks that love is a feelings which it is not.
Well, sad to say but if she said she's not in love with you....then I think that's it. Women don't usually waver on the whole being ';in love'; thing. At lesat she's being honest with you, meaning she likes and respects you as a friend but not for anything else.
I think you should take this opportunity to date other girls who actually like you, for you! Don't get stuck on one girl who's not showing you the time of day because you may miss out on a perfect girl!
Basically, she is saying that you aren't the one for her....
She love you as a person someone she is dating but not in love with you like marriage.
it means..SHE DOESN';t love you.. She wants to be friends but doesnt want a commitment.
How clear do you need it to be....
If you get hit by a truck..it means..you got hit by a truck..not a pussy cat.
Move on!
Son , I ain't no girl but I have been around long enough to know what this means'; Some things ya do are right and some things ya do are ';not alright: Are ya romancing her or just satifying her? Your first problem is ';ya think you are cool'; Chances are ya are the only one who thinks that!!!Change your attitude dude cause ';cool'; is what ';cool does';
She loves as a ';friend';, but isn't wanting to spend the rest of her life with you!!!
It means exactly what she says.
I'm sure you love a lot of people, say your parents, friends, whatever, but you are not in love with them.
it means that she isnt in love with you but she cares about you. Just give her time to see what a nice guy you say you are. People fall in love, you know?
Looks like it is time to look for a new love beh beh.
IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. I THINK SHE IS TRYING TO BE CAREFUL, PERHAPS SHE HAS BEEN HURT IN THE PAST. DARLING I DON'T THINK THE PROBLEM IS YOU, I THINK IT IS HER.
she loves you a big brother a friend but not romanticly it happens.
She probably loves you as a person and loves your company and your friendship, but is not yet IN love with you. Like, you can love your friends, but not love them like that. So I'm sure she thinks of you as a great friend, and maybe more, she's just not at the point where she's IN love with you yet. I'd just give it some time. How long have you been in a relationship with her? Maybe she's just not ready to say that she's in love with you yet.
Then again, maybe she just thinks of you as a friend with benefits. It's hard to tell without knowing more about your relationship. I mean, are you together all the time? I think more details are needed to give you a straight answer.
It means that she isnt interested in you in that way, she likes having you around but your not what she wants or is looking for, and its possible she is seeing someone else. good luck
Am I fat? Honesty is the best policy, i need serious advice please help!?
Okay right now I weigh 10 stones aka 140lbs, i'm 5'5';.5, average build, bit of body muscle. For the past 3 days I've followed this plan and will continue to do so;
- At LEAST 100 sit-ups a day, sometimes more
- miles of power walking
- drink LOTS of water
- 1 meal (dinner) aprox. 330 calories
- 50 calorie snack
so my questions are;
Based on my weight facts, do you think i'm the right size?
AND
How much weight per week will I lose on my diet/exercise plan?Am I fat? Honesty is the best policy, i need serious advice please help!?
You don't sound obese but you're not going to have long term success with that approach. Your exercise regime is not going to be maintained on that absurd diet. You'll have no energy and your body will panic and store fat. You should instead eat 5 small meals a day to keep up your energy, muscle and a balanced metabolism. I can eat as much as I feel like and keep slim by just exercising 5 days a week. But luckily, I only like the taste of healthy food.Am I fat? Honesty is the best policy, i need serious advice please help!?
you should at least eat 2 meals a day, so you dont get hungry inbetween and eat snacks
- At LEAST 100 sit-ups a day, sometimes more
- miles of power walking
- drink LOTS of water
- 1 meal (dinner) aprox. 330 calories
- 50 calorie snack
so my questions are;
Based on my weight facts, do you think i'm the right size?
AND
How much weight per week will I lose on my diet/exercise plan?Am I fat? Honesty is the best policy, i need serious advice please help!?
You don't sound obese but you're not going to have long term success with that approach. Your exercise regime is not going to be maintained on that absurd diet. You'll have no energy and your body will panic and store fat. You should instead eat 5 small meals a day to keep up your energy, muscle and a balanced metabolism. I can eat as much as I feel like and keep slim by just exercising 5 days a week. But luckily, I only like the taste of healthy food.Am I fat? Honesty is the best policy, i need serious advice please help!?
you should at least eat 2 meals a day, so you dont get hungry inbetween and eat snacks
Advice. Help. Relationship Help....?
this is probably going to sound stupid oh well.
okay the boy i like, im not sure if he likes me back some times im like heyy this could mean he likes me and then its like hmm maybe not and im not the type of girl to say hey do you like me.
but like we hang out all the time at school, like when we walk home and i'll be further ahead of him he yells myname so i will stop and walk with him, hes really nice, we hug, he will leave his friends to come talk and junk. thoes are some of the signs that make me think hmm he might like me back other things like when he hugs my friend in front of me and like its more then a hug he wont like let go of her but then again i think well hes a joker so he could be joking but then it makes me feel like im wasting my time.... um im just not sure of what to do at all ugh! its so confusing.... Please leave your opinon, answer whatever but please dont put anything offending, ie your dumb, just ask himAdvice. Help. Relationship Help....?
Girlie the unfortunate truth is that the only thing you *can* do for sure *is* ask him. You wont know for sure until you do, and until then you are just leaving it up to him to guess that you like him.
The other thing you can do is flirt with him. Seriously. Hit on him. Let him know in no uncertain terms that you LIKE HIM like that. Then the ball is in his court, and he gets to make the move if he really wants.
If he doesn't, then go with plan A. Ask him. That way you can move forward with, or without him. :)
Good Luck!
okay the boy i like, im not sure if he likes me back some times im like heyy this could mean he likes me and then its like hmm maybe not and im not the type of girl to say hey do you like me.
but like we hang out all the time at school, like when we walk home and i'll be further ahead of him he yells myname so i will stop and walk with him, hes really nice, we hug, he will leave his friends to come talk and junk. thoes are some of the signs that make me think hmm he might like me back other things like when he hugs my friend in front of me and like its more then a hug he wont like let go of her but then again i think well hes a joker so he could be joking but then it makes me feel like im wasting my time.... um im just not sure of what to do at all ugh! its so confusing.... Please leave your opinon, answer whatever but please dont put anything offending, ie your dumb, just ask himAdvice. Help. Relationship Help....?
Girlie the unfortunate truth is that the only thing you *can* do for sure *is* ask him. You wont know for sure until you do, and until then you are just leaving it up to him to guess that you like him.
The other thing you can do is flirt with him. Seriously. Hit on him. Let him know in no uncertain terms that you LIKE HIM like that. Then the ball is in his court, and he gets to make the move if he really wants.
If he doesn't, then go with plan A. Ask him. That way you can move forward with, or without him. :)
Good Luck!
Help! I Need Advice! HELP .. HELP! lol....?
Well Basically Im Already in Luv/ w/ Some Professional Wrestler %26amp; All %26amp; its My DREAM to be w/ Him But That's My For MY Future Plan...
But Problem is This: I Sorta Like This Guy at My School %26amp; He's One Grade Older Then me.. But.... W.O.R.S.E Situation is
He %26amp; I Don't Know Each other.. And I Really Want to Get to Know Him %26amp; All But Im Scared %26amp; Shy That He Will Think Im A Weirdo or Creep.
IDK What to do?Help! I Need Advice! HELP .. HELP! lol....?
Just listen to your %26lt;3, that's what I doHelp! I Need Advice! HELP .. HELP! lol....?
Say fk it and grab a drink
lol wrestling is fake
But Problem is This: I Sorta Like This Guy at My School %26amp; He's One Grade Older Then me.. But.... W.O.R.S.E Situation is
He %26amp; I Don't Know Each other.. And I Really Want to Get to Know Him %26amp; All But Im Scared %26amp; Shy That He Will Think Im A Weirdo or Creep.
IDK What to do?Help! I Need Advice! HELP .. HELP! lol....?
Just listen to your %26lt;3, that's what I doHelp! I Need Advice! HELP .. HELP! lol....?
Say fk it and grab a drink
lol wrestling is fake
Painting my dresser-please help?/advice?
I'm wanting to paint my dresser but I need advice on how to start.
Its painted white already and Ive drawn and stuck stickers to it.
what stuff do I need to get?
I need like a step to step listPainting my dresser-please help?/advice?
The easy (and possibly artsy solution)
1) Paint. Strangely enough any art paint will do. Acrylics are great for this.
2) Let it dry.
3)Get a varnish. Now you don't want an art varnish for this. Go get yourself a colorless floor sealer for wood flooring. It should be a water based one.
Put it over your design and you are done.
or
1) Stickers can be removed chemically or by heat. Any paint stripper will do the trick as you don't have to be careful with the surface below it..
2) Sand down the dresserr. Not deep but you do need to have been everywhere.
3) Primer. If your dresse has many nooks and crannies you may find it most handy to use a spray paint. If you can not get it out of the house however I would recommend against it. The paint will get everywhere.
Use a roller and a small(ish) brush.
4) depending on your preferences paint your dresser in any color, design or print you want. No need to varnish your desk unless you used special techniques or art paints.
3)Painting my dresser-please help?/advice?
first, i would get as many of the stickers off as possible. try a product called GooGone. Saturate the stickers and then they should start to rub off rather easily.
then, you need to sand the dresser with a palm sander. you don't need to get the old paint off, just sand it enough to smooth out any bumps or sticker residue and rough it up to accept the new paint. depending on the old finish/paint, you might want to try a primer like Kilz to cover an extremely glossy surface, then paint with your favorite color. I think you can even get a color added to Kilz so that might save you a step.
you would want to clean it first and remove stickers, either peel off and/ or use hot soapy water, for some drawn images try using heavy duty cleaners, like mr. clean and windex,
now if the dresser is old it may be real wood and could opt to remove paints and varnish, if new and laminated press board, there are special paints, though could use regular paints, you have a choice of oil or acrylic, before painting, you may need to scuff surface of unit to help paint to adhere, and remove handles or cover if metal,
you'll need some type of drop mats or plastic or newspapers to cover floor, depending on size about two quarts of colored paint, either roller and or brushes, possibly painters tape to cover some edges, and ventilate room,
try to choose colors that match other furniture or bedding, possibly have friend or family help move and get ideas, you may also add wallpaper design for accent,
Debbie Travis Paint Selector
http://debbietravis.canadiantire.ca/debb…
Behr Color smart
http://www.behr.com/behrx/workbook/
Wallpaper finder
http://www.wallpapersnmore.com/global/co…
ColorBlender online color matching toolbox
http://colorblender.com/
The Sessions Color Calculator
http://dev.sessions.edu/ilu/ilu_1.html
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first you want to strip it free of any paint and get to bare wood. Next you want to lightly sand it to remove any residuals left behind, then clean it with a wet cloth to remove any dust... I would recommend going with an exterior oil paint high gloss finish if you want durability. ( if you have any dents you want taken out use a light spackle to fill them in.... Good luckmaybelline
Its painted white already and Ive drawn and stuck stickers to it.
what stuff do I need to get?
I need like a step to step listPainting my dresser-please help?/advice?
The easy (and possibly artsy solution)
1) Paint. Strangely enough any art paint will do. Acrylics are great for this.
2) Let it dry.
3)Get a varnish. Now you don't want an art varnish for this. Go get yourself a colorless floor sealer for wood flooring. It should be a water based one.
Put it over your design and you are done.
or
1) Stickers can be removed chemically or by heat. Any paint stripper will do the trick as you don't have to be careful with the surface below it..
2) Sand down the dresserr. Not deep but you do need to have been everywhere.
3) Primer. If your dresse has many nooks and crannies you may find it most handy to use a spray paint. If you can not get it out of the house however I would recommend against it. The paint will get everywhere.
Use a roller and a small(ish) brush.
4) depending on your preferences paint your dresser in any color, design or print you want. No need to varnish your desk unless you used special techniques or art paints.
3)Painting my dresser-please help?/advice?
first, i would get as many of the stickers off as possible. try a product called GooGone. Saturate the stickers and then they should start to rub off rather easily.
then, you need to sand the dresser with a palm sander. you don't need to get the old paint off, just sand it enough to smooth out any bumps or sticker residue and rough it up to accept the new paint. depending on the old finish/paint, you might want to try a primer like Kilz to cover an extremely glossy surface, then paint with your favorite color. I think you can even get a color added to Kilz so that might save you a step.
you would want to clean it first and remove stickers, either peel off and/ or use hot soapy water, for some drawn images try using heavy duty cleaners, like mr. clean and windex,
now if the dresser is old it may be real wood and could opt to remove paints and varnish, if new and laminated press board, there are special paints, though could use regular paints, you have a choice of oil or acrylic, before painting, you may need to scuff surface of unit to help paint to adhere, and remove handles or cover if metal,
you'll need some type of drop mats or plastic or newspapers to cover floor, depending on size about two quarts of colored paint, either roller and or brushes, possibly painters tape to cover some edges, and ventilate room,
try to choose colors that match other furniture or bedding, possibly have friend or family help move and get ideas, you may also add wallpaper design for accent,
Debbie Travis Paint Selector
http://debbietravis.canadiantire.ca/debb…
Behr Color smart
http://www.behr.com/behrx/workbook/
Wallpaper finder
http://www.wallpapersnmore.com/global/co…
ColorBlender online color matching toolbox
http://colorblender.com/
The Sessions Color Calculator
http://dev.sessions.edu/ilu/ilu_1.html
..
first you want to strip it free of any paint and get to bare wood. Next you want to lightly sand it to remove any residuals left behind, then clean it with a wet cloth to remove any dust... I would recommend going with an exterior oil paint high gloss finish if you want durability. ( if you have any dents you want taken out use a light spackle to fill them in.... Good luck
Okay, so im trying to design an off the shoulder shirt with one of my old ones. any advice or help?
its for a concert lol, so i need it asapOkay, so im trying to design an off the shoulder shirt with one of my old ones. any advice or help?
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I need datin advice help plz !!!?
if a boy asks me out wht shud i do huh !!!!!!I need datin advice help plz !!!?
WHAT DIDNT YOU JUST SAY YOU WANTED TO DATE!!! YOU LIKE A BOY!!! WHAT THE HELL GIRL!!!? STOP CLOCKING THE TRAFFIC!!!!
OBVIOUSLY YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT!I need datin advice help plz !!!?
There are a few things you have to consider. First of all, do you like them? Do you have a friendship with this guy already and think about if you split up - would it ruin that friendship?
there's nothing wrong with telling him you'll think about it for a while. Make sure you only say yes for the right reasons.
simple...
if u like him say yes
if u dont like him, say no
but just dont leave him hanging and say 'i dont know'...it hurts them waaaaay too much
and dont pretend to like him...eg: say yes just for the sake of having a boyfriend....only go out with him if u really do like him, otherwise ur just going to hurt him
Say yes or no depending on whether they're retarded or if you like them or whatever.
If you like him you go out with him..if you don't just say no...
troll
ehhhhhhh say yes!
if u like him, go out with him! its not a big deeeeeaaal!!!
if the guy is cute say yes, if not ignore
WHAT DIDNT YOU JUST SAY YOU WANTED TO DATE!!! YOU LIKE A BOY!!! WHAT THE HELL GIRL!!!? STOP CLOCKING THE TRAFFIC!!!!
OBVIOUSLY YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT!I need datin advice help plz !!!?
There are a few things you have to consider. First of all, do you like them? Do you have a friendship with this guy already and think about if you split up - would it ruin that friendship?
there's nothing wrong with telling him you'll think about it for a while. Make sure you only say yes for the right reasons.
simple...
if u like him say yes
if u dont like him, say no
but just dont leave him hanging and say 'i dont know'...it hurts them waaaaay too much
and dont pretend to like him...eg: say yes just for the sake of having a boyfriend....only go out with him if u really do like him, otherwise ur just going to hurt him
Say yes or no depending on whether they're retarded or if you like them or whatever.
If you like him you go out with him..if you don't just say no...
troll
ehhhhhhh say yes!
if u like him, go out with him! its not a big deeeeeaaal!!!
if the guy is cute say yes, if not ignore
Help with my hair! advice on perms or other straightening and smoothing methods?
I have dry, curly hair, and i hate it! i straighten it with a straightner alot, even though i know this is very bad for my hair. I want to find a way to make my hair permanently straight and smooth, without risking it to fall out. Can anyone help? And it would be nice if someone tells me the risks of perming your hair. Thanks a lot!Help with my hair! advice on perms or other straightening and smoothing methods?
FIRST YOU HAVE GET YOUR HAIR IN THE BEST CONDITION TO BE PERMED. GREAT HAIR DOES NOT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT. GO BUY A HYDRATING SHAMPOO AND CONDITIONER FRO REGULAR USE. NOT A MOISTURIZING CONDITIONER THEY ARE DIFFERENT. PAUL MITCHELL IS A GOOD LINE ';THE SHAMPOO %26amp; THE CONDITIONER'; OR IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO SPEND TOO MUCH MONEY ON IT BUY HERBAL ESSENCE HYDRATING SHAMPOO %26amp; CONDITIONER.
TO HELP PREPARE YOUR HAIR FOR PERMING USE ';CPR'; BY MOTIONS THIS WILL HELP STOP ANY BREAKAGE YOU HAVE NOW AND PREVENT ANY BREAKAGE AFTER YOU PERM YOUR HAIR. USE IT AFTER YOU PERM YOUR HAIR FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS ON THE JAR. YOU WILL FEEL THE DIFFERENCE IMMEDIATELY AFTER USING ';CPR';. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A SIT DOWN DRYER INVEST IN ONE IT IS ONLY ABOUT 40.00 BUCKS AT YOUR LOCAL BEAUTY SUPPLY LIKE SALLY'S IF YOU HAVE ONE AROUND. IF YOU ARE PERMING YOUR OWN HAIR AFTER USING ';CPR'; USE A STABILZER FOR YOUR PERM. I USE ';FRENCH SILK STABILIZER PLUS'; LEAVE IN HAIR. IT DOES IMPROVE THE SILKINESS OF YOUR PERM. tAPE YOUR HAIR DOWN WITH WRAPPING TAPE AND SIT UNDER THE DRYER AND LET DRY. YOUR HAIR WILL BE SMOOTH AND SOFT AFTER THAT BLOW DRY A LITTLE IF NECESSARY TO HELP GET SOME OF THE WAVES OUT THEN ADD A LITTLE SERUM I USE ';SMOOTH %26amp; SHINE'; AND FLAT IRON.
PLEASE STOP USING THE STRAIGHT IRON SO MUCH THAT IS WHAT IS DRYING OUT YOUR HAIR AND CAUSING IT TO BREAK. GET A NICE SCARF FROM THE BEAUTY SUPPLY AND WRAP YOUR HAIR AT NIGHT. BEFORE YOU WRAP IT AT NIGHT SPRAY A LITTLE OIL SHEEN ON IT.
IT SEEMS LIKE A LOT OF WORK BUT ONCE YOU GET USED TO TAKING CARE OF YOUR HAIR IT WILL NOT BE AS DIFFICULT OF SEEM OVER WHELMING. GET AT ME IF YOU WANT RJCTTH@YAHOO.COM. I LOVE MY HAIR I WORK HARD TO KEEP SOFT AND HEALTHY.Help with my hair! advice on perms or other straightening and smoothing methods?
Too much CAPS. Ouch.
good luck
get it chemically straightened - and by a hair conditioning mask to resolve the dryness issue
The biggest risk of relaxing your hair (I used to call them perms too, but perms make it curly) is that it may be too strong and make your hair come out. Before you start you should always do a test on some hair that won't be seen, just a small piece, and wash it out after a few minute. Start with something like for kids (they're milder) too.
The reason your hair is so dry is because it's curly, because of the intense curl pattern it's hard for it to stay moisturized. Just keep moisturizing. I kept my hair unrelaxed for awhile, just whatever you do make sure it's what you want k?
well if your hair is really dry i would not suggest to be getting a perm any time soon or other wise you will regret it b/c your hair will be fried and really nasty looking. i would suggest that you sleep in conditioner once a week wear a shower cap. this will start helping you regain moisture into your hair. if you are wanting straight hair i would tell you to go and get a relaxer onto it but that is alot like perms you need to get the moisture back into your hair first. then get it cut and ask a beautician if your hair is ready enough to get a perm or relaxer.
Try the matrix line of styling products at Great Clips hair salons. You can buy some of the matrix products at Target too. There is a smoothing masque in a jar that's about $15 but my GOSH, it works wonders and worth every penny. They may have a curly hair line. Also, don't perm your hair if you've colored yourself, it will FRY your hair garunteed.
FIRST YOU HAVE GET YOUR HAIR IN THE BEST CONDITION TO BE PERMED. GREAT HAIR DOES NOT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT. GO BUY A HYDRATING SHAMPOO AND CONDITIONER FRO REGULAR USE. NOT A MOISTURIZING CONDITIONER THEY ARE DIFFERENT. PAUL MITCHELL IS A GOOD LINE ';THE SHAMPOO %26amp; THE CONDITIONER'; OR IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO SPEND TOO MUCH MONEY ON IT BUY HERBAL ESSENCE HYDRATING SHAMPOO %26amp; CONDITIONER.
TO HELP PREPARE YOUR HAIR FOR PERMING USE ';CPR'; BY MOTIONS THIS WILL HELP STOP ANY BREAKAGE YOU HAVE NOW AND PREVENT ANY BREAKAGE AFTER YOU PERM YOUR HAIR. USE IT AFTER YOU PERM YOUR HAIR FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS ON THE JAR. YOU WILL FEEL THE DIFFERENCE IMMEDIATELY AFTER USING ';CPR';. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A SIT DOWN DRYER INVEST IN ONE IT IS ONLY ABOUT 40.00 BUCKS AT YOUR LOCAL BEAUTY SUPPLY LIKE SALLY'S IF YOU HAVE ONE AROUND. IF YOU ARE PERMING YOUR OWN HAIR AFTER USING ';CPR'; USE A STABILZER FOR YOUR PERM. I USE ';FRENCH SILK STABILIZER PLUS'; LEAVE IN HAIR. IT DOES IMPROVE THE SILKINESS OF YOUR PERM. tAPE YOUR HAIR DOWN WITH WRAPPING TAPE AND SIT UNDER THE DRYER AND LET DRY. YOUR HAIR WILL BE SMOOTH AND SOFT AFTER THAT BLOW DRY A LITTLE IF NECESSARY TO HELP GET SOME OF THE WAVES OUT THEN ADD A LITTLE SERUM I USE ';SMOOTH %26amp; SHINE'; AND FLAT IRON.
PLEASE STOP USING THE STRAIGHT IRON SO MUCH THAT IS WHAT IS DRYING OUT YOUR HAIR AND CAUSING IT TO BREAK. GET A NICE SCARF FROM THE BEAUTY SUPPLY AND WRAP YOUR HAIR AT NIGHT. BEFORE YOU WRAP IT AT NIGHT SPRAY A LITTLE OIL SHEEN ON IT.
IT SEEMS LIKE A LOT OF WORK BUT ONCE YOU GET USED TO TAKING CARE OF YOUR HAIR IT WILL NOT BE AS DIFFICULT OF SEEM OVER WHELMING. GET AT ME IF YOU WANT RJCTTH@YAHOO.COM. I LOVE MY HAIR I WORK HARD TO KEEP SOFT AND HEALTHY.Help with my hair! advice on perms or other straightening and smoothing methods?
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get it chemically straightened - and by a hair conditioning mask to resolve the dryness issue
The biggest risk of relaxing your hair (I used to call them perms too, but perms make it curly) is that it may be too strong and make your hair come out. Before you start you should always do a test on some hair that won't be seen, just a small piece, and wash it out after a few minute. Start with something like for kids (they're milder) too.
The reason your hair is so dry is because it's curly, because of the intense curl pattern it's hard for it to stay moisturized. Just keep moisturizing. I kept my hair unrelaxed for awhile, just whatever you do make sure it's what you want k?
well if your hair is really dry i would not suggest to be getting a perm any time soon or other wise you will regret it b/c your hair will be fried and really nasty looking. i would suggest that you sleep in conditioner once a week wear a shower cap. this will start helping you regain moisture into your hair. if you are wanting straight hair i would tell you to go and get a relaxer onto it but that is alot like perms you need to get the moisture back into your hair first. then get it cut and ask a beautician if your hair is ready enough to get a perm or relaxer.
Try the matrix line of styling products at Great Clips hair salons. You can buy some of the matrix products at Target too. There is a smoothing masque in a jar that's about $15 but my GOSH, it works wonders and worth every penny. They may have a curly hair line. Also, don't perm your hair if you've colored yourself, it will FRY your hair garunteed.
RE: Need family advice HELP PLZ!?
I wish it were that easy to just let them go. But the older one (who yelled at me) which I agree was for no reason cause I did NOTHING! I was very close to my whole life and now with the holidays coming up Im not going to my fam's thing cause its at her house and I refuse to let me and my fam be uncomfortable during the holidays. But shes supossed to be my sons god mother! And hasnt called to talk to either of my kids! And they are affected by it now too. And i know for a fact she wont come to me and EVER say sorry shes the type of person that feels like they dont owe anyone an apology unless they were in the wrong and shes denying being in the wrong here. So, if I let it go- me or my kids wont ever see or hear from her again. It hurts that its all over something so stupid...RE: Need family advice HELP PLZ!?
yes, i agree....this was rather a hurtful thing for them to do and the fact that you probably won't speak again over such a trivial matter is really dumb....i feel your pain....wish that i could help you out more....
yes, i agree....this was rather a hurtful thing for them to do and the fact that you probably won't speak again over such a trivial matter is really dumb....i feel your pain....wish that i could help you out more....
Mentally ill, in need of 4 extractions and I'm in desperate need of help/advice?
If there are any dentists here that would be able to talk to me for a few minutes by phone it would be GREATLY appreciated. I am 21, live in northern NJ, suffer from several severe mental illnesses, and just this week went to see a dentist for the first time in over 5 years. I need to have teeth #'s 17, 18, 30, and 31 extracted. The dentist I saw said I would need to go to an oral surgeon for it. Which I completely agree with, because I need to be put under general (not just local) anestia for this. (Due to extreme fear) I can not find ANYWHERE that will take Medicaid and be able to see me in a decent time frame. The 2 clinics that there are in this area both have an approximent wait of 4 weeks. I am in pain and I don't know what to do... I am probably going to end up paying out of pocket on my credit card but was given an estimate of $2000 (including the general anestia) If anyone can suggest anything or give me any advice on what I can do I would be very greatful. Thanks
~Julie~Mentally ill, in need of 4 extractions and I'm in desperate need of help/advice?
Damn our Medicaid System!! I too am on Medicaid. I live on Social Security disability only and have had to fight for everything I've gotten when it's come to getting things done for me medically. I also suffer from both physical and mental issues which need to be addressed appropriatly and in a timely manner. But, Woe is me and You we are stuck dealing with the deck we've been dealt. As far as getting in to see any kind of a specialist expect to wait several months and then drive several hours. If you are in pain then an emergency room is obligated to do whatever they can to at the very least alleviate your pain and at the most may have a connection to an oral surgeon on call who can be called in as an emergency. Do whatever you have to do to hang in there and get your pain relief needs taken care of until you can see the specialists. Don't feel timid about calling every day to see if there happens to be a cancellation. I once got in to my rheumatologist a whole month early because they had a cancellation and I just happened to call at the right time. As far as the procedure goes, don't worry yourself silly about it. Ask the doctor all the questions you need to ask so that you are well informed as to what exactly they are going to do and why. Then trust in God (if your believe in God), and if not then trust in the skill of the Dr,'s you're working with and follow their instructions to the letter and you should do just fine. I worked in Oral Surgery for 20 years as an assistant to the Dr. Oral Surgeons do these kinds of extractions all the time, it's their bread and butter. Have faith. Good LuckMentally ill, in need of 4 extractions and I'm in desperate need of help/advice?
Medicaid really sucks so few doctors take it but what i would suggest is to call the welfare office they can put you in touch with a social worker who can help you find a doctor, or if you have a therapist ask them to help you, either of those people have the resources to help you find a doctor quickly. As a last resort if you are in extreme pain go to the hospital, they have to help you and if you are lucky enough to find an oral surgeon on call at the hospital they will see how much you need help and you can be fixed quicker. I know things don't always work the way they should but be persistent with the welfare office (or what ever office your medicaid is issued out of) and you will get the help you need. I hope this helps you.
Unfortunately, there are so many people living at the poverty level, the backlog for Medicaid care is horrendous. Understand that Medicaid will reimburse the dentist about $35 for removing a tooth. It costs more to pay the staff than that. New Jersey has not had a major fee revision in over 20 years and the fees were horrible 20 years ago. Many would GIVE away the care, but to work for Medicaid fees usually means that the doctor is paying for part of your care out of his own pocket, as he still has to meet expenses. In my little office in a rural area, it costs about $185-200 per hour to open the office. That MUST be paid before I have a penny to put in my own pocket. I can't see a Medicaid patient and do four extractions, which would take about an hour, and lose $60 of my own money. I do not mean I'd make $60 less than usual. I mean it would cost me $60 out of my pocket to make up the difference so I could pay my staff and the electric company, etc., and I'd have nothing at all for my efforts and liability.
I know this is not good advice for you, but it's information to help you understand why almost nobody accepts Medicaid except clinics that are frequently government subsidized (directly or indirectly) to operate. Maybe you can join the ranks of people who are pushing legislators to overhaul NJ Medicaid.
Go to the emergency room at your nearest hospital, they will have it done there if you are in the pain you say you are in or they will find someone for you that will do it on medical card.
MEDICAID IS SUPPOSED TO TELL YOU WHERE TO GO FOR EMERGENCY SERVICES.......CALL YOUR MEDICAID OFFICE AND TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR PROBLEM.......SO SORRY........
isn't there a medical assistance program there at the welfare office, that could pay part of it??
~Julie~Mentally ill, in need of 4 extractions and I'm in desperate need of help/advice?
Damn our Medicaid System!! I too am on Medicaid. I live on Social Security disability only and have had to fight for everything I've gotten when it's come to getting things done for me medically. I also suffer from both physical and mental issues which need to be addressed appropriatly and in a timely manner. But, Woe is me and You we are stuck dealing with the deck we've been dealt. As far as getting in to see any kind of a specialist expect to wait several months and then drive several hours. If you are in pain then an emergency room is obligated to do whatever they can to at the very least alleviate your pain and at the most may have a connection to an oral surgeon on call who can be called in as an emergency. Do whatever you have to do to hang in there and get your pain relief needs taken care of until you can see the specialists. Don't feel timid about calling every day to see if there happens to be a cancellation. I once got in to my rheumatologist a whole month early because they had a cancellation and I just happened to call at the right time. As far as the procedure goes, don't worry yourself silly about it. Ask the doctor all the questions you need to ask so that you are well informed as to what exactly they are going to do and why. Then trust in God (if your believe in God), and if not then trust in the skill of the Dr,'s you're working with and follow their instructions to the letter and you should do just fine. I worked in Oral Surgery for 20 years as an assistant to the Dr. Oral Surgeons do these kinds of extractions all the time, it's their bread and butter. Have faith. Good LuckMentally ill, in need of 4 extractions and I'm in desperate need of help/advice?
Medicaid really sucks so few doctors take it but what i would suggest is to call the welfare office they can put you in touch with a social worker who can help you find a doctor, or if you have a therapist ask them to help you, either of those people have the resources to help you find a doctor quickly. As a last resort if you are in extreme pain go to the hospital, they have to help you and if you are lucky enough to find an oral surgeon on call at the hospital they will see how much you need help and you can be fixed quicker. I know things don't always work the way they should but be persistent with the welfare office (or what ever office your medicaid is issued out of) and you will get the help you need. I hope this helps you.
Unfortunately, there are so many people living at the poverty level, the backlog for Medicaid care is horrendous. Understand that Medicaid will reimburse the dentist about $35 for removing a tooth. It costs more to pay the staff than that. New Jersey has not had a major fee revision in over 20 years and the fees were horrible 20 years ago. Many would GIVE away the care, but to work for Medicaid fees usually means that the doctor is paying for part of your care out of his own pocket, as he still has to meet expenses. In my little office in a rural area, it costs about $185-200 per hour to open the office. That MUST be paid before I have a penny to put in my own pocket. I can't see a Medicaid patient and do four extractions, which would take about an hour, and lose $60 of my own money. I do not mean I'd make $60 less than usual. I mean it would cost me $60 out of my pocket to make up the difference so I could pay my staff and the electric company, etc., and I'd have nothing at all for my efforts and liability.
I know this is not good advice for you, but it's information to help you understand why almost nobody accepts Medicaid except clinics that are frequently government subsidized (directly or indirectly) to operate. Maybe you can join the ranks of people who are pushing legislators to overhaul NJ Medicaid.
Go to the emergency room at your nearest hospital, they will have it done there if you are in the pain you say you are in or they will find someone for you that will do it on medical card.
MEDICAID IS SUPPOSED TO TELL YOU WHERE TO GO FOR EMERGENCY SERVICES.......CALL YOUR MEDICAID OFFICE AND TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR PROBLEM.......SO SORRY........
isn't there a medical assistance program there at the welfare office, that could pay part of it??
I need your advice//help !! ASAP =/?
What signs do men show when they are attracted ???I need your advice//help !! ASAP =/?
they flirt with you and look at youI need your advice//help !! ASAP =/?
My best advice is that you'll know if a man is attracted to you. Generally, guys are nicer than they usually are when trying to get a woman's attention. They'll look at you straight in the eye, they'll usually smile (exceptionally big smile) and you'll have their undivided attention. Don't worry--you'll know if a guy likes you.
signs to be attracted to females or you?
well its kinda different for different people but the usually is they might stare, go out of their way to talk to you, joke around with you, being extremly nice
however if their shy they might stare and if you look at them they will stare at something else, can't talk straight, red in the face, stuff like that
I make eyes at girls I'm attracted to, and joke around with them a lot too. But it's different for every guy, some guys will do the same thing to girls they simply value as friends, and other guys just do it for the attention. There's no rhyme or reason to the game, you just gotta play. Trust your instincts, and go with your gut. You may not always be right, but it's a learning process. Most important of all, have fun, and love yourself first!
well theres this guy and i think he likes me and hes always staring at me even when i kind of look at him i can still see him staring and when i talk to him he has this really cute smile that i never see him smiile at anyone else with and he always listens when i talk yea i like this guy and sometimes i think he likes mefor those reasons :]]]]]]
You might catch him staring at you with a goofy smile. He may often find reasons to talk to you. Generally, you'll know just by body laguage. He might lay his hand on your arm while talking, give you a surprise hug....etc. Good luck!
Everyone is way to different to give a simple response.
Generally, they'll be more interested in you and want to spend time with you.
Follow your gut feeling.
it depends on the guy, but some will tease you (not in too mean of a way, but like they do with their guy friends) or they'll flirt and compliment you. sometimes they're shy and it's hard to tell
well they flirt, they stare at you, they smile at you. If you are between 13 and 15 they poke you and tease you a lot.
I think it matters on the guy some may
1) call you a lot
2) talk about u a lot
3) tell u you pretty etc
4) be really nice to u
5) tell u things he don't tell others
6) kiss you
when i know someone is attracted to me i just get this feeling... idk it weird. but i have predicted everyguy i go out with.
depends on the type of guy. but most likly they'll do little things to touch u. like poking u or grabing your sholder. they also tend to complaiment girls they like alot! before dating them.
Some Do Show Any Signs Which Is Very Nerv Wrecking But Many will Joke With You Or Say Certain Corny Things That They Really Mean. Or Shy Away. Ah So Much Things.
I become very shy, and I try to avoid the object of my affection. I try to look at her when she's not looking at me, though.
some are bashful, and nervous, keeping their hand in their pockets.
others are brazen, but stay away from those
depends on the guy....they could shy away and blush. They may flirt and be touchy... Look at what kind of guy he is and you'll know.
Take Care!
I am sure you can figure it out if you jus watch him!!!
They look at you alot. Smile and compliment you. Seem to always appear. You ll know, if you dont already?
glance over at you frequently.
clumbyness, boners ect
they will be attracted to you when they just look at you. there isn't really a way that u can tell if they like you.
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for ';friend of mine'; that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, ';Well, you like orange fizz...';
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say ';Hey.'; to everyone with you, but the ';Hey.'; to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
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MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
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STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
staring, playful teasing or hitting, shyness
smiling, warm body language, lots of eye contact, excuses to text/ be in touch, gifts......the list goes on - whats the story cherry?
They stare.
mostly they stare at you email you or show off alot
first tell me what signs is he showin???? there are alot of signs
flirting, flip their hair, starin at u , smile etc . =] BEST ANSWER PLZZ
they look at u al the time
and all that jazz
Smiles...
Physical contact...
Shyness..
Stiffy!! ;)
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for ';friend of mine'; that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, ';Well, you like orange fizz...';
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say ';Hey.'; to everyone with you, but the ';Hey.'; to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
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MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
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OR
STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?maybelline
they flirt with you and look at youI need your advice//help !! ASAP =/?
My best advice is that you'll know if a man is attracted to you. Generally, guys are nicer than they usually are when trying to get a woman's attention. They'll look at you straight in the eye, they'll usually smile (exceptionally big smile) and you'll have their undivided attention. Don't worry--you'll know if a guy likes you.
signs to be attracted to females or you?
well its kinda different for different people but the usually is they might stare, go out of their way to talk to you, joke around with you, being extremly nice
however if their shy they might stare and if you look at them they will stare at something else, can't talk straight, red in the face, stuff like that
I make eyes at girls I'm attracted to, and joke around with them a lot too. But it's different for every guy, some guys will do the same thing to girls they simply value as friends, and other guys just do it for the attention. There's no rhyme or reason to the game, you just gotta play. Trust your instincts, and go with your gut. You may not always be right, but it's a learning process. Most important of all, have fun, and love yourself first!
well theres this guy and i think he likes me and hes always staring at me even when i kind of look at him i can still see him staring and when i talk to him he has this really cute smile that i never see him smiile at anyone else with and he always listens when i talk yea i like this guy and sometimes i think he likes mefor those reasons :]]]]]]
You might catch him staring at you with a goofy smile. He may often find reasons to talk to you. Generally, you'll know just by body laguage. He might lay his hand on your arm while talking, give you a surprise hug....etc. Good luck!
Everyone is way to different to give a simple response.
Generally, they'll be more interested in you and want to spend time with you.
Follow your gut feeling.
it depends on the guy, but some will tease you (not in too mean of a way, but like they do with their guy friends) or they'll flirt and compliment you. sometimes they're shy and it's hard to tell
well they flirt, they stare at you, they smile at you. If you are between 13 and 15 they poke you and tease you a lot.
I think it matters on the guy some may
1) call you a lot
2) talk about u a lot
3) tell u you pretty etc
4) be really nice to u
5) tell u things he don't tell others
6) kiss you
when i know someone is attracted to me i just get this feeling... idk it weird. but i have predicted everyguy i go out with.
depends on the type of guy. but most likly they'll do little things to touch u. like poking u or grabing your sholder. they also tend to complaiment girls they like alot! before dating them.
Some Do Show Any Signs Which Is Very Nerv Wrecking But Many will Joke With You Or Say Certain Corny Things That They Really Mean. Or Shy Away. Ah So Much Things.
I become very shy, and I try to avoid the object of my affection. I try to look at her when she's not looking at me, though.
some are bashful, and nervous, keeping their hand in their pockets.
others are brazen, but stay away from those
depends on the guy....they could shy away and blush. They may flirt and be touchy... Look at what kind of guy he is and you'll know.
Take Care!
I am sure you can figure it out if you jus watch him!!!
They look at you alot. Smile and compliment you. Seem to always appear. You ll know, if you dont already?
glance over at you frequently.
clumbyness, boners ect
they will be attracted to you when they just look at you. there isn't really a way that u can tell if they like you.
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for ';friend of mine'; that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, ';Well, you like orange fizz...';
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say ';Hey.'; to everyone with you, but the ';Hey.'; to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
______________________________...
MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
------------------------------...
OR
STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
staring, playful teasing or hitting, shyness
smiling, warm body language, lots of eye contact, excuses to text/ be in touch, gifts......the list goes on - whats the story cherry?
They stare.
mostly they stare at you email you or show off alot
first tell me what signs is he showin???? there are alot of signs
flirting, flip their hair, starin at u , smile etc . =] BEST ANSWER PLZZ
they look at u al the time
and all that jazz
Smiles...
Physical contact...
Shyness..
Stiffy!! ;)
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for ';friend of mine'; that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, ';Well, you like orange fizz...';
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say ';Hey.'; to everyone with you, but the ';Hey.'; to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
______________________________...
MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
------------------------------...
OR
STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Men and women please, i need your advice! help?
i am sick of being single , i want a b/f and the last guy i liked was nice at first then he turned out to be an asshole , you see we met while at work, he knew i was leaving and he didn't bother to give me his number, now there is a guy at my new job, he is a cute guy,he flirts with me constantly , but the problem is that he has a fiancee, although he told his friend they are fighting and he thinks he is going to break up the engagement, then there is another guy at the same place, he is a very funny guy and goes out of his way to just do funny stuff, for example, we were walking next to each other and he jumped and fell on the floor and pretended i had tripped him, but he later told me it was a joke, he is a nice guy, the problem is i NEVER get approach by any guy and the ones i have approached turned me down, so i'm waiting for one of the guys at my new job to approach me, i mean what should i do ,should i approach them?Men and women please, i need your advice! help?
You should just wait. When God has a guy for you he will let you and the guy know that this is Mr. Right.Men and women please, i need your advice! help?
How old are you and what year is this? Girls ask guys out all of the time now. Treat it like shopping, see something you like, pick it up! Get with it! And stop trying to date guys from your work! It usually leads to disaster.
Rule #1: Don't Look for Love!
Rule #2: Be happy, confidant and yourself no matter what!
If you're that hard up, try harmony.com
Never get involved with a person from work. My rule is to not get involved with people in my city. Honey child, go volunteer to manage a guys basketball team, or feed soup to homeless men at the Salvation Army, join the army and go to Iraq, but never, never, get involved with guys at work.
Follow your heart, seek God and await his answer he will not lead you astray. Be patient my child and when you can grab the coin from my hand you will be ready ha ha!!
NO, wait for them to approach you!
tell him
Don't get frantic, and don't grab the first guy who shows signs of interest. Just be open, friendly, and get to know them a little better.
Have you ever heard of the expression
Never Sh*t where you eat?
Sometimes, you can't just stand there and wait for life to pass you by. Invite one of them or both, or a group out for a drink on night, or organise a works drink for Christmas, then make the running. That doesn;t mean you have to come on strong, just start the conversations for a change.
Carpe diem!! (That means ';Seize the day';, btw, not anything rude)
One piece of advice. Make it a rule - repeat after me:
';DON'T DATE PEOPLE AT WORK.';
You should just wait. When God has a guy for you he will let you and the guy know that this is Mr. Right.Men and women please, i need your advice! help?
How old are you and what year is this? Girls ask guys out all of the time now. Treat it like shopping, see something you like, pick it up! Get with it! And stop trying to date guys from your work! It usually leads to disaster.
Rule #1: Don't Look for Love!
Rule #2: Be happy, confidant and yourself no matter what!
If you're that hard up, try harmony.com
Never get involved with a person from work. My rule is to not get involved with people in my city. Honey child, go volunteer to manage a guys basketball team, or feed soup to homeless men at the Salvation Army, join the army and go to Iraq, but never, never, get involved with guys at work.
Follow your heart, seek God and await his answer he will not lead you astray. Be patient my child and when you can grab the coin from my hand you will be ready ha ha!!
NO, wait for them to approach you!
tell him
Don't get frantic, and don't grab the first guy who shows signs of interest. Just be open, friendly, and get to know them a little better.
Have you ever heard of the expression
Never Sh*t where you eat?
Sometimes, you can't just stand there and wait for life to pass you by. Invite one of them or both, or a group out for a drink on night, or organise a works drink for Christmas, then make the running. That doesn;t mean you have to come on strong, just start the conversations for a change.
Carpe diem!! (That means ';Seize the day';, btw, not anything rude)
One piece of advice. Make it a rule - repeat after me:
';DON'T DATE PEOPLE AT WORK.';
In need for advice, Help me please?
Ive known this girl for the past year and recently since I've been away on vacation and shes been emailing me, telling me how she misses me, and that she would consider dating me
Well I finally came home yesterday to talk to her for 40mins on the phone about everything. I told her that I like her, %26amp; I wanna be that guy who doesn't care if shes in sweats and a tee or whipe her tears whenevr shes sad, %26amp; whenever I said somethin nice she kept sayin brb on the phone %26amp; came bak after 10seconds or so...weird. So basically she said that she wouldnt go back go back 2 her ex ';plus her ex b/f is a player lemme add';. Anyhow, she reiterated that she doesnt wanna be ina relationship %26amp; guys aren't worth it, but I can tell shes hiding her true feelings becuz she always has lovey-dovey pix on her msn display. So is this girl serious, she told me not to call her and she'll email me back in a few days to think bout things. I will give her space, but i feel that i should have fun and not think bout herIn need for advice, Help me please?
girls prefer to talk about relationships via msn/ email it's easier... but i can bet you anything that the day you were talking to her she was asking her girl friends for advice when she sed brb every second! give her space atleast she knows your intentions!
gd luckIn need for advice, Help me please?
dont think about it dude. when you get back, youll know
It sounds like she may not know what she wants. Sometimes a girl will call a guy to herself and then push him back and then call him back again and then push him back and on and on because she doesn't know what she really wants, but she likes the attention the guy gives her. If she's saying that she doesn't want to be in a relationship and you do, then move on. She can get in touch with you and let you know if she changes her mind. If she does get in contact with you, be sure to let her know that you are interested in something that leads to a relationship (if that's what you want) and don't let her jerk you around emotionally. In the meantime, go out, have fun and don't think about her too much.
if you love her stick to it. she will see soon that you care...
for some reason she's not ready. talk to her or do something sweet to win over her heart. the best thing is to give her time or let her come to u when she's ready
Wow i wish a guy would say things like that to me! awwww. I think she is afraid of commitment, thats why she kept leaving wenever u said something nice. She probably didnt know wat to say back. But in the meantime u should just try not to think about her and give her some time. But if she says no dnt keep going back to her. Respect her decision and leave her alone. U never know she might change her mind and come back 2 u :) That is if she says no in the first place lol
86 the games and have fun
you have 2 choices... shes either playing you.... or shes scared to get hurt
Well I finally came home yesterday to talk to her for 40mins on the phone about everything. I told her that I like her, %26amp; I wanna be that guy who doesn't care if shes in sweats and a tee or whipe her tears whenevr shes sad, %26amp; whenever I said somethin nice she kept sayin brb on the phone %26amp; came bak after 10seconds or so...weird. So basically she said that she wouldnt go back go back 2 her ex ';plus her ex b/f is a player lemme add';. Anyhow, she reiterated that she doesnt wanna be ina relationship %26amp; guys aren't worth it, but I can tell shes hiding her true feelings becuz she always has lovey-dovey pix on her msn display. So is this girl serious, she told me not to call her and she'll email me back in a few days to think bout things. I will give her space, but i feel that i should have fun and not think bout herIn need for advice, Help me please?
girls prefer to talk about relationships via msn/ email it's easier... but i can bet you anything that the day you were talking to her she was asking her girl friends for advice when she sed brb every second! give her space atleast she knows your intentions!
gd luckIn need for advice, Help me please?
dont think about it dude. when you get back, youll know
It sounds like she may not know what she wants. Sometimes a girl will call a guy to herself and then push him back and then call him back again and then push him back and on and on because she doesn't know what she really wants, but she likes the attention the guy gives her. If she's saying that she doesn't want to be in a relationship and you do, then move on. She can get in touch with you and let you know if she changes her mind. If she does get in contact with you, be sure to let her know that you are interested in something that leads to a relationship (if that's what you want) and don't let her jerk you around emotionally. In the meantime, go out, have fun and don't think about her too much.
if you love her stick to it. she will see soon that you care...
for some reason she's not ready. talk to her or do something sweet to win over her heart. the best thing is to give her time or let her come to u when she's ready
Wow i wish a guy would say things like that to me! awwww. I think she is afraid of commitment, thats why she kept leaving wenever u said something nice. She probably didnt know wat to say back. But in the meantime u should just try not to think about her and give her some time. But if she says no dnt keep going back to her. Respect her decision and leave her alone. U never know she might change her mind and come back 2 u :) That is if she says no in the first place lol
86 the games and have fun
you have 2 choices... shes either playing you.... or shes scared to get hurt
I need major advice/help!? pt 2?
Well I did tell him that I was sorry and he accepted but not until after i called his cell and started bawling on the phone. I cant call him bc im deaf and i can leave him a voice mail. I didnt really know what to say. He dont live alone and he always has to give his grandma 400 bucks for rent which is bull bc thats almost all of his money. Ive never had a relationship where i was so sad bc i couldnt see my bf but i love this guy to death. He means a lot to me. I need a way to not get so angry with him bc im gonna screw up. He always says im the ONLY one for him n i believe him til i get pissed off at him. For those of u who are wonderin what this is about check out I need major advice/help!?
I need someone to tell me how to keep my cool when im talkin to him on here bc its not easy i get angry so easy and sometimes want to harm myself.I need major advice/help!? pt 2?
you need to CALM DOWN. sure, its hard for an adolescent to control their feelings that are mostly controlled by their raging hormones - no matter your gender! i hope that you can realize that seeing someone everyday can really jeapordize a relationship and make it much harder to keep it fresh and enjoyable. dont feel that its his fault he cant see u...unless u have reasoning leading to thinking that way. i would also give it some thought that if hes living with his grandma, he has to help support the household. plus...it sucks, but guys lie. it hurts and its horrible...but guys are very vindictive and secretive at times to get what they want. they say what you want to hear and so on...trust me i had a boyfriend for five years...(my high school boyfriend who i am currently pregnant to who left me!!) that i thought was mr. right. we spent every waking moment together but there was constantly excuses on why he had no money...he gave it all to his parents to help with this and that and he said he had his own car, but it was his parents thus controlling his life until he was 20 and i fell for it when we were younger but BAM...you just realize all the bad stuff after the fact...i mean, i could be wrong, but i would protect myself before letting all this get to you so badly. being so emotional is n ot going to help a guy to answer his phone - trust me, i also have first hand knowledge with this. guys run away from relationships that are like this...they feel controlled, trapped...and while they might come around in a few days, hours or minutes, they hold it against what they feel for you because its something they are not okay with dealing with.have you ever thought he wasnt the right one for you? there are so many guys out there...and so much time in this world to find the right one. it sounds cliche, but being young and thinking every boyfriend you have is ';the one'; til something bad happens is natural...please keep this in mind and be rational.I need major advice/help!? pt 2?
damn, just chillll stop getting mad, find something that makes you calm or releases your anger first
be calm. develop positive thinking. happy and enjoy.
easy going best way.
we should not have to read the first part in order to understand your question.
You need anger management.
I need someone to tell me how to keep my cool when im talkin to him on here bc its not easy i get angry so easy and sometimes want to harm myself.I need major advice/help!? pt 2?
you need to CALM DOWN. sure, its hard for an adolescent to control their feelings that are mostly controlled by their raging hormones - no matter your gender! i hope that you can realize that seeing someone everyday can really jeapordize a relationship and make it much harder to keep it fresh and enjoyable. dont feel that its his fault he cant see u...unless u have reasoning leading to thinking that way. i would also give it some thought that if hes living with his grandma, he has to help support the household. plus...it sucks, but guys lie. it hurts and its horrible...but guys are very vindictive and secretive at times to get what they want. they say what you want to hear and so on...trust me i had a boyfriend for five years...(my high school boyfriend who i am currently pregnant to who left me!!) that i thought was mr. right. we spent every waking moment together but there was constantly excuses on why he had no money...he gave it all to his parents to help with this and that and he said he had his own car, but it was his parents thus controlling his life until he was 20 and i fell for it when we were younger but BAM...you just realize all the bad stuff after the fact...i mean, i could be wrong, but i would protect myself before letting all this get to you so badly. being so emotional is n ot going to help a guy to answer his phone - trust me, i also have first hand knowledge with this. guys run away from relationships that are like this...they feel controlled, trapped...and while they might come around in a few days, hours or minutes, they hold it against what they feel for you because its something they are not okay with dealing with.have you ever thought he wasnt the right one for you? there are so many guys out there...and so much time in this world to find the right one. it sounds cliche, but being young and thinking every boyfriend you have is ';the one'; til something bad happens is natural...please keep this in mind and be rational.I need major advice/help!? pt 2?
damn, just chillll stop getting mad, find something that makes you calm or releases your anger first
be calm. develop positive thinking. happy and enjoy.
easy going best way.
we should not have to read the first part in order to understand your question.
You need anger management.
HEPA LAW QUESTION ....Advice & Help, please.?
A few months ago, my husband and I took our 2 year old daughter to the local ER. Because we couldn't get a sitter,
we brought our 3 year old, as well. The registration desk only asked my husband to sign our daughter in. He did. Normally, that wouldn't have been a problem. However, the hospital did not record any of the information off our insurance cards. So,
several bills arrived in my daughter's name. I opened them and called the places to provide them with insurance info.
They wouldn't even talk to me or take the information to bill
the insurance because I wasn't my daughter. I explained that she is only 2 and a half years old. They still wouldn't do anything because of the HEPA Law. I went back there and showed them her birth certificate and my photo id and the insurace info, still they said they couldn't discuss anything with me. Ideas or advice on what to do, please?HEPA LAW QUESTION ....Advice %26amp; Help, please.?
Sounds like something got transposed on her paperwork that is not reflecting her age.
I would suggest calling the billing department, again explaining the problem. If they do not answer our question ask to speak to the head of the department or departmental manager. HIPPA Laws are a bite on the butt for health care - they are great for protecting privacy, but when an error occurs they make it a nightmare to correct because of not releasing information. Be calm, and work your way up the chaing. You know there is an error, but the person on the other end of the phone opr across the counter has been confronted by numerous people over the years who were not always as honest.HEPA LAW QUESTION ....Advice %26amp; Help, please.?
Get the hospital financial office on the line and explain it to them; and probaby have to get the hospital administrative office on the line as well. The front desk is not the answer.
Its HIPPA, and that sounds like something the insurance companies pull. The hospital needs to resubmit the claims with you listed as the policyholder and her as a dependent, or have your husband call the insurance company.
I WOULD CALL AND ASK FOR A MANAGER-THEN I WOULD EXPLANE TO THEM THAT YOUR DAUGHTER IS 2. IF THEY GIVE YOU A HARD TIME, WELL HAND THE PHONE TO YOUR DAUGHTER! (LOL) GOOD LUCK-I WOULD CALL EVERYDAY TO GET THIS RESOLVED. ALSO-THE HIPPA LAW WILL ALLOW THE PARENT ACCESS TO INFORMATION IF THE PATIENT IS A MINOR.
As with many businesses today, insurance, credit cards, banks, credit unions, and the medical area, many of the ';normal'; practices don't work anymore UNLESS they talk to the owner/holder/name of record. Simply have your husband call with the information, since he signed her in.
we brought our 3 year old, as well. The registration desk only asked my husband to sign our daughter in. He did. Normally, that wouldn't have been a problem. However, the hospital did not record any of the information off our insurance cards. So,
several bills arrived in my daughter's name. I opened them and called the places to provide them with insurance info.
They wouldn't even talk to me or take the information to bill
the insurance because I wasn't my daughter. I explained that she is only 2 and a half years old. They still wouldn't do anything because of the HEPA Law. I went back there and showed them her birth certificate and my photo id and the insurace info, still they said they couldn't discuss anything with me. Ideas or advice on what to do, please?HEPA LAW QUESTION ....Advice %26amp; Help, please.?
Sounds like something got transposed on her paperwork that is not reflecting her age.
I would suggest calling the billing department, again explaining the problem. If they do not answer our question ask to speak to the head of the department or departmental manager. HIPPA Laws are a bite on the butt for health care - they are great for protecting privacy, but when an error occurs they make it a nightmare to correct because of not releasing information. Be calm, and work your way up the chaing. You know there is an error, but the person on the other end of the phone opr across the counter has been confronted by numerous people over the years who were not always as honest.HEPA LAW QUESTION ....Advice %26amp; Help, please.?
Get the hospital financial office on the line and explain it to them; and probaby have to get the hospital administrative office on the line as well. The front desk is not the answer.
Its HIPPA, and that sounds like something the insurance companies pull. The hospital needs to resubmit the claims with you listed as the policyholder and her as a dependent, or have your husband call the insurance company.
I WOULD CALL AND ASK FOR A MANAGER-THEN I WOULD EXPLANE TO THEM THAT YOUR DAUGHTER IS 2. IF THEY GIVE YOU A HARD TIME, WELL HAND THE PHONE TO YOUR DAUGHTER! (LOL) GOOD LUCK-I WOULD CALL EVERYDAY TO GET THIS RESOLVED. ALSO-THE HIPPA LAW WILL ALLOW THE PARENT ACCESS TO INFORMATION IF THE PATIENT IS A MINOR.
As with many businesses today, insurance, credit cards, banks, credit unions, and the medical area, many of the ';normal'; practices don't work anymore UNLESS they talk to the owner/holder/name of record. Simply have your husband call with the information, since he signed her in.
My friend needs help with his small package. Lets call him Mr. Inal. What kind of advice can i give?
So he's always complaining even after putting it in all the way his girl doesnt realize its in there.My friend needs help with his small package. Lets call him Mr. Inal. What kind of advice can i give?
Ouchhhh...
that hurts man.
Uhm well there is really nothing he can do about it it was how he was born.
Maybe he can take those enlargment pills or something?!My friend needs help with his small package. Lets call him Mr. Inal. What kind of advice can i give?
First off, even if it you don't everyones gunna think you actually have a small penis. But anywho there is no advice?? this question is stupid ';uh durr grow it bigger cuz its so possible'; jeez.
Ouchhhh...
that hurts man.
Uhm well there is really nothing he can do about it it was how he was born.
Maybe he can take those enlargment pills or something?!My friend needs help with his small package. Lets call him Mr. Inal. What kind of advice can i give?
First off, even if it you don't everyones gunna think you actually have a small penis. But anywho there is no advice?? this question is stupid ';uh durr grow it bigger cuz its so possible'; jeez.
South Asian(American Indian needs some SEX advice) HELP?
I am a south Asian (Muslim Indian) woman, and I am dating this person who is Indian also, for the past 2 months. He is 35 and I am 28, we both have children of our own, and we both have had arrange marriages that ended up in a divorce. We both have been born and raised here in the states, never went back to our homeland.(we are considered, American Indians).We connect a lot and have spoke about everything and anything. My question is – how long to wait on the safe side to have sex, when you are in a serious relationship. We both are very much physically attracted and try to stay in an environment with lots of people surrounding us. But, the temptation still lies. At times – I know when we kiss goodnight; it can lead to other things if one of us doesn’t pull back. (I want to get intimate, but then again, I feel we should wait). And plus, we come from this part of the world that, intimacy is done after marriage (but we are grown adults – who have had a previous marriage), how will it look, if I try to “seduce him” (coz he says that “I turn him on”). Should I wait 6 months or just get wild and crazy with him (to be honest – I have not had any intimacy for about 2-3 yrs (just waiting for someone I want to love to share this with). How will I look in his eyes – if we just get physical? Thank you all…South Asian(American Indian needs some SEX advice) HELP?
If he is very conservative, he might not respect you after you get intimate. If he is not, he will think it is normal. You should talk to him about your expectations and his -- do you think marriage is an option? If all you want is some physical intimacy but no long term relationship, you might be in a different position than he is, and you should work it out between you.South Asian(American Indian needs some SEX advice) HELP?
No dint get wild %26amp; crazy but then again dont just leave him hangin you two are adults you should watch a movie or something you can still cuddle and if it leads to different things then let it be because you are a grown womann you should let faith take its course it is a big difference between making love and having sex you are the creator help choose your destineny take the path of love and not sex
God bless
Wait till you get married before you have sex. I know its hard not to even after being married before but it will be worth the wait.God made sex a Gift from Him to have with your spouse,not to have when you want it.Like i said it will be tough but it will make it worth the wait. God will help you through this too if you let him,just give it time.God bless and good luck on the marrage.
it seems that you have connected, and i think moving on to the next level is the right thing to do, as long as your ready to do it with him. it doesn't matter what other people say. do what you feel is right.
You need to talk to to him about all of this. And this IS America, so people aren't going to judge you for sexual relationships. You're both adults, and you, at least, seem to have your head on straight, so talk to him about it. After all, it's him your'e going to be having the sexual relationship with, not your friends, and not your family members. Ask him if he would like to make the first move, or if he would like for YOU to be the one to make the first move. Good luck
If you want intimacy, whats the problem? Do you fear loosing him? Do you fear he may use you? Dont feel like that, since even if he leaves you. He has not used you, in fact you used him.
Why you dont want to marry him, if that bothers you to make love. Answer lies in your question. If you turn him on and he is not lying you are for him and he may not leave you. You can guess him genuineness better than anybody. In short go ahead and have fun. You have already lost 2/3 yrs in your life. But be safe at the same time. All the best dear.
it will happen when it happens just set the mood
I advise that you communicate openly with him about this. Your better off both having an open understanding of the others values, desires, and needs than to both being cloaked and sneaky and trying to figure each other out.
Two months isn't very long to know someone, but you have both been married previously, so the urges are there big time for you. If you want to get wild %26amp; crazy with him, go for it. Enjoy each other. Congrats!
Lie you say,,,,you are both grown adults and I say go ahead and get wild and crazy and seduce him with all you got. have a ball giving him a good time
Talk with him about it. Come to a mutual understanding of what you are looking for and what he is looking for. Since the two of you have had marriages and children then there is no need to prolong the courtship. If the two of you really care about each other and want a relationship then everything will fall in place. Good Luck!
What is holding you up? I can't believe you are asking this after 2-3 yrs with no sex...growth up.
if at all you feel you should wait, then do so... ...part of falling in love is the initial chase of the relationship......just enjoy the time you are spending right now.. ...eventually there will come a moment when the both of you will have no doubts and no body will pull away from the good night kiss.. ...that's when you know its time for more.. ...dint spend too much time worrying about it for now because it only takes away from enjoying all the pleasures of dating that you are experiencing now...
You are Muslim. So your Koran should be your guide. But since you live in America and have been married before. 2 months in a relationship is far too early to get to know each other well. Go ahead sleep with him when both of you feel it is the right time. Rely on your instincts.
drop your pants and ask him if he wants some - this is classic advice
Hey rani, dont even think about it all.
Let the body do what it has to do.
Do not interfere!!!!
The mind is always a nuisance. It will always try to make u feel guilty after.
So be free. No judgements!!!maybelline
If he is very conservative, he might not respect you after you get intimate. If he is not, he will think it is normal. You should talk to him about your expectations and his -- do you think marriage is an option? If all you want is some physical intimacy but no long term relationship, you might be in a different position than he is, and you should work it out between you.South Asian(American Indian needs some SEX advice) HELP?
No dint get wild %26amp; crazy but then again dont just leave him hangin you two are adults you should watch a movie or something you can still cuddle and if it leads to different things then let it be because you are a grown womann you should let faith take its course it is a big difference between making love and having sex you are the creator help choose your destineny take the path of love and not sex
God bless
Wait till you get married before you have sex. I know its hard not to even after being married before but it will be worth the wait.God made sex a Gift from Him to have with your spouse,not to have when you want it.Like i said it will be tough but it will make it worth the wait. God will help you through this too if you let him,just give it time.God bless and good luck on the marrage.
it seems that you have connected, and i think moving on to the next level is the right thing to do, as long as your ready to do it with him. it doesn't matter what other people say. do what you feel is right.
You need to talk to to him about all of this. And this IS America, so people aren't going to judge you for sexual relationships. You're both adults, and you, at least, seem to have your head on straight, so talk to him about it. After all, it's him your'e going to be having the sexual relationship with, not your friends, and not your family members. Ask him if he would like to make the first move, or if he would like for YOU to be the one to make the first move. Good luck
If you want intimacy, whats the problem? Do you fear loosing him? Do you fear he may use you? Dont feel like that, since even if he leaves you. He has not used you, in fact you used him.
Why you dont want to marry him, if that bothers you to make love. Answer lies in your question. If you turn him on and he is not lying you are for him and he may not leave you. You can guess him genuineness better than anybody. In short go ahead and have fun. You have already lost 2/3 yrs in your life. But be safe at the same time. All the best dear.
it will happen when it happens just set the mood
I advise that you communicate openly with him about this. Your better off both having an open understanding of the others values, desires, and needs than to both being cloaked and sneaky and trying to figure each other out.
Two months isn't very long to know someone, but you have both been married previously, so the urges are there big time for you. If you want to get wild %26amp; crazy with him, go for it. Enjoy each other. Congrats!
Lie you say,,,,you are both grown adults and I say go ahead and get wild and crazy and seduce him with all you got. have a ball giving him a good time
Talk with him about it. Come to a mutual understanding of what you are looking for and what he is looking for. Since the two of you have had marriages and children then there is no need to prolong the courtship. If the two of you really care about each other and want a relationship then everything will fall in place. Good Luck!
What is holding you up? I can't believe you are asking this after 2-3 yrs with no sex...growth up.
if at all you feel you should wait, then do so... ...part of falling in love is the initial chase of the relationship......just enjoy the time you are spending right now.. ...eventually there will come a moment when the both of you will have no doubts and no body will pull away from the good night kiss.. ...that's when you know its time for more.. ...dint spend too much time worrying about it for now because it only takes away from enjoying all the pleasures of dating that you are experiencing now...
You are Muslim. So your Koran should be your guide. But since you live in America and have been married before. 2 months in a relationship is far too early to get to know each other well. Go ahead sleep with him when both of you feel it is the right time. Rely on your instincts.
drop your pants and ask him if he wants some - this is classic advice
Hey rani, dont even think about it all.
Let the body do what it has to do.
Do not interfere!!!!
The mind is always a nuisance. It will always try to make u feel guilty after.
So be free. No judgements!!!
I need urgent Advice!!!!!HELP!!!?
ok I need some help. alright I want to take my girlfriend on a weekend out with my parents but I dont know how this is going to happen becuase her parents dont know we are BF %26amp; GF. I have never met her parents and I dont know how i am going to convince them to let her go with us. I need help. oh yeah we are only 15.I need urgent Advice!!!!!HELP!!!?
Well you should have her and your parents have dinner or somethingI need urgent Advice!!!!!HELP!!!?
wait a little longer ur still young to be alone maybe a movie or sumthin hope it goes good
:) good luck
Well you should have her and your parents have dinner or somethingI need urgent Advice!!!!!HELP!!!?
wait a little longer ur still young to be alone maybe a movie or sumthin hope it goes good
:) good luck
Looking for Financial Advice/Help?
I was hoping that someone might be able to help me out. I am trying to figure out how to resolve $74,000.00 in debt. This exists due to the fact that my husband is a compulsive spender and has strong armed me into purchases that didn't need to be made. He works full time and has been working overtime from his job when it is available to try to make ends meet. I have run my own home-based daycare for two years now taking care of everyone else's chidlren but I currently only care for one child every other week. I have also been looking for something more stable. Any ideas/suggestions/help that you can lend would be sooo greatly appreciated!
Thanks sooo much for your time and assistance! You are all true angels!
P.S. We have completely stopped making ALL unnecessary purchases but we are at a point where affording food and gas are a joke!Looking for Financial Advice/Help?
Honestly this may sound harsh. I think it's time for you to put your buisness in the can for a while and find a full time job somewhere else. Try call centre work, cashier work, or even a waitress job. Your going to need a FULL time job to get that debt down and i'm pretty sure that you don't want to claim bankruptcy over 74,000.00. You can pay it off, but you really need to start putting in the same hours as your husband. If food is a problem, try calling a food bank and get some food for free (I know that sounds bad, but they really can help out and sometimes they give out ALOT of food) It sounds like you got some great people skills to take care of children. Try getting a nanny job or a housecleaning job for full time... sometimes you can get a higher paying job because most people don't want this type of position. I hope this helps and remember, procrastination is evil. Just do it cause in the end you'll be kicking yourself if you don't.Looking for Financial Advice/Help?
Try to call a loan agency
I don't think you are going to find the help you need on here. Pick up your phone and make an appointment with a financial advisor. They will be able to help you sort through your expenses and income and may even be able to reduce some of your debt. Best of all, the first visit is usually free. If this isn't possible, then I would sit down and right a letter to ALL of the people I owe money too: house, car, credit cards, student loans...whatever it is and see if they can help some kind of way. Explain in the letter what you are asking and why you are asking. I would also follow the letter up with a phone call,. Before you write the letters I would sit down and write down all of my expenses and my current income; then try to figure out a reasonable payment amount that you can offer them in the letter. You won't know until you try and they would much rather you try then to just not pay. Definitely getting you a full time job would greatly help. Even it is at a department store or something, and since the holidays are coming up they will be able to offer you overtime galore. Good Luck to you! Don't give up!
That is pretty steep debt. My husband and I were in some pretty serious debt but were thankfully able to get out. I am not sure how good your credit is or I would suggest surfing your credit cards with higher rates onto 0% interest rates. I would suggest contacting a debt consolidation company....there are some that are helpful in getting your bills paid along with your debt where you can afford it...http://www.careonecredit.com/Landings/La鈥?/a> is one that i hear about that is great..
Good luck to you!
Thanks sooo much for your time and assistance! You are all true angels!
P.S. We have completely stopped making ALL unnecessary purchases but we are at a point where affording food and gas are a joke!Looking for Financial Advice/Help?
Honestly this may sound harsh. I think it's time for you to put your buisness in the can for a while and find a full time job somewhere else. Try call centre work, cashier work, or even a waitress job. Your going to need a FULL time job to get that debt down and i'm pretty sure that you don't want to claim bankruptcy over 74,000.00. You can pay it off, but you really need to start putting in the same hours as your husband. If food is a problem, try calling a food bank and get some food for free (I know that sounds bad, but they really can help out and sometimes they give out ALOT of food) It sounds like you got some great people skills to take care of children. Try getting a nanny job or a housecleaning job for full time... sometimes you can get a higher paying job because most people don't want this type of position. I hope this helps and remember, procrastination is evil. Just do it cause in the end you'll be kicking yourself if you don't.Looking for Financial Advice/Help?
Try to call a loan agency
I don't think you are going to find the help you need on here. Pick up your phone and make an appointment with a financial advisor. They will be able to help you sort through your expenses and income and may even be able to reduce some of your debt. Best of all, the first visit is usually free. If this isn't possible, then I would sit down and right a letter to ALL of the people I owe money too: house, car, credit cards, student loans...whatever it is and see if they can help some kind of way. Explain in the letter what you are asking and why you are asking. I would also follow the letter up with a phone call,. Before you write the letters I would sit down and write down all of my expenses and my current income; then try to figure out a reasonable payment amount that you can offer them in the letter. You won't know until you try and they would much rather you try then to just not pay. Definitely getting you a full time job would greatly help. Even it is at a department store or something, and since the holidays are coming up they will be able to offer you overtime galore. Good Luck to you! Don't give up!
That is pretty steep debt. My husband and I were in some pretty serious debt but were thankfully able to get out. I am not sure how good your credit is or I would suggest surfing your credit cards with higher rates onto 0% interest rates. I would suggest contacting a debt consolidation company....there are some that are helpful in getting your bills paid along with your debt where you can afford it...http://www.careonecredit.com/Landings/La鈥?/a> is one that i hear about that is great..
Good luck to you!
I need some advice ..........Help!?
Me and my Husband have been together for about 7 years and married for 8 months. I don't want to be with him any more I love him to death but we are always arguing.(There isn't anyone else in my life).What should I do I really don't want a divorce.I need some advice ..........Help!?
Seek counseling. What people tell you on here isn't going to make a difference in your real situation and only a professional can see your real problems and give you resolutions. You still love him %26amp; that's the thing to work everything else off of. Always remember that a marriage is much like being on a team... you both have strengths and weaknesses and if you can improve on his weaknesses and congratulate his strengths and he does the same for you, then you will always win. Good Luck.I need some advice ..........Help!?
Marriage is about compromises not constantly butting heads. If neither of you is willing to compromise with each other, the fighting will continue and issues will never be resolved.
Go on Dr.Phil
I knew my husband for 9 years before we were married. Once we were married, all things changed. It always does. Your whole life has changed. You have to get to REALLY know each other. The first 5 years were the hardest for us. But, we worked it out. You have to learn not to argue or ';sweat'; about the small stuff. It just takes time, trust me, we have been married for 18 years. It gets better. You have to stick it out, YOU LOVE HIM, you really dont want a divorce. It's not the solution. Good luck, just stick it out. Its all apart of marriage, it is truly a journey!!
I don't think you should get a divorce! You have been together to long to trow all those years behind. tell him how you feel without gettin aggressive. Try even living apart. Too much time together could get each other annoyed.
well talk to him and make him laugh, ask him if u guys can go to dinner he'll be romantic. but if ur always arguing try to stop it by making dinner it's always a start and all i'm saying is all the little things count
It really depends on what you are fighting about. if it is little stupid things, well then that can be worked out. But if it is big things like trust issues, cheating etc. well those things to me can never be worked out no matter if the person says they forgive you etc. You also have to really sit and think about this and really know in your heart and mind that this is what you want. because divorce is a big thing. if you love him and its not something like cheating, trust issues or abusive either verbal abuse or physical abuse.then I would stay and work it out because marriage could be a beautiful thing but you both have to work at it together. everyday isn't going to be perfect but as long as you two are still together at the end of the day that is all that matters. so think this through long and hard and make sure that this is what you want to do. i divorced my husband last year because he was verbally abusive as well as physically. I left him 3 wks after we got married.
Is it because of the arguing? Was it like that before you married him? If not talk to him about it. Talking to him may open up the problem.
maybe you should try seperating. thats what me and my other half did.
wow, u would think after 7 yrs u would have know , but now u 2 r married , what kept u in this long if didn't wan't to be with him , if u love him and he loves u then u would want to be with him , i don't see how this adds up as for the argueing that can be fixed if u both truly love each other...
You should stick it out you made a commitment to him and you owe it to him to try to work it out.
the first year is always the hardest no matter how long you were together before you got married. i started having problems with my ex about 5-6 monthes after the wedding. i thought that since we had been together for 9 years befoe we got married that it was ment to be. the fighting got worse when we bought a house. then about starting a family. in my case getting divorsed was the right thing to do. it was embarrasing, heart breaking (i still loved him) and horrible for my selfesteem. but through it all i must tell you that i found my true love and life has never been better!
Seek counseling. What people tell you on here isn't going to make a difference in your real situation and only a professional can see your real problems and give you resolutions. You still love him %26amp; that's the thing to work everything else off of. Always remember that a marriage is much like being on a team... you both have strengths and weaknesses and if you can improve on his weaknesses and congratulate his strengths and he does the same for you, then you will always win. Good Luck.I need some advice ..........Help!?
Marriage is about compromises not constantly butting heads. If neither of you is willing to compromise with each other, the fighting will continue and issues will never be resolved.
Go on Dr.Phil
I knew my husband for 9 years before we were married. Once we were married, all things changed. It always does. Your whole life has changed. You have to get to REALLY know each other. The first 5 years were the hardest for us. But, we worked it out. You have to learn not to argue or ';sweat'; about the small stuff. It just takes time, trust me, we have been married for 18 years. It gets better. You have to stick it out, YOU LOVE HIM, you really dont want a divorce. It's not the solution. Good luck, just stick it out. Its all apart of marriage, it is truly a journey!!
I don't think you should get a divorce! You have been together to long to trow all those years behind. tell him how you feel without gettin aggressive. Try even living apart. Too much time together could get each other annoyed.
well talk to him and make him laugh, ask him if u guys can go to dinner he'll be romantic. but if ur always arguing try to stop it by making dinner it's always a start and all i'm saying is all the little things count
It really depends on what you are fighting about. if it is little stupid things, well then that can be worked out. But if it is big things like trust issues, cheating etc. well those things to me can never be worked out no matter if the person says they forgive you etc. You also have to really sit and think about this and really know in your heart and mind that this is what you want. because divorce is a big thing. if you love him and its not something like cheating, trust issues or abusive either verbal abuse or physical abuse.then I would stay and work it out because marriage could be a beautiful thing but you both have to work at it together. everyday isn't going to be perfect but as long as you two are still together at the end of the day that is all that matters. so think this through long and hard and make sure that this is what you want to do. i divorced my husband last year because he was verbally abusive as well as physically. I left him 3 wks after we got married.
Is it because of the arguing? Was it like that before you married him? If not talk to him about it. Talking to him may open up the problem.
maybe you should try seperating. thats what me and my other half did.
wow, u would think after 7 yrs u would have know , but now u 2 r married , what kept u in this long if didn't wan't to be with him , if u love him and he loves u then u would want to be with him , i don't see how this adds up as for the argueing that can be fixed if u both truly love each other...
You should stick it out you made a commitment to him and you owe it to him to try to work it out.
the first year is always the hardest no matter how long you were together before you got married. i started having problems with my ex about 5-6 monthes after the wedding. i thought that since we had been together for 9 years befoe we got married that it was ment to be. the fighting got worse when we bought a house. then about starting a family. in my case getting divorsed was the right thing to do. it was embarrasing, heart breaking (i still loved him) and horrible for my selfesteem. but through it all i must tell you that i found my true love and life has never been better!
I need some advice, help me please?
so this guy in my class likes me and i do NOT like him like that because A.) hes my friends B.) i like his best friend. Well he asked me out and I don't know what to say? I mena this guy really likes me and when i say no and he asks why what do i tell him? Sorry i dont you like that can you hook me up with your friend? Any advice please and thank you!I need some advice, help me please?
The BEST thing you can do here is be honest. You dont want any enemies or lie about why you dont want to hook up with him. If you tell him the truth, he may help you hook up with his friend. Also, you dont want to hurt him tell him stuff you do like about him and who else he likes, maybe you can hook him up with one of your friends.I need some advice, help me please?
Well I know how it feels to be in a sticky situation but you just have to tell him that you are not in to him like you are into his friend,not in a mean way,but in a way that he will get the message.
The BEST thing you can do here is be honest. You dont want any enemies or lie about why you dont want to hook up with him. If you tell him the truth, he may help you hook up with his friend. Also, you dont want to hurt him tell him stuff you do like about him and who else he likes, maybe you can hook him up with one of your friends.I need some advice, help me please?
Well I know how it feels to be in a sticky situation but you just have to tell him that you are not in to him like you are into his friend,not in a mean way,but in a way that he will get the message.
I need twilight advice!!!!!!!!!! HELP!!?
okay so i have watched twilight and i don't want to wait till new moon comes out on DVD so does anyone recommend i should read the book twilight then new moon or should i just read new moon?and hoe does the series of twilight go. im pretty positive that it goes
Twilight
New Moon
Eclipse
then
Breaking dawnI need twilight advice!!!!!!!!!! HELP!!?
yep its
Twilight
New Moon
Eclipse
then
Breaking dawn
and you should definitly read twilight and new moon now. and by the way the movie is good but NOTHING like the bookI need twilight advice!!!!!!!!!! HELP!!?
you got the order right but i would recommend to read the books because the movie cuts about half the book. And I personally prefer the books.
Do NOT skip any of the books! I personally think the books are too amazing to be skipped. Plus the movie doesn't mention even half of the things in the book!
Twilight
New Moon
Eclipse
then
Breaking dawnI need twilight advice!!!!!!!!!! HELP!!?
yep its
Twilight
New Moon
Eclipse
then
Breaking dawn
and you should definitly read twilight and new moon now. and by the way the movie is good but NOTHING like the bookI need twilight advice!!!!!!!!!! HELP!!?
you got the order right but i would recommend to read the books because the movie cuts about half the book. And I personally prefer the books.
Do NOT skip any of the books! I personally think the books are too amazing to be skipped. Plus the movie doesn't mention even half of the things in the book!
Late bridal shower advice??? HELP!!!!?
My best friend got married on short notice this last New Years. I was the Maid of Honor. Her and I talked and decided that with only a few weeks till the wedding there wouldn't be much time for a bridal shower and didn't do one. I didn't do one after, because as far as I knew, you don't throw it after the wedding. Now, 8 months later, the moms have decided to throw a bridal shower. But now as the Maid of Honor I feel really guilty that they feel like they have to throw one becuase I didnt. They have already planned time date and place for the shower. I was going to call the moms and ask to help out but feel so bad. Any advise? Should I feel guilty since the bride and I had talked about this? Any advice on how to handle this situation? I just don't know the ettiqute on weddings and showers at all. This was my first time being MOH or even going to a wedding.Late bridal shower advice??? HELP!!!!?
They apparently didn't consult an ettiquette book, because it is very uncalled for to throw a shower 8 months after a wedding. I'd call and offer my assistance, but nothing else. I wouldn't want my name as a host of that shower.Late bridal shower advice??? HELP!!!!?
Maybe I don't know about etiquette either, as I have never heard of having a bridal shower after the wedding... and I've been on the planet a while. Don't feel guilty about it, but it might not hurt to just ask if you can help out with anything.
It is bizarre and in truly bad taste to have a wedding shower after the wedding. What are they thinking?
My advice is to drop the issue like a hot potato.
Those families are being totally improper in having a shower for someone who is already married, AND showers are not supposed to be hosted by family members-- so they are exhibiting bad manners on both counts.
A shower is not required for any bride. It is totally optional. In addition, she got married on short notice, which means even less time to have a shower.
Clearly her families have no sense of etiquette and are throwing this tacky gift-grab cluelessly. I can't believe people have so little sense in this day and age.
This is SOOOOOO not your problem. It's theirs.
You should go to www.slumberparties.com and have a belated bachelorette-like party. it's really fun i just had one a while ago and had a blast!
yup
Please quit beating yourself up....Call the Moms and ask if you can help, and explain just what you did here, and I know they would be happy for the help. Ettiqute and responsibilities of the Maid of honor seems to change everytime you read a new article in a bridal magazine. If the bride is not mad at you, then don't worry about it. My daughter just got married, and honey, and we are still recovering from all the stress and worries. I am sure, that as the Mother of the bride, I forgot plenty, as a matter of fact, I didn't get the announcement in the papers, tell me about getting some rude comments, Just ask if you can help, and explain that this was your first time going to a wedding-much less being honored by named Maid of honor...Mom's are usally very understanding people. I am anyways.....If you get a negative response, then you and the girls take your friend out for a girl's night out, and chalk it for experience. If it was a big deal one of mothers could have asked your plans, knowing you didn't have any experience with weddings..so it's their fault too!!!!! lol
God bless us all.............
I am sorry but being maid of honor does NOT require you to host a bridal shower. It's a nice thing to do but not required. I also really do not think bridal showers should be held after the wedding takes place. Perhaps the moms should visit www.etiquettehell.com themselves. It's should be something like a house warming party NOT a bridal shower and you should not feel guilty.
I agree a slumber party with the girls would be nice but I would not consult the moms at all.
Don't sweat it. If you cleared it with the bride then its fine. Offer to host a house warming for her, or even a girls night out. Remember that just because she's married she doesn't enjoy being with her friends. I've only been married a little over a year and my girlfriends and I try to get together once a month or so...try starting a new tradition for her and her best buds.
Get an etiquette book.maybelline
They apparently didn't consult an ettiquette book, because it is very uncalled for to throw a shower 8 months after a wedding. I'd call and offer my assistance, but nothing else. I wouldn't want my name as a host of that shower.Late bridal shower advice??? HELP!!!!?
Maybe I don't know about etiquette either, as I have never heard of having a bridal shower after the wedding... and I've been on the planet a while. Don't feel guilty about it, but it might not hurt to just ask if you can help out with anything.
It is bizarre and in truly bad taste to have a wedding shower after the wedding. What are they thinking?
My advice is to drop the issue like a hot potato.
Those families are being totally improper in having a shower for someone who is already married, AND showers are not supposed to be hosted by family members-- so they are exhibiting bad manners on both counts.
A shower is not required for any bride. It is totally optional. In addition, she got married on short notice, which means even less time to have a shower.
Clearly her families have no sense of etiquette and are throwing this tacky gift-grab cluelessly. I can't believe people have so little sense in this day and age.
This is SOOOOOO not your problem. It's theirs.
You should go to www.slumberparties.com and have a belated bachelorette-like party. it's really fun i just had one a while ago and had a blast!
yup
Please quit beating yourself up....Call the Moms and ask if you can help, and explain just what you did here, and I know they would be happy for the help. Ettiqute and responsibilities of the Maid of honor seems to change everytime you read a new article in a bridal magazine. If the bride is not mad at you, then don't worry about it. My daughter just got married, and honey, and we are still recovering from all the stress and worries. I am sure, that as the Mother of the bride, I forgot plenty, as a matter of fact, I didn't get the announcement in the papers, tell me about getting some rude comments, Just ask if you can help, and explain that this was your first time going to a wedding-much less being honored by named Maid of honor...Mom's are usally very understanding people. I am anyways.....If you get a negative response, then you and the girls take your friend out for a girl's night out, and chalk it for experience. If it was a big deal one of mothers could have asked your plans, knowing you didn't have any experience with weddings..so it's their fault too!!!!! lol
God bless us all.............
I am sorry but being maid of honor does NOT require you to host a bridal shower. It's a nice thing to do but not required. I also really do not think bridal showers should be held after the wedding takes place. Perhaps the moms should visit www.etiquettehell.com themselves. It's should be something like a house warming party NOT a bridal shower and you should not feel guilty.
I agree a slumber party with the girls would be nice but I would not consult the moms at all.
Don't sweat it. If you cleared it with the bride then its fine. Offer to host a house warming for her, or even a girls night out. Remember that just because she's married she doesn't enjoy being with her friends. I've only been married a little over a year and my girlfriends and I try to get together once a month or so...try starting a new tradition for her and her best buds.
Get an etiquette book.
RAF aptitude test advice/help?
ok i went to the careers office completed my appplication and now I have to go back for a test, they gave me a practice paper and i got 36/46 is that good or bad ?
i have applied for avionics electrical so does anyone no what the pass requierment wil beRAF aptitude test advice/help?
The questions themselves are not that hard, basic math, problem solving some language and spatial awareness. It's the time you are given, which is very little, that makes the test tricky. What you need to do is time yourself doing the test and then try and beat it. Once you have done that (doing the same test over and over is no good because you will get to know the questions), get on the internet and look for IQ tests and do as many of these as possible and more importantly as quickly as possible and see what your score will be then. Ideally you need to aim for 140+. You have to train your brain to think quickly (it is like a muscle after all) and also under pressure, as you are going to be nervous and stressed when you do the test for real, as well as not knowing what the questions are or what format they will be in.
If it all goes wrong though you do have a second chance to improve your score.
Also after the test you will have a final interview, to see if you have the right attitude to be allowed into the service, for instance if you have BNP tattooed across your forehead then I don't think you would have made it past the door. You will need to know a basic idea of what鈥檚 going on in the world, as we are an international organisation, know where British forces are serving around the world (apart from Iraq and Afghanistan obviously), find out what your job will entail in your chosen trade (aircraft avionics). If you don't know the answer to a question don't waffle on just say I鈥檓 afraid I don't have an answer for that right now but I鈥檒l find out and get back to you, or something like. The person asking the questions will already know the answer he/she just wants to see how you handle yourself, whether you just waffle or give a composed decisive answer which will show you have confidence in yourself etc.
It is at the end of the day just a job interview, try not to get too worked up over it, also its ten years since I did my aptitude test but I think the score for aircraft trades is 37+, so get some training in.RAF aptitude test advice/help?
-10 marks maybe all right but you really have to push yourself to get 46/46, so they think you're a real capabability to the RAF!
Still Well done and good luck!
i have applied for avionics electrical so does anyone no what the pass requierment wil beRAF aptitude test advice/help?
The questions themselves are not that hard, basic math, problem solving some language and spatial awareness. It's the time you are given, which is very little, that makes the test tricky. What you need to do is time yourself doing the test and then try and beat it. Once you have done that (doing the same test over and over is no good because you will get to know the questions), get on the internet and look for IQ tests and do as many of these as possible and more importantly as quickly as possible and see what your score will be then. Ideally you need to aim for 140+. You have to train your brain to think quickly (it is like a muscle after all) and also under pressure, as you are going to be nervous and stressed when you do the test for real, as well as not knowing what the questions are or what format they will be in.
If it all goes wrong though you do have a second chance to improve your score.
Also after the test you will have a final interview, to see if you have the right attitude to be allowed into the service, for instance if you have BNP tattooed across your forehead then I don't think you would have made it past the door. You will need to know a basic idea of what鈥檚 going on in the world, as we are an international organisation, know where British forces are serving around the world (apart from Iraq and Afghanistan obviously), find out what your job will entail in your chosen trade (aircraft avionics). If you don't know the answer to a question don't waffle on just say I鈥檓 afraid I don't have an answer for that right now but I鈥檒l find out and get back to you, or something like. The person asking the questions will already know the answer he/she just wants to see how you handle yourself, whether you just waffle or give a composed decisive answer which will show you have confidence in yourself etc.
It is at the end of the day just a job interview, try not to get too worked up over it, also its ten years since I did my aptitude test but I think the score for aircraft trades is 37+, so get some training in.RAF aptitude test advice/help?
-10 marks maybe all right but you really have to push yourself to get 46/46, so they think you're a real capabability to the RAF!
Still Well done and good luck!
I have a 14 yr old step daughter who would LOVE to have her parents back together...I need some advice. HELP?
My 14 yr old step daughter is super super sweet to my face, wants me to do things for her and with her but...she would love to have her parents back together. I know that will never happen because I am very secure in my marriage with my husband. Why does it bother me so much that she feels that way? Do I have a right to be hurt by that? Should I stop doing things with her? I need help. Any advice out there would be appreciated. Thanks!I have a 14 yr old step daughter who would LOVE to have her parents back together...I need some advice. HELP?
You can choose to be hurt by it, or you can simply realize that kids want their parents together.
If you were not part of their break-up, I would suggest you choose to not feel bad about the situation.
Validate what she says. Tell her it sounds like she loves both her mom and her dad, and you appreciate the difficult position she is in.
If you were a party to the break-up of their marriage. I.E. he left her for you, or you dated him before his divorce was final, then some of the guilt is rightly owned by you.
If that is the case, you were not the only one who destroyed the marriage, but you were not an advocate for them staying together.
If you were, I would apologize to her, or certainly sympathize with how she feels.
I wouldn't give hope or crush hope. Simply listen to her feelings and be understanding.
It's really not about you, so why you would feel hurt, unless you were a party to the break-up is beyond my understanding.I have a 14 yr old step daughter who would LOVE to have her parents back together...I need some advice. HELP?
Every child wants their mother and father to be together and have the perfect normal family. She's nice to you probably because you were not the reason her parents are not together. Don't stop doing things with her. Make her life as happy as it can be and she will eventually give up hope on wanting them together. You shouldn't be hurt but understanding. Explain that sometimes things don't work out in adult relationships but that you all love her very much.
I think that this is a very normal wish for any child. I also think that if she is smart enough, which most teenagers are, she could be using this as something to hold over your head. I'm sure you know that kids are very manipulative and if she sees a reaction from you then it would make sense to say that she is using it to either get something from you or just to hurt you. Consider the fact that this child might be very angry about her parent's divorce. If she is still harboring that anger then it would be really easy to take it out on you. Better you than the two people that she loves and hopes will reconcile.
My advice would be to talk to your husband and her mother. All of you should sit down and discuss the situation and her parents need to tell her, in front of you, that they are not getting back together. Perhaps provide counseling for her. I would be concerned that if she couldn't use you as an outlet for her anger that she might choose an even more unhealthy way to release it. Good luck!
You have to be the adult here. Speaking as a step dad who's step daughters hated my guts. Just keep loving her. When she grows up she'll love you even more, mine did ;}
Hope this helps
I put up with the same thing. My step son was someone who let it be known that he would like to have his parents back together. We never have had a good relationship. It's not bad, it's just not great either and it's been 10 years. Good luck.
how she feel is natural, all children want there parent to stay together, but since you and her father are happy then dont let
it worry you. dont stop doing things for her, unless it come
a problem dont worry so much.
You can choose to be hurt by it, or you can simply realize that kids want their parents together.
If you were not part of their break-up, I would suggest you choose to not feel bad about the situation.
Validate what she says. Tell her it sounds like she loves both her mom and her dad, and you appreciate the difficult position she is in.
If you were a party to the break-up of their marriage. I.E. he left her for you, or you dated him before his divorce was final, then some of the guilt is rightly owned by you.
If that is the case, you were not the only one who destroyed the marriage, but you were not an advocate for them staying together.
If you were, I would apologize to her, or certainly sympathize with how she feels.
I wouldn't give hope or crush hope. Simply listen to her feelings and be understanding.
It's really not about you, so why you would feel hurt, unless you were a party to the break-up is beyond my understanding.I have a 14 yr old step daughter who would LOVE to have her parents back together...I need some advice. HELP?
Every child wants their mother and father to be together and have the perfect normal family. She's nice to you probably because you were not the reason her parents are not together. Don't stop doing things with her. Make her life as happy as it can be and she will eventually give up hope on wanting them together. You shouldn't be hurt but understanding. Explain that sometimes things don't work out in adult relationships but that you all love her very much.
I think that this is a very normal wish for any child. I also think that if she is smart enough, which most teenagers are, she could be using this as something to hold over your head. I'm sure you know that kids are very manipulative and if she sees a reaction from you then it would make sense to say that she is using it to either get something from you or just to hurt you. Consider the fact that this child might be very angry about her parent's divorce. If she is still harboring that anger then it would be really easy to take it out on you. Better you than the two people that she loves and hopes will reconcile.
My advice would be to talk to your husband and her mother. All of you should sit down and discuss the situation and her parents need to tell her, in front of you, that they are not getting back together. Perhaps provide counseling for her. I would be concerned that if she couldn't use you as an outlet for her anger that she might choose an even more unhealthy way to release it. Good luck!
You have to be the adult here. Speaking as a step dad who's step daughters hated my guts. Just keep loving her. When she grows up she'll love you even more, mine did ;}
Hope this helps
I put up with the same thing. My step son was someone who let it be known that he would like to have his parents back together. We never have had a good relationship. It's not bad, it's just not great either and it's been 10 years. Good luck.
how she feel is natural, all children want there parent to stay together, but since you and her father are happy then dont let
it worry you. dont stop doing things for her, unless it come
a problem dont worry so much.
Girl advice, help please!?
umm so i started talking to this girl on match like a month ago...exchanged like 6 emails and then her last email it took me like a week to repy bc of college crap etc work too. i finally did a week l8er and she never responded back. i actually kinda forgot about her lol. well, not really...i just stopped emailing/viewing her profile. but i actually always found her my most interesting, nicest, cutest ';match';. anyway, i sent her my myspace url during the third email i sent, but she never did nething w/ it.
well just now i got an email from her on myspace (recognize her from the pic). havent heard from her since, i think, may 1 or so.
what do you think? in the beginning she was saying she likes how i'm down 2 earth n a family type person too. etc.
ADVICE: so her email just said ';hey';. i mean she must be interested in someway or w/e, otherwise why would she go thru my old emails to find my myspace link? should i reply? and say what? she did say she was ';shy at first'; mayb this proofGirl advice, help please!?
Maybe she was angry that you forgot about her for a while, so she wanted to do the same and ';forget'; you for a while.
If it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world.
Don't be persistent in bugging her. That irks me when people do that to me, especially on myspace.Girl advice, help please!?
Dude if she is anything like me I get several hundred emails per day. Do not get played by a player. You snoozed and lost bro lots of women out there a HEY a relationship does not make. She was likely being polite. Move on. Stop stalking.
She probably IS just shy it will probably just take a while for her to get out of her shell. Just try to show confidence and that you are not going to hurt her.
Yes reply to the message and just do some small talk. the more that you keep talking the more comfortable you will become.
Good luck
keep e-mailing her. i have a friend whos in college all da way in california and when he didnt e-mail me in like a week i felt like i didnt have mybest friend to talk 2. just keep e-mailing her she will respond. why dont you guys go out on a real date not by e-mails.
well just now i got an email from her on myspace (recognize her from the pic). havent heard from her since, i think, may 1 or so.
what do you think? in the beginning she was saying she likes how i'm down 2 earth n a family type person too. etc.
ADVICE: so her email just said ';hey';. i mean she must be interested in someway or w/e, otherwise why would she go thru my old emails to find my myspace link? should i reply? and say what? she did say she was ';shy at first'; mayb this proofGirl advice, help please!?
Maybe she was angry that you forgot about her for a while, so she wanted to do the same and ';forget'; you for a while.
If it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world.
Don't be persistent in bugging her. That irks me when people do that to me, especially on myspace.Girl advice, help please!?
Dude if she is anything like me I get several hundred emails per day. Do not get played by a player. You snoozed and lost bro lots of women out there a HEY a relationship does not make. She was likely being polite. Move on. Stop stalking.
She probably IS just shy it will probably just take a while for her to get out of her shell. Just try to show confidence and that you are not going to hurt her.
Yes reply to the message and just do some small talk. the more that you keep talking the more comfortable you will become.
Good luck
keep e-mailing her. i have a friend whos in college all da way in california and when he didnt e-mail me in like a week i felt like i didnt have mybest friend to talk 2. just keep e-mailing her she will respond. why dont you guys go out on a real date not by e-mails.
Need Advice.....Help?
Hey Im Asking This 4 A Friend, Ne Advice Wud B Great ';I've Been With This Guy 4 About 2 Or 3 Months....We Hit It Off And I Fell 4 Him Very Quickly And Decided 2 Lose My Virginity 2 Him. Well A Week Or So Ago He Decides 2 Tell Me All This Stuff Like That His Ex Gf May Be Pregnant, That He Has 2 Kids, That Hes Actually 25, Not 21 etc. He Swears He Didnt Cheat On Me With The Ex, That It Happened Just b4 We Got 2gether, And As 4 The Other Stuff He Said 'If I Wud Have Asked, He Wud Have Told', That He Didnt Lie. I Dont Know What 2 Do, I Realy Love Him, But I Dont Know Whether I Can Trust Him. So Do U Think He Just Wanted 2 Sleep With Me And Thats Y He Only Told Me All This Stuff Afterwards And Not b4, Or Do U Think He Really May Like Me. Help, Im Only 18 And I Dont Wanna Get Myself Into A Bad Relationship';Need Advice.....Help?
He just wanted to sleep with you. Hope you used protection! People lie all the time to get what they want. He's 25 and took advantage of you being young.Sorry this happened to you but a good lesson learned!Good Luck.Need Advice.....Help?
He just wants to sleep with yo. I'm sorry
He just wanted to sleep with you. Hope you used protection! People lie all the time to get what they want. He's 25 and took advantage of you being young.Sorry this happened to you but a good lesson learned!Good Luck.Need Advice.....Help?
He just wants to sleep with yo. I'm sorry
Need advice help!!!!!!?
im considering telling the guy i like that i like him how should i tell him, should i tell him, wont things be awkward if the feelings arent mutual, any adviceNeed advice help!!!!!!?
always a dilemna. the only way to find out is to tell him how you feel. communication is a key to any relationship, so this would get you off to a good start. yes, you may face rejection, but that also is a part of dating and life. so tell him, you may well be happy with his response to you. go for it :)Need advice help!!!!!!?
its always awkward, you just have to take the risk and do it. If you dont tell him you will regret it. just tell him you think you have feelings for him.
first wair a short skirt and no underwear walk up to him give him a deep sentual kiss say nothing then take him to your room and well the rest should fall in to place
Umm tell him and deal with the rejection or don't tell him and sit around wishing you had.
say do you want to be my bf
always a dilemna. the only way to find out is to tell him how you feel. communication is a key to any relationship, so this would get you off to a good start. yes, you may face rejection, but that also is a part of dating and life. so tell him, you may well be happy with his response to you. go for it :)Need advice help!!!!!!?
its always awkward, you just have to take the risk and do it. If you dont tell him you will regret it. just tell him you think you have feelings for him.
first wair a short skirt and no underwear walk up to him give him a deep sentual kiss say nothing then take him to your room and well the rest should fall in to place
Umm tell him and deal with the rejection or don't tell him and sit around wishing you had.
say do you want to be my bf
Dating advice help!!?
omg i jus gave this really cute guy my number ut i need some advice for some topics we can talk about on the phone.. because im kinda blank here.. please help
...appreciate it**Dating advice help!!?
bacon and pirates?maybelline
...appreciate it**Dating advice help!!?
bacon and pirates?
Girl advice? help please....?
umm so i started talking to this girl on match like a month ago...exchanged like 6 emails and then her last email it took me like a week to repy bc of college crap etc work too. i finally did a week l8er and she never responded back. i actually kinda forgot about her lol. well, not really...i just stopped emailing/viewing her profile. but i actually always found her my most interesting, nicest, cutest ';match';. anyway, i sent her my myspace url during the third email i sent, but she never did nething w/ it.
well just now i got an email from her on myspace (recognize her from the pic). havent heard from her since, i think, may 1 or so.
what do you think? in the beginning she was saying she likes how i'm down 2 earth n a family type person too. etc.
so her email just said ';hey';. i mean she must be interested in someway or w/e, otherwise why would she go thru my old emails to find my myspace link? she did say she was ';shy at first'; maybe this is proof. so i replied, said ';hey wuts up';Girl advice? help please....?
Re introduce yourself again. Think that she forgot about you. Ask her out for coofee or something. Hang out together.
well just now i got an email from her on myspace (recognize her from the pic). havent heard from her since, i think, may 1 or so.
what do you think? in the beginning she was saying she likes how i'm down 2 earth n a family type person too. etc.
so her email just said ';hey';. i mean she must be interested in someway or w/e, otherwise why would she go thru my old emails to find my myspace link? she did say she was ';shy at first'; maybe this is proof. so i replied, said ';hey wuts up';Girl advice? help please....?
Re introduce yourself again. Think that she forgot about you. Ask her out for coofee or something. Hang out together.
Need advice/help?
Ive had periods for almost 7 years now and theyve always been extremely heavy (Im the type that almost feels faint due to this) but this month my period was very light, then afterwards I was having light pink bleeding that looked almost diluted, then straight after that I had very dark brown discharge in my underwear.
all this happened for a total of 11 days.
of course, I should be praising that I didnt get the usual cramps I would do and feel so ill, but its baffled me! - basically cause ive had them 7 years, can they change after having them this long?
any ideas what could cause this? if this has anything to do with it, I am sexually active with a guy ive been with for four years, never been pregnant, never had a miscarriage.Need advice/help?
your period can chage due to a number of differnt things: stress, more active, less active, inside more, outside more, age, work/live with other females ect. the brownish and pink colors are normal. If you have concerns, you should always contact your OB-GYN. Are you due for an exam, if so, just make an appointment and express your concerns then.
all this happened for a total of 11 days.
of course, I should be praising that I didnt get the usual cramps I would do and feel so ill, but its baffled me! - basically cause ive had them 7 years, can they change after having them this long?
any ideas what could cause this? if this has anything to do with it, I am sexually active with a guy ive been with for four years, never been pregnant, never had a miscarriage.Need advice/help?
your period can chage due to a number of differnt things: stress, more active, less active, inside more, outside more, age, work/live with other females ect. the brownish and pink colors are normal. If you have concerns, you should always contact your OB-GYN. Are you due for an exam, if so, just make an appointment and express your concerns then.
I need advice! Help!?
Ok, I have to go to camp with my team. Now, the girl that I am rooming with I have known for a long time. But about half way into the school year last year, she became bisexual. Like, she went out with girls (you know the whole kissing, holding hands, grabing butt.... yuck). Not that I have any problem with them, but I perfer to hang out with straight people, like myself. Anyway, I just found out a few days ago that she turned full gay. Like, not even going out with boys anymore and strikley girls. And I don't want to sound cocky or stuck up or full of myself or anything, but I feel a little aquword rooming with her. Because we will be changing infront of each other and everything, and I don't like that. And I feel really bad about feeling this way, because she is a really nice person and I don't want to act like I am so full of myself that she is in love with me. Because she might not even like me like that, but I don't know. What do I do to feel more comfortable rooming with her?I need advice! Help!?
Question for you - are you attracted to every guy that you see? Then you should know that lesbians are not attracted to every female they see. As long as she's aware that you're not interested in that sort of lifestyle then she shouldn't try to force it on you. I realize that it's not easy to be in a room with someone who is different from you, but it may turn out to be better than you think and open your eyes to a few things. You may find that it's OK to be friends with someone who is a lesbian. Guys and girls have platonic relationships all of the time, so can a straight girl and a lesbian girl.
I'm not saying it won't be weird at all, but if you try to go into it open minded and instead think of her like a boy it might not be as weird.
OK and now I'm playing Devil's Advocate - there are ways to change where you don't have to show much skin. Practice that (like taking your bra off under your shirt) and maybe it won't be so bad.
Good luck.I need advice! Help!?
If you are roomies, you cannot be prudes.
Talk about what you each feel comfortable / uncomfortable with, and how you respect each others privacy and sexuality. If you are adult and reasonable about it then some common rules will become obvious.
If this fails, look for new roomies.
If she is so wonderful then have a chat with her. Let her know you are straight and let it be. I am sure you can find another place to change or wait till she is somewhere else. Why do so many people have a phobia with this issue. If she comes onto you then that is a different story but the majority of the gays and lesbians know the boundaries and they will leave you alone. Just think, you could be rooming with a straight girl who doesn't bath or something. Hehehehehe.
ok go to ryou room persanel and they will help you
Well, the best advice I can say is take it as it comes, if she knows you well enough to know that you are not that way then she should respect you enough to leave you alone. If you are still uncomfortable about changing in the room with her just ask her if she wouldn't mind turning away, if you feel guilty about asking tell her you're just shy. If it comes to a confrontation, tell her how you are feeling, if she's as nice as you say then she should understand how you feel.
Good luck hun.
Just tell her that you're staright and not interested and if she trys anything you'll kick her a**
See if you can change rooms with one of her dikes and tell her you did it to make her happy, she will love you for it!!!
you have a good point. i'm straight but i'm glad to see you not saying ';omg she's such a freak. what do i do?'; you seem like a really down-to-earth person.
i wouldn't change in the bathroom because if you want to be her friend and she doesn't even LIKE you more than a friend that may offend her. i see where it can be awkward, so i think what you should do is that when your changing (this only works for changing pants) take off your pants and use the pants you just took off and put them in front of your legs (kinda like a shield) and while you're putting on new ones you STILL hold those other pants in front of you. for your top, there's really nothing you can do. just try to change as quickly as possible. obviously socks aren't a problem, but if you need to change underwear then go behind a bed or something. if she asks why your hiding just say that you got a really bad scrape on your stomach and it's REALLY nasty looking. if she's one of those weirdos that ask you if she can see the scrape then just plainly say that you don't feel comfortable staring at your injury.
hope this helps. you're in a tough situation, so there's not much you can do to improve it.
i think that you should think about this do you think that she is interested in you and if she is tell her that you r totally into guys and set boundarys dont let her get the chance
just talk to her normaly and if she trys anything on you tellher you just like her as a friend trust me she'll understand!
you dont need to change your roomie ... or change that your straight , lol . but if theres a bathroom ( which there should be ) change in there if you dont feel comfortable . and you dont sound cocky , stuck up , or full of your self , i'd think and feel the same exact way . and you can always talk to the people who choose who rooms with who , and see if they can switch you with some one else , and just tell them that you dont feel comfortable ... at all with rooming with her . and they should understand . hope my advise worked . and you can always e-mail me at shop_aholic47@yahoo.com
-samantha
well if you don't think about it being weird then it won't be...just cause she's gayy doesn't mean that she's some kind of animal that would just jump on you...she's still a person...still human and still sensible...you don't even have to be friends...but just think about it being normal..and that's how it'll feel....if you worry too much...then you'll think it's weird...she may not even like you like that...she probably just wants to be friends..and even if she does like you, she knows that your straight..so just chill, relax, don't worry, be happy!
Sounds like you have a problem. I'm sure there is a bathroom where you can change and she won't have to see you. If she is a nice person and you are straight, then you have nothing to worry about. Just let her know that you aren't into her lifestyle and would appreciate it if she didn't make you feel uncomfortable about the situation
get you head out of your *** you don't have to change in front of her there is a bathroom in your rooms
i say if she has a nice body just bang her!! all the cool girls are doing it and you don't want to be left out do you?? what would you rather see two girls making love or two guys making love?? see that's an easy answer cause nobody finds 2 guys making love beautiful!! make out with her she'll teach you a thing or 2
Well, if you can, maybe you could change clothes underneath your bed sheets, I've done that when I've felt uncomfortable. Also you might try changing when she's gone to the bathroom or breakfast.
What do you mean?
I understand you being worried and feeling a little awkward sharing your room knowing she is into girls. If I were you- Id just do things all like u normally do. Keep your chin up- dont let her know it bothers you and enjoy camp! She may be gay but it doesnt mean YOU are her type. She doesnt like ALL girls just like you dont like ALL boys ya know what I mean? She is still a person with feelings and should not be treated badly because of this. Its probably tough as heck for her right now and that would really mess it up for her! If she DOES hit on you- explain you are into GUYS! If she hits on you sexually THEN you have full rights to change your room! Good luck and have fun
just lay out some ground rules to start with, like no touchy feely in the room and no dressing naked in the full view of each other except with panties and bra still on! and no flirting or trying to make a move on each other, by all means be nice, most of the time very few straight girls even attract lesbians! just have fun at camp!
Change in the bathroom and close the door.
if she does not put herself off on you then dont worry about it. she is a person as well and gay or bisexuality is not a curse
I can understand how you feel. I suggest changing outside and out of sight from this girl when you change if it makes you really uncomfortable. But do not comepletley avoid her. Talk to her once in a while or let her into a conversation with your friends.
If you want to feel more comfortable rooming with her, then you need to get over some of your issues. Besides her sexual preference, has anything else about her changed? I'm guessing the answer is no - she's still the same person you've known for a long time and who I imagine, you've had some great times with at camp. So, did you have issues changing in front of her before? Probably not. If you found out that she has ZERO interest in you, and only likes you as a friend, how is your relationship any different than it was 3 years ago? It isn't!!! So - I would guess that most of your fear/stress is over her finding you attractive.... so get that issue out of the way as quickly as you can.
Tell her you want to talk to her, tell her how you feel and how you value her friendship and that you respect her and her decision to be herself. Then joke that this means more boys for you! (which should make her laugh and tell her that you are not gay in one shot!)
Chances are that she's not interested in you at all and you're stressing for no reason! Don't let it ruin your friendship!
Good Luck!!
Aloha!
There is no need to be judgemental toward her. Just tell her simply and plainly that you wnat to make a change.
You didn't indicate whether there is a lease and connecting agreement between the two of you. If the lease is in your name give her a decent amount of time to find another place but don't leave it open ended. Something like: by August 31 or talk to me sooner if it isn't going to happen.
There is nothing wrong with changing room-mates. Don't feel guilty. Room-mates are changed for many reasons.
Just be straight up with her and tell her that her lifestyle is fine for her, but you don't want any part of it. Just because she is gay doesn't necessarily mean that she is attracted to you or that she will hit on you just because you are female.
Don't rooms have bathrooms or closets? Change in there and if she makes a pass at you, be very straightforward and clear, and say, no thanx i'm really not into that. She has to respect what you are saying, if shedoesn't then report her and don't feel guilty.
well if u are realy worried about it u could ask to change dorms or u could talk to her aobut it and see if u could change in the bathroom or maybe when she is not around.
if u r not comfortable with her.....just tell her......
u have it better than wat i had to go thro i had to sleep next to a gay chick and sh ewas in love with me it was horrible..... good luck just tell her that u rnt like that and u dont like her like that if she trys to come on u good luck and i feel for u cause im straight to and that chick was screwed up
Being Gay is not contagious. And as for her ';hitting'; on you, just tell her you don't swing that way. Her being gay is not a new thing, she has been for a long time, she just didn't know it.
I don't think she is the good friend that you seem to indicate. You can't talk to her about your feelings? What about hers? If she is a friend then you should be able to talk about it and tell her how you feel.
HOPEFULLY THE BATHROOM HAS A DOOR YOU CAN CLOSE FOR PRIVACY ......
JUST CHANGE IN THERE.
Question for you - are you attracted to every guy that you see? Then you should know that lesbians are not attracted to every female they see. As long as she's aware that you're not interested in that sort of lifestyle then she shouldn't try to force it on you. I realize that it's not easy to be in a room with someone who is different from you, but it may turn out to be better than you think and open your eyes to a few things. You may find that it's OK to be friends with someone who is a lesbian. Guys and girls have platonic relationships all of the time, so can a straight girl and a lesbian girl.
I'm not saying it won't be weird at all, but if you try to go into it open minded and instead think of her like a boy it might not be as weird.
OK and now I'm playing Devil's Advocate - there are ways to change where you don't have to show much skin. Practice that (like taking your bra off under your shirt) and maybe it won't be so bad.
Good luck.I need advice! Help!?
If you are roomies, you cannot be prudes.
Talk about what you each feel comfortable / uncomfortable with, and how you respect each others privacy and sexuality. If you are adult and reasonable about it then some common rules will become obvious.
If this fails, look for new roomies.
If she is so wonderful then have a chat with her. Let her know you are straight and let it be. I am sure you can find another place to change or wait till she is somewhere else. Why do so many people have a phobia with this issue. If she comes onto you then that is a different story but the majority of the gays and lesbians know the boundaries and they will leave you alone. Just think, you could be rooming with a straight girl who doesn't bath or something. Hehehehehe.
ok go to ryou room persanel and they will help you
Well, the best advice I can say is take it as it comes, if she knows you well enough to know that you are not that way then she should respect you enough to leave you alone. If you are still uncomfortable about changing in the room with her just ask her if she wouldn't mind turning away, if you feel guilty about asking tell her you're just shy. If it comes to a confrontation, tell her how you are feeling, if she's as nice as you say then she should understand how you feel.
Good luck hun.
Just tell her that you're staright and not interested and if she trys anything you'll kick her a**
See if you can change rooms with one of her dikes and tell her you did it to make her happy, she will love you for it!!!
you have a good point. i'm straight but i'm glad to see you not saying ';omg she's such a freak. what do i do?'; you seem like a really down-to-earth person.
i wouldn't change in the bathroom because if you want to be her friend and she doesn't even LIKE you more than a friend that may offend her. i see where it can be awkward, so i think what you should do is that when your changing (this only works for changing pants) take off your pants and use the pants you just took off and put them in front of your legs (kinda like a shield) and while you're putting on new ones you STILL hold those other pants in front of you. for your top, there's really nothing you can do. just try to change as quickly as possible. obviously socks aren't a problem, but if you need to change underwear then go behind a bed or something. if she asks why your hiding just say that you got a really bad scrape on your stomach and it's REALLY nasty looking. if she's one of those weirdos that ask you if she can see the scrape then just plainly say that you don't feel comfortable staring at your injury.
hope this helps. you're in a tough situation, so there's not much you can do to improve it.
i think that you should think about this do you think that she is interested in you and if she is tell her that you r totally into guys and set boundarys dont let her get the chance
just talk to her normaly and if she trys anything on you tellher you just like her as a friend trust me she'll understand!
you dont need to change your roomie ... or change that your straight , lol . but if theres a bathroom ( which there should be ) change in there if you dont feel comfortable . and you dont sound cocky , stuck up , or full of your self , i'd think and feel the same exact way . and you can always talk to the people who choose who rooms with who , and see if they can switch you with some one else , and just tell them that you dont feel comfortable ... at all with rooming with her . and they should understand . hope my advise worked . and you can always e-mail me at shop_aholic47@yahoo.com
-samantha
well if you don't think about it being weird then it won't be...just cause she's gayy doesn't mean that she's some kind of animal that would just jump on you...she's still a person...still human and still sensible...you don't even have to be friends...but just think about it being normal..and that's how it'll feel....if you worry too much...then you'll think it's weird...she may not even like you like that...she probably just wants to be friends..and even if she does like you, she knows that your straight..so just chill, relax, don't worry, be happy!
Sounds like you have a problem. I'm sure there is a bathroom where you can change and she won't have to see you. If she is a nice person and you are straight, then you have nothing to worry about. Just let her know that you aren't into her lifestyle and would appreciate it if she didn't make you feel uncomfortable about the situation
get you head out of your *** you don't have to change in front of her there is a bathroom in your rooms
i say if she has a nice body just bang her!! all the cool girls are doing it and you don't want to be left out do you?? what would you rather see two girls making love or two guys making love?? see that's an easy answer cause nobody finds 2 guys making love beautiful!! make out with her she'll teach you a thing or 2
Well, if you can, maybe you could change clothes underneath your bed sheets, I've done that when I've felt uncomfortable. Also you might try changing when she's gone to the bathroom or breakfast.
What do you mean?
I understand you being worried and feeling a little awkward sharing your room knowing she is into girls. If I were you- Id just do things all like u normally do. Keep your chin up- dont let her know it bothers you and enjoy camp! She may be gay but it doesnt mean YOU are her type. She doesnt like ALL girls just like you dont like ALL boys ya know what I mean? She is still a person with feelings and should not be treated badly because of this. Its probably tough as heck for her right now and that would really mess it up for her! If she DOES hit on you- explain you are into GUYS! If she hits on you sexually THEN you have full rights to change your room! Good luck and have fun
just lay out some ground rules to start with, like no touchy feely in the room and no dressing naked in the full view of each other except with panties and bra still on! and no flirting or trying to make a move on each other, by all means be nice, most of the time very few straight girls even attract lesbians! just have fun at camp!
Change in the bathroom and close the door.
if she does not put herself off on you then dont worry about it. she is a person as well and gay or bisexuality is not a curse
I can understand how you feel. I suggest changing outside and out of sight from this girl when you change if it makes you really uncomfortable. But do not comepletley avoid her. Talk to her once in a while or let her into a conversation with your friends.
If you want to feel more comfortable rooming with her, then you need to get over some of your issues. Besides her sexual preference, has anything else about her changed? I'm guessing the answer is no - she's still the same person you've known for a long time and who I imagine, you've had some great times with at camp. So, did you have issues changing in front of her before? Probably not. If you found out that she has ZERO interest in you, and only likes you as a friend, how is your relationship any different than it was 3 years ago? It isn't!!! So - I would guess that most of your fear/stress is over her finding you attractive.... so get that issue out of the way as quickly as you can.
Tell her you want to talk to her, tell her how you feel and how you value her friendship and that you respect her and her decision to be herself. Then joke that this means more boys for you! (which should make her laugh and tell her that you are not gay in one shot!)
Chances are that she's not interested in you at all and you're stressing for no reason! Don't let it ruin your friendship!
Good Luck!!
Aloha!
There is no need to be judgemental toward her. Just tell her simply and plainly that you wnat to make a change.
You didn't indicate whether there is a lease and connecting agreement between the two of you. If the lease is in your name give her a decent amount of time to find another place but don't leave it open ended. Something like: by August 31 or talk to me sooner if it isn't going to happen.
There is nothing wrong with changing room-mates. Don't feel guilty. Room-mates are changed for many reasons.
Just be straight up with her and tell her that her lifestyle is fine for her, but you don't want any part of it. Just because she is gay doesn't necessarily mean that she is attracted to you or that she will hit on you just because you are female.
Don't rooms have bathrooms or closets? Change in there and if she makes a pass at you, be very straightforward and clear, and say, no thanx i'm really not into that. She has to respect what you are saying, if shedoesn't then report her and don't feel guilty.
well if u are realy worried about it u could ask to change dorms or u could talk to her aobut it and see if u could change in the bathroom or maybe when she is not around.
if u r not comfortable with her.....just tell her......
u have it better than wat i had to go thro i had to sleep next to a gay chick and sh ewas in love with me it was horrible..... good luck just tell her that u rnt like that and u dont like her like that if she trys to come on u good luck and i feel for u cause im straight to and that chick was screwed up
Being Gay is not contagious. And as for her ';hitting'; on you, just tell her you don't swing that way. Her being gay is not a new thing, she has been for a long time, she just didn't know it.
I don't think she is the good friend that you seem to indicate. You can't talk to her about your feelings? What about hers? If she is a friend then you should be able to talk about it and tell her how you feel.
HOPEFULLY THE BATHROOM HAS A DOOR YOU CAN CLOSE FOR PRIVACY ......
JUST CHANGE IN THERE.
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